What Do You Think?

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If for any given reason you had to be separated from the person you love for a while, meaning you know you will be with them in a few weeks,

Would you still need the constant contact with them like emails,texts or phone calls?

Would you think the person is being clingy if they needed to talk to you every day?

And if the other person doesn't call you for a few days but did texts you *I love you*,*I need you* or *I miss you* instead of calling, would you think they are being cold towards you?

And finally, would you start to question their love for you just because they can be days without talking to you?



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Sun Leo, Venus Leo

Yes, I would absolutely have to talk to them everyday - once would do but it would have to be along conversation. An odd text here and there would be fine but not on its own. I would expect them to want the same so wouldn't think they were clingy, so given that, yes I would doubt their love if they didn't need to speak with me every day when apart.
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Posted by LibraScorpio67
Sun in Libra-Scorpio cusp, Venus in Virgo.

Yes, I would be hurt if we were in a relationship and didn't talk everyday. When I travel for work, I want to say goodnight to my loved ones. I want to hear about each one's day, and I would hope that they would want to speak with me. Texts and e-mails are easy cop outs.



Thats so sweet...My ex boyfriend would always send me a text in the morning saying *goodmorning princess* and one at night before he went to sleep. I think besides talking on the phone those are very sweet detailed gestures from someone that love you.
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Posted by celticlioness
Sun Leo, Venus Leo

Yes, I would absolutely have to talk to them everyday - once would do but it would have to be along conversation. An odd text here and there would be fine but not on its own. I would expect them to want the same so wouldn't think they were clingy, so given that, yes I would doubt their love if they didn't need to speak with me every day when apart.



Thats the key word right there..*I would expect them to want the same* Its not wanting them to call you just because you will get upset if they dont..No..its because they desire to hear your voice as much as you desire theirs.. Im just trying to make a point with this thread...thank you again.
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Would you still need the constant contact with them like emails,texts or phone calls? nope i would be enjoying our little time apart. you know, walking around with my hair not combed, wearing my huge sweat pants and t shirt, etc.

Would you think the person is being clingy if they needed to talk to you every day? no i wouldnt think he was clingy, i would think he really missed me.

And if the other person doesn't call you for a few days but did texts you *I love you*,*I need you* or *I miss you* instead of calling, would you think they are being cold towards you? no, it means he is busy but it taking the time to let me know he is thinking about me. 🙂

And finally, would you start to question their love for you just because they can be days without talking to you? nope. as long its not weeks im cool.

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Title: What Do You Think?




What I think is that you've been making some threads lately that have a shadow of doubt hanging over them.


What I said to you on the Virgo board is starting to happen, and you are beginning to doubt.


Instead of taking anything in heed for your benefit, you choose to defy me because you believe I have ill intentions towards you ... in reality, I tell you the truth.


sobeit, then ..... continue to let the shadow over your head thicken until you've sufficiently enjoyed the suffering.
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Taurus Sun/Gemini Venus -

I spent a few years in the military and while it would be nice to talk to your significant other every chance you get, there's no reason to obsess over them just because you can't talk every minute/hour/day or whatever. So what if a day or two goes by? Just gives you more to talk about when you DO get a chance to talk again, and share your sentiments of longing and love. Texts, calls, Skype, email, whatever your means of communication are, sure make it happens when you get a chance. Clingy? Nah, just a reminder that you're on your special someone's mind.

To me I think it would be cold/selfish if my girlfriend didn't understand that sometimes my job doesn't allow me to communicate as often as I would like to, or sometimes I get so busy and I just want to sleep when I get a chance... But if my girl doesn't trust me though, then that's a reflection of my unhealthy relationship (which I'm probably trying to escape from anyway) and she might have a reason to be suspicious of my distant behavior.
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Posted by DeadRingerr
LMAO!! at PA...you heed, defy me, sobeit,continue to let the shadow over you're head thicken......WTF? is this lady for real? You been getting caught up in to many novels or something. This place is insane!



What can I say DR...lol its crazy I know...I dont think I had to explain anything but Im rarely rude to anyone...and what she is thinking is not correct. There is such thing as people being happy in their relationship.
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Posted by P-Angel
Virgos are real ... it's only a matter of time before he realizes that you are exalting him for purposes of gaining him.


and this time is approaching .... as we see you beginning to make threads of doubt




A Virgo cannot be bought with praise ... and you aren't real, if you were, you wouldn't have to exalt him to have his attention.




soon ........



How am I not real? How am I trying to get his attention? What are you talking about? First of all P you don't know the first thing about him or me..Why I talk about him the way I do? Because I feel I can, he is a wonderful man, and I never thought that I would be this in love at this time in my life (meaning after my husbands death)I feel like a 15 yr old in love. Why should I have to hide anything that I feel. I have just made comments on here like everyone else does about their SO...And if you think thats trying to get his attention you are dead wrong. He knows the woman that I am..believe me when I tell you he does. And there is nothing fake about me. I dont doubt anything, the most important thing to me right now is his love and there is nothing doubtfull about that.That is so funny, that im buying him with praise...ja,ja,ja,ja really funny. The reason why I say that is because he tells me that Im mean with him...lol and now you saying this makes me laugh...Whatever P, yoou can think whatever it is that you want, to be honest with you i dont care.

