Scorpio GF broke up with me during covid. She wants to focus on her masters. Will she come back?

Hi.

My Scorpio girlfriend and I ( Virgo) dated for 1 year and 1 month. She broke up with me during quarantine. She says she wants to focus on her masters and CPA. She also has a full time job with a lot of responsibility. She said she still wants me in her life and wants me to be there for here and she wants to be there for me.

She says she doesn’t have time for a relationship but this is not forever and just a few month. Will she come back or she just trying to be nice? Did she fall out of love with me because I showed signs of weakness during quarantine bc I was furloughed? She is 47 and I am 32. She use to be my boss before we started dating. I lover her sincerely and wanted to marry her. She thought I was never going to marry her and she was not thrilled about the age difference. Will she come once I have given her enough space? Should I wait for her or move on?

She sounds busy af, and doesn't have time to emotionally babysit a boyfriend. And you sound like you need some emotional babysitting. lol

Scorpios will amputate you if they need to. She doesn't need to. At least you can still be in her life, if it's good for you to have that.

She might be being honest with you, in that she doesn't have what it takes to be in a relationship right now.

It's also possible that during COVID you two spent too much time together? She might have felt suffocated.

She also could be reevaluating your relationship. Do you want kids? Maybe she thinks you two might not be right for each other long-term.

You got furloughed - not your fault. Why would this be weak? Unless, you were not showing much motivation to prepare for the future.

My advice:

Focus on yourself and try to get out there and wait. It doesn't seem like she's asked for space and that you are on a break - she broke up with you, and she's betting that you hang around.

What happens if she doesn't want to get back together? If she's met someone else (even if she hasn't pursued it with that person, it might have shaken her up). But, if she doesn't want to get back together then you will have wasted your time waiting for her. We've all done that. I've done it.

At least she's mature, it seems. But, perhaps she's being selfish and thinks she'll just get you back if nothing better comes along.

Plan your future, stay fit, get out there and date. Have some fun. I would really slow down the contact, even take a break from contacting her unless she contacts you.

If you love somebody set them free. If they return then they were always yours. If they don't then they were never yours and you were never theirs.

P.S. If you're going to have a tough time focusing on yourself and others, you might want to avoid her social media and contact. Seriously, the last thing you need is to be pining over her until she moves on with another man and/or tells you that you have not chance down the road. It's tough. Don't be another statistic in being the guy who get's strung along and doesn't end up with the girl in the end.

Posted by alexscaries

Also don't date someone at your age who can't menstruate.

I can't wait until I don't have murder scenes in my pants every month.

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Posted by alexscaries

Also don't date someone at your age who can't menstruate.

I can't wait until I don't have murder scenes in my pants every month.

Amen. Though I don’t know if I want to trade it for hot flashes. 😒

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Dude, I won't have to replace any more underwear. LMAO

Posted by Sith_Rogen

She was obviously cheating on you and found better pipe.

PLOT TWIST: HE IS ACTUALLY DATING GEMITATI

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Posted by alexscaries

Also don't date someone at your age who can't menstruate.

I can't wait until I don't have murder scenes in my pants every month.

ruining my couches and bed.

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Black sheets, and a mattress protector help with the bed. LOL

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Posted by Sith_Rogen

She was obviously cheating on you and found better pipe.

PLOT TWIST: HE IS ACTUALLY DATING GEMITATI

Is she pretending to be a Scorpio?

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No. lol. I am just trolling.

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Posted by alexscaries

Also don't date someone at your age who can't menstruate.

I can't wait until I don't have murder scenes in my pants every month.

ruining my couches and bed.

Black sheets, and a mattress protector help with the bed. LOL

Yeah, thank god for Mattress protectors -

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I don't think I have had any sheet color, other than black, for more than a decade. lol

Hey thanks everyone. FYI, I am not a child. I am 33 and I own my on place and I am very successful with a great job. I am not a immature little kid.

We did not spend much time together during covid. That is when she started distancing her self from me. I was weak not bc I was furloughed but I was being pessimistic.

You guys are right , I should move on. I think she might have felt attraction to someone else at work and it has rattled her. Scorpios are great but it’s really not advisable to be in a relationship with them.

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Posted by alexscaries

Also don't date someone at your age who can't menstruate.

I can't wait until I don't have murder scenes in my pants every month.

ruining my couches and bed.

Black sheets, and a mattress protector help with the bed. LOL

Yeah, thank god for Mattress protectors -

I don't think I have had any sheet color, other than black, for more than a decade. lol

my shit is fuked. I swear i have to use so much stain removers, i literally need to dump my stuff in the washer immediately

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Use peroxide and baking soda. 🙂

Posted by Chazzy

Hey thanks everyone. FYI, I am not a child. I am 33 and I own my on place and I am very successful with a great job. I am not a immature little kid.

We did not spend much time together during covid. That is when she started distancing her self from me. I was weak not bc I was furloughed but I was being pessimistic.

You guys are right , I should move on. I think she might have felt attraction to someone else at work and it has rattled her. Scorpios are great but it’s really not advisable to be in a relationship with them.

Just to be clear, age has nothing to do with maturity. One can be 55, and still act like a "child" in a relationship. That usually entails someone that has "red flag" type of behaviors.

COVID is going to result in 1 of 2 things. An explosion of childbirths, or relationship failures. Sounds like she kept herself busy, while you had too much time on your hands and started getting annoying.

I have my job back now and I am working on my self and staying fit. I am not going to contact her for 30 days. Should I write her a love letter in a few weeks? I have not seen her in 60 days but she always answers my calls or messages right away. I don’t think she met anyone else either but who knows. Idk what she is doing.

I think she is focusing on Her masters and it’s an amazing thing for her.

I am being supportive and positive. Should I write her a love letter?

