Venus/mars in all of our charts

I have a guy that I have amazing energy with. In our synastry and composite we have Venus trine mars at an orb of 3 the composite and under 1 on synastry. On progressed to natal we have a Venus square mars that will not change throughout our lifetime. That means that outside forces will keep us apart? Am I assuming correctly?

What makes you think your progressed chart wont change? Have you counted it for the next 20 years?

I have looked into it Venus square mars goes away 2036. I use astrowin.org and you can put date and years in to see where the progressions will be.

I have venus-mars and venus-venus synastry. Both are trine with less than 1°degree orb.

I havent looked to our progressed chart and think i wont do that.