So confused.. please help

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OM53998
@OM53998
8 Years

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I met this person about 5 or so months ago.. she's quite a bit older & neither of us are in positions where we could state feelings towards each other even if we wanted too and even if they were there. It seemed after she noticed my high intelligence level & maturity, she showed more interest afterwards.. it went from obvious flirtatious lip biting, to questioning who was phoning me on my cell, to teasing, to lip biting again, then staring at me when I wasn't looking & when I caught her, turning her head real quick.. my instinct has already been telling me she feels something for me.. getting obviously a little jealous when I talked to a different girl & then telling me she wasn't playing my mind games when I brought it up.. which also confused me?

It seemed though, the last time I saw her, we hugged it out, I apologized, and it was fine.. however, just recently when I saw her out in public & I was getting out of a vehicle with a friend & about to walk off, I saw her.. we looked at each other for about a minute & then she opened her vehicle door and got in real quick without saying anything... it was an awkward situation& I felt because she didn't say hi to me or really do anything that I had maybe done something wrong? It just seems the situation is more complicated than I can explain.. & I have not a clue what could really be going on.. possible opinions or answers would be great! (pretty certain she's a Virgo if that helps?)
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Nameless Nemean
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14 Years5,000+ Posts

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Seriously? What's your sign? She likes you. It's written all over her face. Ask her out if you're interested. If you're not interested, do nothing. Also she's a Virgo, so she's going to move slowly. They like to know that the other person is invested in them.

Regardless of astrology, when a woman is flirting with you that means you need to set a date. She's biting her lip? It doesn't get clearer than that. Women will put themselves near you when they like you, but you need to initiate and make the first move. I'm assuming you're either male or taking on the masculine role (if you're female). Either way YOU need to move things along.

The reason why she keeps looking at you and doing nothing is because your inaction is slowly making her more unsure of your interest towards her. Eventually she's going to give up and lock you into the "friend zone". Even worse she may feel spurned and eventually avoid you altogether.

The real question is, what do you want from her? If you want her, go get her. She's making it as easy as she can for you. She's also older, so she's probably used to the other person being more mature and direct.