Posted by Chazzy

I have my job back now and I am working on my self and staying fit. I am not going to contact her for 30 days. Should I write her a love letter in a few weeks? I have not seen her in 60 days but she always answers my calls or messages right away. I don’t think she met anyone else either but who knows. Idk what she is doing.

I think she is focusing on Her masters and it’s an amazing thing for her.

Absolutely not if she is careerfocused and willing to dump you for whatever weakness you displayed, then any romantic

gesture will scream "pathetic niceguy" more than ever.

This is forum is fkn brutal. I am not a troll or a pathetic guy.

Are you sure you want to marry a woman who can't give you kids?

Plus she sounds like she isn't that interested in you.

You should keep FWB and start exploring other options romantically

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Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Scorpios will amputate you if they need to. She doesn't need to. At least you can still be in her life, if it's good for you to have that.

She might be being honest with you, in that she doesn't have what it takes to be in a relationship right now.

It's also possible that during COVID you two spent too much time together? She might have felt suffocated.

She also could be reevaluating your relationship. Do you want kids? Maybe she thinks you two might not be right for each other long-term.

You got furloughed - not your fault. Why would this be weak? Unless, you were not showing much motivation to prepare for the future.

My advice:

Focus on yourself and try to get out there and wait. It doesn't seem like she's asked for space and that you are on a break - she broke up with you, and she's betting that you hang around.

What happens if she doesn't want to get back together? If she's met someone else (even if she hasn't pursued it with that person, it might have shaken her up). But, if she doesn't want to get back together then you will have wasted your time waiting for her. We've all done that. I've done it.

At least she's mature, it seems. But, perhaps she's being selfish and thinks she'll just get you back if nothing better comes along.

Plan your future, stay fit, get out there and date. Have some fun. I would really slow down the contact, even take a break from contacting her unless she contacts you.

If you love somebody set them free. If they return then they were always yours. If they don't then they were never yours and you were never theirs.

P.S. If you're going to have a tough time focusing on yourself and others, you might want to avoid her social media and contact. Seriously, the last thing you need is to be pining over her until she moves on with another man and/or tells you that you have not chance down the road. It's tough. Don't be another statistic in being the guy who get's strung along and doesn't end up with the girl in the end.

Y’all Pisces are clingy motherfuckers, though. 👀

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1. He's not a Pisces. He's a Virgo.

2. I don't care what sign someone is, if you love someone and that person says they need space while keeping your hopes up (false or otherwise), you're going wish you were back together immediately, if you never wanted that space yourself.

3. How does your opinion about Pisces help this guy out? lol 😉

Besides, some Pisces are more clingy than others. I was more clingy in the past, especially when I put a woman on a pedestal and dove too quickly in the deep end.

I think it also depends on how their partners take it. I'm pretty busy with my job and I volunteer so I kind of need someone who has their own life, thought I do like spending time with my partner. I also need my own personal time. I've dated a clingy Virgo and a possessive Scorpio, as examples, where I would say they were more clingy than I was. I think people cling for various reasons -- security, control, comfort, etc.

I really think that, other than when they need their space, most Pisces simply like to spend time with the people they love.

They are so clingy. For some, being clingy is borderline annoying. But for others, it's kind of sweet.

It really depends on how people take it. Most Pisces just want to be in the presence of the people they love, and they want those people to feel appreciated and loved. It's not for everyone, but I also believe that potential partners who are too quick to judge might be losing out.

P.S. I think a certain degree of one's clingi-ness has a lot to do with one's attachment style , and can creep in to a greater degree if someone is anxious or anxious-avoidant.

Posted by Chazzy

This is forum is fkn brutal. I am not a troll or a pathetic guy.

Take the advice that makes sense to you and throw out the rest.

This is why advice from strangers rarely help, they can give you insight. But that’s about it.

You have to do what makes sense to you.

Posted by Chazzy

I have my job back now and I am working on my self and staying fit. I am not going to contact her for 30 days. Should I write her a love letter in a few weeks? I have not seen her in 60 days but she always answers my calls or messages right away. I don’t think she met anyone else either but who knows. Idk what she is doing.

I think she is focusing on Her masters and it’s an amazing thing for her.

I. just. can't. with. you.

I also think that age is just a number. Having such a gap is tough, but it also depends where both of you are in your lives.

Have you discussed kids, in that does she think you don't want kids? If so, maybe she's scared you'll change your mind.

Maybe she just realized she doesn't want anything serious, where you want that and she knows it.

Let's say she ghosted and blocked you, that would leave you without any answers, except that she didn't want anything to do with you. (Sometimes people ghost when they are scared and/or are not ready too.)

Right now you're in limbo waiting for her to return where she's given you hope that it will happen. I'm thinking that you might be looking at your breakup with rose-colored glasses. I don't often hear people use break-up language when they want space. Seems like you're on a break. She's not going to want you if you're not improving yourself (not that you have to for her, it's just part of life to improve oneself). And...you need to avoid coming off as desperate and needy. If you push too much you will push her away.

Posted by hydorah

Are you sure you want to marry a woman who can't give you kids?

Plus she sounds like she isn't that interested in you.

You should keep FWB and start exploring other options romantically

For the kids, we were going to do IVF and I said not at first but I needed more time to think about it and I changed my mind.

Some of my clothes are still at her place and I asked her to ship them to me 2 weeks ago and she still has not... she wants me to come back when she is done.

Thanks to everyone for their positive advice. I will follow my heart but I appreciate any wisdom or insight. I have not been in a million relationships.

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Posted by Chazzy

I am being supportive and positive. Should I write her a love letter?

Dude, stop being persistent. Live your life.

