New to this board, I am a 45 yo Scorp woman needing help figuring out Cancer man. I met this cancer / hooked up while I was still married but in the beginning stages of getting a divorce. He flirted w me heavily even tho he knew I was married. (I am finalizing divorce now.) We have amazing chemistry and first time we were together it felt like we had known each other for years. He seems very sincere and not like a player. (He is also divorced, btw, for over 10 years.) I'm pretty intuitive and I felt such a strong connection to him immediately when I met him (before hookup I mean) and I am *pretty* sure he felt same. And the few times we have been together it feels very intimate and sincere. BUT he has backed off A LOT i mean a lot and I have not seen him in a few months. Just text messages but even those are sparse. Sometimes it takes him weeks to respond, and then he says "oh let's get together I would love to see you" but nothing materializes. He has a stressful and busy career (as do I) but I feel like if he wanted to make time for me he would. I have gotten the impression from things he has said in unguarded moments and things I have observed when we are together that he is very interested in me but then I get radio silence. Oh and btw I am 99% sure he stalks me on Instagram. I'm so confused and hurt because I REALLY like him a lot but he ignores me. I have never felt an immediate connection with someone like that. But I have also never been treated this way before. BTW not to sound like a jerk but I am beautiful and I know he is super physically attracted to me *and* I am smart, so I just can't figure out what the problem is! I think I have made it pretty clear that I like him a lot. I have to run out now, but if anyone can help me out I'll be sure to respond later tonight! Thank you!
