Taurus Woman - help me understand her

So for context I'm a Sagittarius man, which is a good idea of how my personality is. There's this Taurus woman who has caught my eye. Immediately that pairing seems incompatible according to astrology. Though we've been talking for a couple months and we've discovered we have much in common, which is why I'm drawn to her. We've had deep conversations about our feelings toward each other. I've flat out admitted that she's got my attention. I compliment her, she knows i do care for her and that im legitimately there for her when she needs it. While she's admitted that she does flirt and has also mentioned she calls me "perfect" amongst other things. Though she's told me that she never got closure from her ex and says that there is "something" about him that she can't ignore. She says she doesn't want to commit to something if "her heart isnt in the right place". To my knowledge they broke up several months ago. But recently this ex has been speaking to her best friend about her. This type of conversation between us has happened several times now. Though to my surprise we are still talking. I would of assumed that after the first instance of it she would of reduced communication between us.

As a normally impatient Sagittarius i find it rare that I'm still infatuated by this Taurus.

The common piece of advice i've read and heard is to stay patient. Is there any other advice anyone could offer as to help me understand? If anyone has questions to help them clarify the situation please do ask.

My advice.

Tell her to contact this ex and agree to meet him for coffee.

Inform her to get it all out to seek the closure she's looking for.

It can either indicate three things.

1. She still has feelings for him and her heart is broken.

2. She may not have feelings for him at all, and just her ego is crushed.

3. She may not have feelings for him at all, but refuses to let go, and have to start all over again.

Only she can find that out for herself.

I can't ask you to be patient as if would advise anyone who is courting a Taurus woman.

I don't know where her heart is with this ex.

Ask her to do this.

And then Re-post with an update.

Our deep conversations reached a peak just recently when a friend of mine decided to message her asking her to give me a chance. My friend meant no harm, but the Taurus woman was angered because she felt pressured and would rather do things her own way. She spoke to me about this, and i calmed her down. She then asked me what my POV was on the matter. Which honestly came as a surprise being as she's fairly headstrong and independent. I gave her my POV and stated that she should contact her ex and get closure. Whether she's considered that or attempting to do so I have no idea. But i have told her.

For context her ex and her broke up suddenly as if without real reason. If i remember correctly she mentioned that he felt she was "boring".

Though in the meantime I can only be patient I feel, though as things stand between us I feel that the wait is worth it. But I know I cannot revolve my life around her.

Keep your options open.

Don't wait.

You're a Sag, right 😉

If she appears to be upset about this...

Be blunt and frank and simply tell her she's not emotionally available.

Oh and FYI,

Never take a passive aggressive approach with a Bull, using a 3rd party. It infuriates us!

Thanks for the advice! If you have any more I'd appreciate it 🙂