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I get this feeling that he was bombarding her with messages and calls, the whole time they were not physically together. Like he needed more verbal validation because of the lack of time spent together. Couple that with her keeping herself mentally busy by pursuing additional education, and him not having work to occupy his time, he just became a sinkhole of needing constant communication. That made her probably want a time out from being responsible for someone else's feelings, until things become "normal" again, so to speak.

you're not virgo

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Scorpios will amputate you if they need to. She doesn't need to. At least you can still be in her life, if it's good for you to have that.

She might be being honest with you, in that she doesn't have what it takes to be in a relationship right now.

It's also possible that during COVID you two spent too much time together? She might have felt suffocated.

She also could be reevaluating your relationship. Do you want kids? Maybe she thinks you two might not be right for each other long-term.

You got furloughed - not your fault. Why would this be weak? Unless, you were not showing much motivation to prepare for the future.

My advice:

Focus on yourself and try to get out there and wait. It doesn't seem like she's asked for space and that you are on a break - she broke up with you, and she's betting that you hang around.

What happens if she doesn't want to get back together? If she's met someone else (even if she hasn't pursued it with that person, it might have shaken her up). But, if she doesn't want to get back together then you will have wasted your time waiting for her. We've all done that. I've done it.

At least she's mature, it seems. But, perhaps she's being selfish and thinks she'll just get you back if nothing better comes along.

Plan your future, stay fit, get out there and date. Have some fun. I would really slow down the contact, even take a break from contacting her unless she contacts you.

If you love somebody set them free. If they return then they were always yours. If they don't then they were never yours and you were never theirs.

P.S. If you're going to have a tough time focusing on yourself and others, you might want to avoid her social media and contact. Seriously, the last thing you need is to be pining over her until she moves on with another man and/or tells you that you have not chance down the road. It's tough. Don't be another statistic in being the guy who get's strung along and doesn't end up with the girl in the end.

Y’all Pisces are clingy motherfuckers, though. 👀

1. He's not a Pisces. He's a Virgo.

2. I don't care what sign someone is, if you love someone and that person says they need space while keep your hopes up, you're going wish you were back together immediately, if you never wanted that space yourself.

3. How does your opinion about Pisces help this guy out? lol 😉

Besides, some Pisces are more clingy than others. I was more clingy in the past, especially when I put a woman on a pedestal and dove too quickly in the deep end.

I think it also depends on how their partners take it. I'm pretty busy with my job and I volunteer so I kind of need someone who has their own life, thought I do like spending time with my partner. I also need my own personal time. I've dated a clingy Virgo and a possessive Scorpio, as examples, where I would say they were more clingy than I was. I think people cling for various reasons -- security, control, comfort, etc.

I really think that, other than when they need their space, most Pisces simply like to spend time with the people they love.

They are so clingy. For some, being clingy is borderline annoying. But for others, it's kind of sweet.

It really depends on how people take it. Most Pisces just want to be in the presence of the people they love, and they want those people to feel appreciated and loved. It's not for everyone, but I also believe that potential partners who are too quick to judge might be losing out.

P.S. I think a certain degree of one's clingi-ness has a lot to do with one's attachment style , and can creep in to a greater degree if someone is anxious or anxious-avoidant.

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You are very balanced for having all that water in your chart. It's refreshing to see.

I could see myself being with a Pisces, if he was this logical. I don't meet any that are, unfortunately.

I like reading what you write 🙂

It's based a lot of facts instead of dreaminess/mushiness, like most stuff I read written by Pisces men.

Posted by ELIGAB

you're not virgo

What makes you say that? 🧐 How can you tell? What's missing?🤔

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Posted by peachy06

Posted by Chazzy

I am being supportive and positive. Should I write her a love letter?

Dude, stop being persistent. Live your life.

I get this feeling that he was bombarding her with messages and calls, the whole time they were not physically together. Like he needed more verbal validation because of the lack of time spent together. Couple that with her keeping herself mentally busy by pursuing additional education, and him not having work to occupy his time, he just became a sinkhole of needing constant communication. That made her probably want a time out from being responsible for someone else's feelings, until things become "normal" again, so to speak.

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I did not bombard her with calls or messages. The rest of your message seems accurate.

I am going to go out with my friends and live my life and date other people for sure.

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

I also think that age is just a number. Having such a gap is tough, but it also depends where both of you are in your lives.

Have you discussed kids, in that does she think you don't want kids? If so, maybe she's scared you'll change your mind.

Maybe she just realized she doesn't want anything serious, where you want that and she knows it.

Let's say she ghosted and blocked you, that would leave you without any answers, except that she didn't want anything to do with you. (Sometimes people ghost when they are scared and/or are not ready.)

Right now you're in limbo waiting for her to return where she's given you hope that it will happen. I'm thinking that you might be looking at your breakup with rose-colored glasses. I don't often hear people use break-up language when they want space. Seems like you're on a break. She's not going to want you if you're not improving yourself (not that you have to for her, it's just part of life to improve oneself). And...you need to avoid coming off as desperate and needed. If you push too much you will push her away.

You are right brother. She did not block me tho. I am going to improve my self and live my life. I am not going to contact her anymore. I was also accepted to do my MBA and I start in August .

Thanks for your help guys.

Posted by ELIGAB

you're not virgo

I could just feel it

Lol

Also within a couple of pages, he's over its and thanks for the advice 🤣🤣🤣

"Scorpios are great but it’s really not advisable to be in a relationship with them."

🤣😅

Posted by Chazzy

I am being supportive and positive. Should I write her a love letter?

*cringe*

best thing you can do is let her go 100% . if she wants to reconnect later, she will.

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Posted by alexscaries

Also don't date someone at your age who can't menstruate.

Ruuuuuuude

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Somewhat I agree, But if he wants kids one day this one can't do it for him.

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Posted by ELIGAB

you're not virgo

I could just feel it

Lol

Also within a couple of pages, he's over its and thanks for the advice 🤣🤣🤣

"Scorpios are great but it’s really not advisable to be in a relationship with them."