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@Taurus Bad Girl: I am Sun Libra and Venus Libra. So P -Angel gets all over me. @P-Angel I have read many messages you've sent for months. You are a piece of work. You are the most vindictive and negative person I've ever witnessed. Why are you even on here? There is not one comment you make to anyone that is positive. You need to move on!!! It's time!!! Seriously. Are you needing attention? I don't get it!!! I don't make comments but this thread and your comments I had to have something to say!! Really! I would be embarrassed to be your grandchild or daughter! You are a Bully!
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Posted by TaurusBadGirl
If for any given reason you had to be separated from the person you love for a while, meaning you know you will be with them in a few weeks,

Would you still need the constant contact with them like emails,texts or phone calls?

No. Not constant. Meaning not everyday. A few times within that time frame is suffice.

Would you think the person is being clingy if they needed to talk to you every day?

Yes. Why the hell would ANYONE need to talk to someone everyday? It would annoy me & I would get bored.

And if the other person doesn't call you for a few days but did texts you *I love you*,*I need you* or *I miss you* instead of calling, would you think they are being cold towards you?

Not at all. I would just know the person is thinking of me. 😉

And finally, would you start to question their love for you just because they can be days without talking to you?

No. To me it's healthy to go days without NC. Even longer IMO. I can't have constant contact with someone, even when I love them to pieces. I will get bored. Especially if it's routine. I need that space because I cannot have someone on me all the time. Ugggggghhh!!!!

Virgo/Libra



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Posted by librastephanie
@Taurus Bad Girl: I am Sun Libra and Venus Libra. So P -Angel gets all over me. @P-Angel I have read many messages you've sent for months. You are a piece of work. You are the most vindictive and negative person I've ever witnessed. Why are you even on here? There is not one comment you make to anyone that is positive. You need to move on!!! It's time!!! Seriously. Are you needing attention? I don't get it!!! I don't make comments but this thread and your comments I had to have something to say!! Really! I would be embarrassed to be your grandchild or daughter! You are a Bully!
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I'm a Pisces with Moon in Taurus and Venus in Aries.. he's a Libra with Moon in Virgo and Venus in Leo.

Jobs (esp well-paying) are scarce around here, so he had to go 4 hours downstate. it's too far to plan many weekends home, so it's really more like a relocation. He won't be moving back, and we'll build our life together there. I have things to do here (like my son's Senior year of HS) and it will be a year or so before I can just pick up and relocate.. but that's the plan.

He's staying with his old Marine buddy that got him the job. They work a lot, and play a little, and I'm perfectly fine with it. He won't be home again for another 2 or 3 weeks.

BUT.. I established my boundaries and told him what I need to feel comfortable, even before he left. We've always texted quite a bit, random 'thinking of you' texts throughout the day. But we're not huge on the "I love you's" and never have been, we say it when it's killing us NOT to say it. Sounds crazy maybe, but it works for us.. I'm not very emotional for a Pisces, and clingy drives me bananas. But before he left, I told him that I would appreciate a few more verbal I love you's, to which he happily agreed, and has done admirably.

The day he got there, he texted me and said we might be relying mostly on texts to stay in touch (until he gets a wireless router to get online with his laptop) because cell phone service is pretty spotty where he's at (I've been there.. it's heavily wooded, and service sucks).. so I told him I was fine with that, however.. I am not used to the separation yet, and have difficulty going to sleep without hearing him saying goodnight, and what would he like to do about that? He said he'd call me every night to wish me goodnight.

So he texts me good morning (or I do -- it's a race sometimes haha), sends random kisses and goofy stuff during the day, and calls me every single night. We don't have a LOT to talk about.. we can wrap that up in 5 or 10 minutes. He has not missed ONE day of telling me straight up that he loves me, much less gone a day without contact.

To tell you the truth, the I love you's are starting to feel a little much.. not used to daily reminders. But I'm still FEELING how I FEEL about the change. It's not BAD.. just different. And I'll need them if they go to Georgia for 6 to 9 months. o_o

Can I do it? I am. Doubt his love? Not at all. We'll get through this, even if it's just cuz I'm a stubborn bitch who won't give up!
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Posted by TaurusBadGirl


Would you still need the constant contact with them like emails,texts or phone calls?
I definitely would...the more I'm away from them, the more they seem irresitable...

Would you think the person is being clingy if they needed to talk to you every day?
Okay,i enjoy texting alot....may be like 8 hours max. But calling everyday...gets too much. You can text and do something else, but with calling,all your attention goes to this one person. So calling everyday is a no no.

And if the other person doesn't call you for a few days but did texts you *I love you*,*I need you* or *I miss you* instead of calling, would you think they are being cold towards you?
Not at all...its a few days, plus texting is good with me.

And finally, would you start to question their love for you just because they can be days without talking to you?

Not at all

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