Having feelings for a Sag Woman

I need some advice on a Sagittarius girl. When we first met each other we used to talk a lot small talk and stuff. Now every time I try to engage in small talks she say she always disliked them and and say it is pointless. She says she likes my wisdom and want those topics but when I try to strike a conversation with those topics through text she says that she has no time to reply because either busy or want some alone time. I get alone time but during the alone time she still turns on another app and chat with people, just not me. She does say she likes video chatting with me and did tell me that I am the only one she is video chatting. However during the video chat we only do English lesson and there isn't anytime for me to get to know more about her. We had this feeling where even though we met for a short time only but the both of us had this feeling where we have known each other for a long time. She say it maybe because she treats me like a good friend and told me that she does it very often to her close friends because she knows that they will always be there no matter what. We also have a little trip coming up and it will be the first time we meet each other. I am very confused right now. I want to get to know more about her but at the same time don't want to annoy her or give her pressure. Please help me.

You should leave her alone until you meet in person. She doesn't seem to be into you that much right now.

Just because you have a feeling that you've known eachother for a long time, it doesn't mean it's a romantic one. It could just be something familiar and comforting.

I really don't think she has romantic feelings for you. It would be very clear if she did.

Posted by saggurl88
You should leave her alone until you meet in person. She doesn't seem to be into you that much right now.

Just because you have a feeling that you've known eachother for a long time, it doesn't mean it's a romantic one. It could just be something familiar and comforting.

I really don't think she has romantic feelings for you. It would be very clear if she did.

Thanks for the reply~ Well it wasn't me who said that it feels like we've known each other for a while, she did and I just agreed. However, I guess you are right. I should wait until we see each other. In the meantime I should stop talking to her?

If you have feelings for her. Wait till you're in person and tell her a funny story and feed her, than ask her out on a date.

Posted by leo_boy123

Posted by saggurl88
You should leave her alone until you meet in person. She doesn't seem to be into you that much right now.

Just because you have a feeling that you've known eachother for a long time, it doesn't mean it's a romantic one. It could just be something familiar and comforting.

I really don't think she has romantic feelings for you. It would be very clear if she did.

Thanks for the reply~ Well it wasn't me who said that it feels like we've known each other for a while, she did and I just agreed. However, I guess you are right. I should wait until we see each other. In the meantime I should stop talking to her?

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How long until you meet?

If she isn't responding back, then yeah stop texting her.

Posted by UnicornSag
I agree with saggurl88...she definitely doesn't seem into you. Personally if I'm into someone I'll rather chat with them than anyone else around, and surely would make all the time I can to spend more time with that person. Like I mentioned one time in my thread, when Cap I was talking to told me that he feels I don't pay him enough attention and would rather play game than talk to him it shocked me completely, I told him multiple times to not ever think of that and that I'll always be there and have time for him. Closed everything else I was doing and completely dedicated time to him. So I guess you can see how Sag can be devoted once they're into someone. See what happens on that trip and decide is it worth going any further for it. As the situation is now she doesn't show much interest into you tbh

She is messaging back but just not as frequent as before. She did say that I wasn't acting normal while I am texting but when I do video chat with her she says I am normal. I am taking a lot of precautions because I do not want to screw this one up. We will be going at the end of April until the beginning of May and everything is booked. I wonder how can I talk to her but at the same time knowing when to text her and when not to? It is hard to tell when she is busy and when she isn't. She will stop me and tell me she is busy and talk later but before she wouldn't do that. I also heard small talk is a no-no with Sagittarius, how should I start a conversation and what should I say? Please help~

Text whenever you want. If she noticed that you've been acting different (and you, yourself said you have) then either text like you were doing and don't worry about her responses or ask her to video chat.

If the flow of conversing is better in video chats, then go for that. She will tell you when she has free time if she wants to talk.

I think she just needs time. For Leo’s we usually know when we wanna pursue someone or not or how serious we want to take it. Sounds like you already made up your mind about her but just calm down for a second. Get to really know her on that trip coming up.

Sometimes Leo’s get ahead of ourselves so just walk don’t run lol and i think you should be fine.

Thank you everyone for the wonderful and helpful responses~ I really appreciate it. I just want to know if it is true that Sagittarians do not really talk to their best friends and can go on without talking to them for months because they know they will be there and not disappear?

Do you think that she is running away from me because she feels that I like her?

You are not a challenge to her, and she is becoming bored, or annoyed with you. If you really want her, ignore her a bit, become mysterious, and do not be an open book. She will begin to look at you differently, and that is a good thing..

Posted by Easha23000us
You are not a challenge to her, and she is becoming bored, or annoyed with you. If you really want her, ignore her a bit, become mysterious, and do not be an open book. She will begin to look at you differently, and that is a good thing..

This is so true about Sag women , when you’re there every second you annoy her.

Bring on the challenge