🤣😅

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Girl! lol You gotta quote me in order for me to see lmao. I had to stalk you to see if you answered! 👀

Posted by Chazzy

Hi.

My Scorpio girlfriend and I ( Virgo) dated for 1 year and 1 month. She broke up with me during quarantine. She says she wants to focus on her masters and CPA. She also has a full time job with a lot of responsibility. She said she still wants me in her life and wants me to be there for here and she wants to be there for me.

She says she doesn’t have time for a relationship but this is not forever and just a few month. Will she come back or she just trying to be nice? Did she fall out of love with me because I showed signs of weakness during quarantine bc I was furloughed? She is 47 and I am 32. She use to be my boss before we started dating. I lover her sincerely and wanted to marry her. She thought I was never going to marry her and she was not thrilled about the age difference. Will she come once I have given her enough space? Should I wait for her or move on?

She’s 47 and she’s asking you for space and to give her time? She’s lost interest or is interested in some one else. Scorpios need to be sexual compatible with some one they love. They are very attached people when hot sex and love comes together. But are very unstable emotionally and can be violent. No doubt she loves you but scorpions can love deep and still leave but ain’t no Scorpio walking away from good sex.

She may or may not be cheating. Hard to say but wouldn’t doubt it. Their known for it when they are flaky.

But Virgo has no business even Considering dating a Scorpio. They make it feel like they are doing you a favor by breaking your heart but won’t tell you the 100% truth.

Just ask for open relationship if she Agrees then you will know her true intentions. Have fun with her then Move on ASAP.

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Posted by Chazzy

Hi.

My Scorpio girlfriend and I ( Virgo) dated for 1 year and 1 month. She broke up with me during quarantine. She says she wants to focus on her masters and CPA. She also has a full time job with a lot of responsibility. She said she still wants me in her life and wants me to be there for here and she wants to be there for me.

She says she doesn’t have time for a relationship but this is not forever and just a few month. Will she come back or she just trying to be nice? Did she fall out of love with me because I showed signs of weakness during quarantine bc I was furloughed? She is 47 and I am 32. She use to be my boss before we started dating. I lover her sincerely and wanted to marry her. She thought I was never going to marry her and she was not thrilled about the age difference. Will she come once I have given her enough space? Should I wait for her or move on?

She’s 47 and she’s asking you for space and to give her time? She’s lost interest or is interested in some one else. Scorpios need to be sexual compatible with some one the love. They are very attached people when hot sex and love comes together. But are very unstable emotionally and can be violent. No doubt she loves you but scorpions can love deep and still leave but ain’t no Scorpio walking away from good sex.

She may or may not be cheating.

But Virgo has no business even Considering dating a Scorpio. They make it feel like they are doing you a favor by breaking your heart but won’t tell you the 100% truth.

Fuck off.

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this is an open form you fuck off

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Posted by LittleStar_II

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Scorpios will amputate you if they need to. She doesn't need to. At least you can still be in her life, if it's good for you to have that.

She might be being honest with you, in that she doesn't have what it takes to be in a relationship right now.

It's also possible that during COVID you two spent too much time together? She might have felt suffocated.

She also could be reevaluating your relationship. Do you want kids? Maybe she thinks you two might not be right for each other long-term.

You got furloughed - not your fault. Why would this be weak? Unless, you were not showing much motivation to prepare for the future.

My advice:

Focus on yourself and try to get out there and wait. It doesn't seem like she's asked for space and that you are on a break - she broke up with you, and she's betting that you hang around.

What happens if she doesn't want to get back together? If she's met someone else (even if she hasn't pursued it with that person, it might have shaken her up). But, if she doesn't want to get back together then you will have wasted your time waiting for her. We've all done that. I've done it.

At least she's mature, it seems. But, perhaps she's being selfish and thinks she'll just get you back if nothing better comes along.

Plan your future, stay fit, get out there and date. Have some fun. I would really slow down the contact, even take a break from contacting her unless she contacts you.

If you love somebody set them free. If they return then they were always yours. If they don't then they were never yours and you were never theirs.

P.S. If you're going to have a tough time focusing on yourself and others, you might want to avoid her social media and contact. Seriously, the last thing you need is to be pining over her until she moves on with another man and/or tells you that you have not chance down the road. It's tough. Don't be another statistic in being the guy who get's strung along and doesn't end up with the girl in the end.

Y’all Pisces are clingy motherfuckers, though. 👀

1. He's not a Pisces. He's a Virgo.

2. I don't care what sign someone is, if you love someone and that person says they need space while keep your hopes up, you're going wish you were back together immediately, if you never wanted that space yourself.

3. How does your opinion about Pisces help this guy out? lol 😉

Besides, some Pisces are more clingy than others. I was more clingy in the past, especially when I put a woman on a pedestal and dove too quickly in the deep end.

I think it also depends on how their partners take it. I'm pretty busy with my job and I volunteer so I kind of need someone who has their own life, thought I do like spending time with my partner. I also need my own personal time. I've dated a clingy Virgo and a possessive Scorpio, as examples, where I would say they were more clingy than I was. I think people cling for various reasons -- security, control, comfort, etc.

I really think that, other than when they need their space, most Pisces simply like to spend time with the people they love.

They are so clingy. For some, being clingy is borderline annoying. But for others, it's kind of sweet.

It really depends on how people take it. Most Pisces just want to be in the presence of the people they love, and they want those people to feel appreciated and loved. It's not for everyone, but I also believe that potential partners who are too quick to judge might be losing out.

P.S. I think a certain degree of one's clingi-ness has a lot to do with one's attachment style , and can creep in to a greater degree if someone is anxious or anxious-avoidant.

You are very balanced for having all that water in your chart. It's refreshing to see.

