Sagittarius am I wrong or immature—

Damn

Ok. Here's the deal. You had sex with a man. That's it.

He played the nice guy till he got what he wanted and he bounced.

Learn this lesson early. Dont become bitter cause you're only 22. Please dont let this bad apple spoil you

No harm, no foul with you trying to run him down for answers. Some men are terrible with accountability.

He basically told you he was only down for action when he wanted sex so bad the 1st time. That was a red flag. You held your ground and made him wait. hes going to wait you out if he wants it.

Pay him no more mind.

Live your best life and he will be forgotten.

Also dont let no man place boundaries on you when they havent asked you for a commitment.

You go to Vegas and do you!

Keep doing you till you get real commitment.

Posted by Jasminelola

Hey guys. So I am a Sagittarius female I’m 22 yrs old. I met this guy via Instagram, we followed each other and starting DMing and being flirty. He is a Sagittarius male his birthday is 5 days before mine he’s 28 and in med school here and very handsome and tall. So we ended up going on a date at an arcade/bar place that’s downtown, it was very fun and he bought us drinks he was great. But we’re both very sexual being so he had so we were very playful and touchy. We stayed in the parking lot for hours just talking, our conversations were great it flowed so easily and we were kissing and boo’d up. He wanted us to have sex already. He said he was grown and what’s the point of waiting if we’re going to do it anyways. I didn’t care, I made him wait anyways and and he said that it’s good and he respects it and blah blah says he understands. So we have sex and everything is still great, we acted like we were together, we both agreed we wouldn’t do anything with anyone else. Even when I left for a short trip to Vegas he said I better not be out there wildin out. So anyways, there would be days I would d hear from him as quick it would take him hours or a full day. He said he was busy with med school and working a job, he said I should understand that he’s busy and that this is his life. Which I completely understood.

Prior to all of this I told him that I didn’t wanna have sex with him because I’m emotional and sex is serious to me and I don’t want my feelings hurt. He said “i welcome the feelings.” “I’m grown and mature I can handle that”. So I decided to trust him.

So one day I texted him “miss you boo” after not talking for 2 days. And he never responded...i assumed he was busy by day one and then it went to two days and i was like this is ridiculous no one is ever THAT busy. So I find out through one of our mutual friends he had been texting him that day and he invited him out to hangout and the med school guy said no he’s chilling tonight. So I was offended because he got my text 2 days ago. So the mutual friend was talking to me that night about the situation since he saw i was upset. He said that he doesn’t know forsure but he would think that the med school guy has a lot of females since he’s good looking and in med school (mind you he told me that I have nothing to worry about with him and other girls that we’re basically exclusive). So at this point I’m just irritated. I texted him “damn no text back” and he didn’t reply. And I kinda went off and just said “alright I don’t know what your problem is. Donnell already talked to you today so the fact that you can’t text me is wack. So is there another girl you’re dealing with or what” he texted me back 2 hours later and said “Lol you need to chill” and I said “shut up” from there it went down hill we didn’t speak for a day. I texted him and apologized for going off and that we should talk so I can explain how I felt and what happened. He ignored me for 5 days I sent like 4 texts one each day. The last day I said “we’re both grown, if you don’t want this anymore can you atleast let me know” he finally said something when I DMED him on IG he said “you’re doing too much and I don’t have time to deal with it. You’re probably doing your own thing anyways” like huh? So I told him I was hurt and he said he apologizes but he just doesn’t have time for it. I told him that he never even got to hear me out. I couldn’t believe he but me out just like that. I literally felt crazy he kept ignoring me and it made me even more upset. I even tried calling him so we can talk. He ignored it and then my texts started sending green. So I thought I was blocked lol. I left him a voicemail just because I was blocked anyways I really needed to just talk and get everything off my chest there was no closure. I was nice in the voicemail no cussing nothing I just expressed how I felt and what happened. Turns out i wasn’t blocked LOL. he got the voicemail how embarrassing. And he called me immature. He said I’m a nice girl but our level of maturity is different and he basically doesn’t wanna deal with me anymore. Do you guys think that was immature—? I feel like this could’ve all been solved with one simple conversation but I don’t feel like I was wrong. He knew I was an emotional person. He told me I should’ve known better. But no I shouldn’t have? I only knew him for barely almost 2 months, we’re still getting to know each other how am i supposed to no he has 0 patience? I don’t feel like I was wrong. I feel embarrassed and dumb for texting him a lot but I just cared so much. I feel like i has the right to ask questions what do you guys think? He literally is gone cut me out. Done.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva