Taurus/Gemini - Help.

I've been with my Gemini guy for 3 years and while it's been a very challenging relationship, I also love him. We had a (another) falling out today. Out of the blue, he tells me that he thinks it's best if I move out. We rent a house together that alone neither one of us could afford without the other. I asked him how he's going to cover the cost of the rent and he said he'd make due.

A bit about us, we met 3 years ago, moved in together 2.5 years ago. For me, that was moving too fast. Not a month has gone by that we had a fight about something. He's very moody but I force myself to ignore him when he gets moody. He gets mad quicker than I do and it takes very little to get him upset, unlike me - it takes a lot to tick me off.

If you've read my "Office Dilemma" post, you know that I've been confused with an office mate's flirting. This break up has been a long time coming well before this office flirting, so I hope none of you think I brought on this break up.

Would someone "read" mine and my Gemini's charts and tell me if we were destined to fail or if I should be trying harder to stay together?

Me/Him
Sun: Taurus/Gemini
Moon: Leo/Libra
Mercury: Taurus/Taurus
Venus: Pisces/Cancer
Mars: Cancer/Cancer
Asc Node: Sagittarius/Capricorn