I could see myself being with a Pisces, if he was this logical. I don't meet any that are, unfortunately.

I like reading what you write 🙂

It's based a lot of facts instead of dreaminess/mushiness, like most stuff I read written by Pisces men.

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Thanks so much for your kind words.

I suppose my Cappy Mars grounds me. I have a bith of earth and a bit of fire. Water dominates my inner placements but overall I'm balanced with air and water.

I process thoughts very quickly, especially when I'm comfortable with a topic and knowledgeable. I know a little about a lot of things....history...sports...geography...art...literature...movies...science...which helps.

Above all, my ability to empathize connects what I know and think logically with the human condition. With Mercury in Pisces the waters flow and they lie deep.

When I interact with someone my intuition helps me understand but it also helps me ask good probing questions. Sometimes it intrigues and fascinates others, and sometimes it scares and intimidates, depending on where their mind is at. Just think of someone who is venting about something where you don't know them well enough, and you probe because you're interested and engaged...but they really don't want to find the answers.

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Posted by hydorah

Are you sure you want to marry a woman who can't give you kids?

Plus she sounds like she isn't that interested in you.

You should keep FWB and start exploring other options romantically

a couple in their 70s just had a child in Nigeria through IVF

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🙄

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Posted by LittleStar_II

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Scorpios will amputate you if they need to. She doesn't need to. At least you can still be in her life, if it's good for you to have that.

She might be being honest with you, in that she doesn't have what it takes to be in a relationship right now.

It's also possible that during COVID you two spent too much time together? She might have felt suffocated.

She also could be reevaluating your relationship. Do you want kids? Maybe she thinks you two might not be right for each other long-term.

You got furloughed - not your fault. Why would this be weak? Unless, you were not showing much motivation to prepare for the future.

My advice:

Focus on yourself and try to get out there and wait. It doesn't seem like she's asked for space and that you are on a break - she broke up with you, and she's betting that you hang around.

What happens if she doesn't want to get back together? If she's met someone else (even if she hasn't pursued it with that person, it might have shaken her up). But, if she doesn't want to get back together then you will have wasted your time waiting for her. We've all done that. I've done it.

At least she's mature, it seems. But, perhaps she's being selfish and thinks she'll just get you back if nothing better comes along.

Plan your future, stay fit, get out there and date. Have some fun. I would really slow down the contact, even take a break from contacting her unless she contacts you.

If you love somebody set them free. If they return then they were always yours. If they don't then they were never yours and you were never theirs.

P.S. If you're going to have a tough time focusing on yourself and others, you might want to avoid her social media and contact. Seriously, the last thing you need is to be pining over her until she moves on with another man and/or tells you that you have not chance down the road. It's tough. Don't be another statistic in being the guy who get's strung along and doesn't end up with the girl in the end.

Y’all Pisces are clingy motherfuckers, though. 👀

1. He's not a Pisces. He's a Virgo.

2. I don't care what sign someone is, if you love someone and that person says they need space while keep your hopes up, you're going wish you were back together immediately, if you never wanted that space yourself.

3. How does your opinion about Pisces help this guy out? lol 😉

Besides, some Pisces are more clingy than others. I was more clingy in the past, especially when I put a woman on a pedestal and dove too quickly in the deep end.

I think it also depends on how their partners take it. I'm pretty busy with my job and I volunteer so I kind of need someone who has their own life, thought I do like spending time with my partner. I also need my own personal time. I've dated a clingy Virgo and a possessive Scorpio, as examples, where I would say they were more clingy than I was. I think people cling for various reasons -- security, control, comfort, etc.

I really think that, other than when they need their space, most Pisces simply like to spend time with the people they love.

They are so clingy. For some, being clingy is borderline annoying. But for others, it's kind of sweet.

It really depends on how people take it. Most Pisces just want to be in the presence of the people they love, and they want those people to feel appreciated and loved. It's not for everyone, but I also believe that potential partners who are too quick to judge might be losing out.

P.S. I think a certain degree of one's clingi-ness has a lot to do with one's attachment style , and can creep in to a greater degree if someone is anxious or anxious-avoidant.

You are very balanced for having all that water in your chart. It's refreshing to see.

I could see myself being with a Pisces, if he was this logical. I don't meet any that are, unfortunately.

I like reading what you write 🙂

It's based a lot of facts instead of dreaminess/mushiness, like most stuff I read written by Pisces men.

Thanks so much for your kind words.

I suppose my Cappy Mars grounds me. I have a bith of earth and a bit of fire. Water dominates my inner placements but overall I'm balanced with air and water.

I process thoughts very quickly, especially when I'm comfortable with a topic and knowledgeable. I know a little about a lot of things....history...sports...geography...art...literature...movies...science...which helps.

Above all, my ability to empathize connects what I know and think logically with the human condition. With Mercury in Pisces the waters flow and they lie deep.

When I interact with someone my intuition helps me understand but it also helps me ask good probing questions. Sometimes it intrigues and fascinates others, and sometimes it scares and intimidates, depending on where their mind is at. Just think of someone who is venting about something where you don't know them well enough, and you probe because you're interested and engaged...but they really don't want to find the answers.

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This is why she doesn’t like you. You doing too much beat the pussy up and moon walk out the door.

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Posted by Piscis_Hominis

I also think that age is just a number. Having such a gap is tough, but it also depends where both of you are in your lives.

Have you discussed kids, in that does she think you don't want kids? If so, maybe she's scared you'll change your mind.

Maybe she just realized she doesn't want anything serious, where you want that and she knows it.

Let's say she ghosted and blocked you, that would leave you without any answers, except that she didn't want anything to do with you. (Sometimes people ghost when they are scared and/or are not ready.)

Right now you're in limbo waiting for her to return where she's given you hope that it will happen. I'm thinking that you might be looking at your breakup with rose-colored glasses. I don't often hear people use break-up language when they want space. Seems like you're on a break. She's not going to want you if you're not improving yourself (not that you have to for her, it's just part of life to improve oneself). And...you need to avoid coming off as desperate and needed. If you push too much you will push her away.

You are right brother. She did not block me tho. I am going to improve my self and live my life. I am not going to contact her anymore. I was also accepted to do my MBA and I start in August .

Thanks for your help guys.

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Good for you. Take this time to really assess your relationship with her, especially in what you want. It's Ok if you don't want kids and I'm not sure where she's at with that, but it's very easy to say no to kids in your head when you're in love, and that's OK. Take this time to answer questions like that for yourself. This isn't just about kids. You might try to jot down what you like and dislike about her, and what great memories and challenges you faced together. This will help you think about what you want in the next woman, and if she comes back calling, it will prepare you to deal more optimally with it, whether you choose to try again or not.

Good luck.

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Posted by ELIGAB

you're not virgo

I could just feel it

Lol

Also within a couple of pages, he's over its and thanks for the advice 🤣🤣🤣

"Scorpios are great but it’s really not advisable to be in a relationship with them."

🤣😅

Girl! lol You gotta quote me in order for me to see lmao. I had to stalk you to see if you answered! 👀

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Lmao

My high ass

🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

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Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Posted by LittleStar_II

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Scorpios will amputate you if they need to. She doesn't need to. At least you can still be in her life, if it's good for you to have that.

She might be being honest with you, in that she doesn't have what it takes to be in a relationship right now.

It's also possible that during COVID you two spent too much time together? She might have felt suffocated.

She also could be reevaluating your relationship. Do you want kids? Maybe she thinks you two might not be right for each other long-term.

You got furloughed - not your fault. Why would this be weak? Unless, you were not showing much motivation to prepare for the future.

My advice:

Focus on yourself and try to get out there and wait. It doesn't seem like she's asked for space and that you are on a break - she broke up with you, and she's betting that you hang around.

What happens if she doesn't want to get back together? If she's met someone else (even if she hasn't pursued it with that person, it might have shaken her up). But, if she doesn't want to get back together then you will have wasted your time waiting for her. We've all done that. I've done it.

At least she's mature, it seems. But, perhaps she's being selfish and thinks she'll just get you back if nothing better comes along.

Plan your future, stay fit, get out there and date. Have some fun. I would really slow down the contact, even take a break from contacting her unless she contacts you.

If you love somebody set them free. If they return then they were always yours. If they don't then they were never yours and you were never theirs.

P.S. If you're going to have a tough time focusing on yourself and others, you might want to avoid her social media and contact. Seriously, the last thing you need is to be pining over her until she moves on with another man and/or tells you that you have not chance down the road. It's tough. Don't be another statistic in being the guy who get's strung along and doesn't end up with the girl in the end.

Y’all Pisces are clingy motherfuckers, though. 👀

1. He's not a Pisces. He's a Virgo.

2. I don't care what sign someone is, if you love someone and that person says they need space while keep your hopes up, you're going wish you were back together immediately, if you never wanted that space yourself.

3. How does your opinion about Pisces help this guy out? lol 😉

Besides, some Pisces are more clingy than others. I was more clingy in the past, especially when I put a woman on a pedestal and dove too quickly in the deep end.

I think it also depends on how their partners take it. I'm pretty busy with my job and I volunteer so I kind of need someone who has their own life, thought I do like spending time with my partner. I also need my own personal time. I've dated a clingy Virgo and a possessive Scorpio, as examples, where I would say they were more clingy than I was. I think people cling for various reasons -- security, control, comfort, etc.

I really think that, other than when they need their space, most Pisces simply like to spend time with the people they love.

They are so clingy. For some, being clingy is borderline annoying. But for others, it's kind of sweet.

It really depends on how people take it. Most Pisces just want to be in the presence of the people they love, and they want those people to feel appreciated and loved. It's not for everyone, but I also believe that potential partners who are too quick to judge might be losing out.

P.S. I think a certain degree of one's clingi-ness has a lot to do with one's attachment style , and can creep in to a greater degree if someone is anxious or anxious-avoidant.

You are very balanced for having all that water in your chart. It's refreshing to see.

I could see myself being with a Pisces, if he was this logical. I don't meet any that are, unfortunately.

I like reading what you write 🙂

It's based a lot of facts instead of dreaminess/mushiness, like most stuff I read written by Pisces men.

Thanks so much for your kind words.

I suppose my Cappy Mars grounds me. I have a bith of earth and a bit of fire. Water dominates my inner placements but overall I'm balanced with air and water.

I process thoughts very quickly, especially when I'm comfortable with a topic and knowledgeable. I know a little about a lot of things....history...sports...geography...art...literature...movies...science...which helps.

Above all, my ability to empathize connects what I know and think logically with the human condition. With Mercury in Pisces the waters flow and they lie deep.

When I interact with someone my intuition helps me understand but it also helps me ask good probing questions. Sometimes it intrigues and fascinates others, and sometimes it scares and intimidates, depending on where their mind is at. Just think of someone who is venting about something where you don't know them well enough, and you probe because you're interested and engaged...but they really don't want to find the answers.

This is why she doesn’t like you. You doing too much beat the pussy up and moon walk out the door.

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I'm confident his Scorp would like me. Would she f me or date me? Who knows? 😉

(My comments were about general communication in my life...not what he's doing.) Cheers!

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Posted by Chazzy

Hi.

My Scorpio girlfriend and I ( Virgo) dated for 1 year and 1 month. She broke up with me during quarantine. She says she wants to focus on her masters and CPA. She also has a full time job with a lot of responsibility. She said she still wants me in her life and wants me to be there for here and she wants to be there for me.

She says she doesn’t have time for a relationship but this is not forever and just a few month. Will she come back or she just trying to be nice? Did she fall out of love with me because I showed signs of weakness during quarantine bc I was furloughed? She is 47 and I am 32. She use to be my boss before we started dating. I lover her sincerely and wanted to marry her. She thought I was never going to marry her and she was not thrilled about the age difference. Will she come once I have given her enough space? Should I wait for her or move on?

She’s 47 and she’s asking you for space and to give her time? She’s lost interest or is interested in some one else. Scorpios need to be sexual compatible with some one they love. They are very attached people when hot sex and love comes together. But are very unstable emotionally and can be violent. No doubt she loves you but scorpions can love deep and still leave but ain’t no Scorpio walking away from good sex.

She may or may not be cheating. Hard to say but wouldn’t doubt it. Their known for it when they are flaky.

But Virgo has no business even Considering dating a Scorpio. They make it feel like they are doing you a favor by breaking your heart but won’t tell you the 100% truth.

Just ask for open relationship if she Agrees then you will know her true intentions. Have fun with her then Move on ASAP.

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I am not a troll. Don’t be mean and don’t judge . What really bother her was the age difference but We had amazing sex. Maybe she is interested in someone else. Who knows..

I am very sweet but you are right I am too sensitive and needy and I must have pushed her away.

I am going to let her go and move on. I have no regrets at all. She will have all the regrets.

I will let her go and If she wants to reconnect everything will have changed.

Thanks for your advice

I hope this question isn't offensive..

But have you ever been in a motorcycle accident that resulted in a traumatic brain injury?

Posted by _Dazed

I hope this question isn't offensive..

But have you ever been in a motorcycle accident that resulted in a traumatic brain injury?

Stahp 😂

(was thinking the same thing)

Posted by Chazzy

I am being supportive and positive. Should I write her a love letter?

Can you write it here?

We'll tell you if it's good or not...

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Posted by hydorah

Are you sure you want to marry a woman who can't give you kids?

Plus she sounds like she isn't that interested in you.

You should keep FWB and start exploring other options romantically

a couple in their 70s just had a child in Nigeria through IVF

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yeah who wants to live like a nigerian lol

this dude should have the kids BEFORE thinking about marriage, that's my wisdom

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Posted by LittleStar_II

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Scorpios will amputate you if they need to. She doesn't need to. At least you can still be in her life, if it's good for you to have that.

She might be being honest with you, in that she doesn't have what it takes to be in a relationship right now.

It's also possible that during COVID you two spent too much time together? She might have felt suffocated.

She also could be reevaluating your relationship. Do you want kids? Maybe she thinks you two might not be right for each other long-term.

You got furloughed - not your fault. Why would this be weak? Unless, you were not showing much motivation to prepare for the future.

My advice:

Focus on yourself and try to get out there and wait. It doesn't seem like she's asked for space and that you are on a break - she broke up with you, and she's betting that you hang around.

What happens if she doesn't want to get back together? If she's met someone else (even if she hasn't pursued it with that person, it might have shaken her up). But, if she doesn't want to get back together then you will have wasted your time waiting for her. We've all done that. I've done it.

At least she's mature, it seems. But, perhaps she's being selfish and thinks she'll just get you back if nothing better comes along.

Plan your future, stay fit, get out there and date. Have some fun. I would really slow down the contact, even take a break from contacting her unless she contacts you.

If you love somebody set them free. If they return then they were always yours. If they don't then they were never yours and you were never theirs.

P.S. If you're going to have a tough time focusing on yourself and others, you might want to avoid her social media and contact. Seriously, the last thing you need is to be pining over her until she moves on with another man and/or tells you that you have not chance down the road. It's tough. Don't be another statistic in being the guy who get's strung along and doesn't end up with the girl in the end.

Y’all Pisces are clingy motherfuckers, though. 👀

1. He's not a Pisces. He's a Virgo.

2. I don't care what sign someone is, if you love someone and that person says they need space while keep your hopes up, you're going wish you were back together immediately, if you never wanted that space yourself.

3. How does your opinion about Pisces help this guy out? lol 😉

Besides, some Pisces are more clingy than others. I was more clingy in the past, especially when I put a woman on a pedestal and dove too quickly in the deep end.

I think it also depends on how their partners take it. I'm pretty busy with my job and I volunteer so I kind of need someone who has their own life, thought I do like spending time with my partner. I also need my own personal time. I've dated a clingy Virgo and a possessive Scorpio, as examples, where I would say they were more clingy than I was. I think people cling for various reasons -- security, control, comfort, etc.

I really think that, other than when they need their space, most Pisces simply like to spend time with the people they love.

They are so clingy. For some, being clingy is borderline annoying. But for others, it's kind of sweet.

It really depends on how people take it. Most Pisces just want to be in the presence of the people they love, and they want those people to feel appreciated and loved. It's not for everyone, but I also believe that potential partners who are too quick to judge might be losing out.

P.S. I think a certain degree of one's clingi-ness has a lot to do with one's attachment style , and can creep in to a greater degree if someone is anxious or anxious-avoidant.

You are very balanced for having all that water in your chart. It's refreshing to see.

I could see myself being with a Pisces, if he was this logical. I don't meet any that are, unfortunately.

I like reading what you write 🙂

It's based a lot of facts instead of dreaminess/mushiness, like most stuff I read written by Pisces men.

Thanks so much for your kind words.

I suppose my Cappy Mars grounds me. I have a bith of earth and a bit of fire. Water dominates my inner placements but overall I'm balanced with air and water.

I process thoughts very quickly, especially when I'm comfortable with a topic and knowledgeable. I know a little about a lot of things....history...sports...geography...art...literature...movies...science...which helps.

Above all, my ability to empathize connects what I know and think logically with the human condition. With Mercury in Pisces the waters flow and they lie deep.

When I interact with someone my intuition helps me understand but it also helps me ask good probing questions. Sometimes it intrigues and fascinates others, and sometimes it scares and intimidates, depending on where their mind is at. Just think of someone who is venting about something where you don't know them well enough, and you probe because you're interested and engaged...but they really don't want to find the answers.

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You don’t come across as a typical Pisces. I like your chart. I like how self aware you are and how self aware you are of just human nature in general.

I don’t get scared or intimidated by anything other then myself 🤣🤣🤣

I don’t get the last sentence. If someone asks me a question, I’m hoping to give an answer. I’m not sure what you could possibly find out from a person that would be bad. Especially in a personality trait. It would help with compatibility.

But you really do give great solid advice. And you go into great detail. I like it!

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Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Posted by LittleStar_II

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Scorpios will amputate you if they need to. She doesn't need to. At least you can still be in her life, if it's good for you to have that.

She might be being honest with you, in that she doesn't have what it takes to be in a relationship right now.

It's also possible that during COVID you two spent too much time together? She might have felt suffocated.

She also could be reevaluating your relationship. Do you want kids? Maybe she thinks you two might not be right for each other long-term.

You got furloughed - not your fault. Why would this be weak? Unless, you were not showing much motivation to prepare for the future.

My advice:

Focus on yourself and try to get out there and wait. It doesn't seem like she's asked for space and that you are on a break - she broke up with you, and she's betting that you hang around.

What happens if she doesn't want to get back together? If she's met someone else (even if she hasn't pursued it with that person, it might have shaken her up). But, if she doesn't want to get back together then you will have wasted your time waiting for her. We've all done that. I've done it.

At least she's mature, it seems. But, perhaps she's being selfish and thinks she'll just get you back if nothing better comes along.

Plan your future, stay fit, get out there and date. Have some fun. I would really slow down the contact, even take a break from contacting her unless she contacts you.

If you love somebody set them free. If they return then they were always yours. If they don't then they were never yours and you were never theirs.

P.S. If you're going to have a tough time focusing on yourself and others, you might want to avoid her social media and contact. Seriously, the last thing you need is to be pining over her until she moves on with another man and/or tells you that you have not chance down the road. It's tough. Don't be another statistic in being the guy who get's strung along and doesn't end up with the girl in the end.

Y’all Pisces are clingy motherfuckers, though. 👀

1. He's not a Pisces. He's a Virgo.

2. I don't care what sign someone is, if you love someone and that person says they need space while keep your hopes up, you're going wish you were back together immediately, if you never wanted that space yourself.

3. How does your opinion about Pisces help this guy out? lol 😉

Besides, some Pisces are more clingy than others. I was more clingy in the past, especially when I put a woman on a pedestal and dove too quickly in the deep end.

I think it also depends on how their partners take it. I'm pretty busy with my job and I volunteer so I kind of need someone who has their own life, thought I do like spending time with my partner. I also need my own personal time. I've dated a clingy Virgo and a possessive Scorpio, as examples, where I would say they were more clingy than I was. I think people cling for various reasons -- security, control, comfort, etc.

I really think that, other than when they need their space, most Pisces simply like to spend time with the people they love.

They are so clingy. For some, being clingy is borderline annoying. But for others, it's kind of sweet.

It really depends on how people take it. Most Pisces just want to be in the presence of the people they love, and they want those people to feel appreciated and loved. It's not for everyone, but I also believe that potential partners who are too quick to judge might be losing out.

P.S. I think a certain degree of one's clingi-ness has a lot to do with one's attachment style , and can creep in to a greater degree if someone is anxious or anxious-avoidant.

You are very balanced for having all that water in your chart. It's refreshing to see.

I could see myself being with a Pisces, if he was this logical. I don't meet any that are, unfortunately.

I like reading what you write 🙂

It's based a lot of facts instead of dreaminess/mushiness, like most stuff I read written by Pisces men.

Thanks so much for your kind words.

I suppose my Cappy Mars grounds me. I have a bith of earth and a bit of fire. Water dominates my inner placements but overall I'm balanced with air and water.

I process thoughts very quickly, especially when I'm comfortable with a topic and knowledgeable. I know a little about a lot of things....history...sports...geography...art...literature...movies...science...which helps.

Above all, my ability to empathize connects what I know and think logically with the human condition. With Mercury in Pisces the waters flow and they lie deep.

When I interact with someone my intuition helps me understand but it also helps me ask good probing questions. Sometimes it intrigues and fascinates others, and sometimes it scares and intimidates, depending on where their mind is at. Just think of someone who is venting about something where you don't know them well enough, and you probe because you're interested and engaged...but they really don't want to find the answers.

This is why she doesn’t like you. You doing too much beat the pussy up and moon walk out the door.

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He didn’t write the original post. Lol.

“Scorpios are great but it’s really not advisable to be in a relationship with them."

🥴

I would say take it for what it is a break up. Don’t hang around and wait for her because if she saw a future with you she’d want someone to be there during.

Usually when Scorpio breaks up with you they have had a while to process it and she thought about it long and hard before she did it. Heal yourself, go have fun, date if you must, and figure out what type of partner you want while she is away. You may find you don’t want someone who gives up on you so easily.

Life is going to shit all over the world right now it is ok for people to change their minds about what they want, but do you really want to spend what’s left of your life pining over someone who doesn’t see you fitting in their life?

It’s like trying to do a puzzle and you find those two puzzle pieces that look like they fit and you want them to fit but ultimately they just won’t and you can’t complete the puzzle until all of the pieces are correct. Best of luck to you love in your healing❤️

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“Scorpios are great but it’s really not advisable to be in a relationship with them."

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"advisable" 😄