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What Does It Mean When Someone Says They Will Make You Fall in Love
When someone says they will make you fall in love, they often mean they will create circumstances or feelings that lead to romantic affection. It reflects an intention to influence or inspire love through actions or emotional connection. Understanding the context and intentions behind such statements is key to interpreting their true meaning.
Uhhh, that usually means just that? 1. Someone likes you, 2. They don't think you like them, or not enough, 3. They're going to try to win your favor/court you. 4. Ends with you two together and you have gained appreciation and feelings for him. At least, that's how it would ideally end for the person who is saying that.
Posted by Scenic
Uhhh, that usually means just that? 1. Someone likes you, 2. They don't think you like them, or not enough, 3. They're going to try to win your favor/court you. 4. Ends with you two together and you have gained appreciation and feelings for him. At least, that's how it would ideally end for the person who is saying that.
Lol I guess its pretty straight forward
It just seems like there will be some manipulation or game involved
They're either full of themselves or just extremely enthusiastic. Either way they have above average self esteem.
It means run away.
Posted by boricualion
They're either full of themselves or just extremely enthusiastic. Either way they have above average self esteem.
Thats how I saw it....hes a Taurus sun/Sag moon and boy does he like attention
I have barely given him any...I did like his company but after he said that and a few other things im very weary of him
Posted by rockyroadicecream
It means run away.
Lol...may you elaborate on why?
He probably won't give up. Even if you tell him straight up that there will never be anything between you two, he will probably keep trying. Meaning, you'll either have to flip on him or he'll be annoying until he finds someone else. Not sure which one would work on him.
Depending on how he is, he might turn it into a game or manipulation by trying to ruin your plans with other people, etc, so you can hang out with him. But, mainly the issue here is that he will probably just be annoying.
Well, might I just add that this isn't always a bad thing. Just, usually. If you think you can fall for him, go along with him for a little while until you either decide you don't like him or until he shows some manipulative/bad qualities. Just know the the farther you go in, the harder it'll be to get out of. Unless, of course, you talk to him and make yourself very clear (not saying he'll get it or actually listen, though.)
Posted by boricualion
They're either full of themselves or just extremely enthusiastic. Either way they have above average self esteem.Thats how I saw it....hes a Taurus sun/Sag moon and boy does he like attention
I have barely given him any...I did like his company but after he said that and a few other things im very weary of him
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I knew he had Sag somewhere in his chart! A Sag said the same thing to me.
Posted by boricualion
They're either full of themselves or just extremely enthusiastic. Either way they have above average self esteem.Thats how I saw it....hes a Taurus sun/Sag moon and boy does he like attention
I have barely given him any...I did like his company but after he said that and a few other things im very weary of him
I knew he had Sag somewhere in his chart! A Sag said the same thing to me.
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LOL
Posted by Scenic
Well, might I just add that this isn't always a bad thing. Just, usually. If you think you can fall for him, go along with him for a little while until you either decide you don't like him or until he shows some manipulative/bad qualities. Just know the the farther you go in, the harder it'll be to get out of. Unless, of course, you talk to him and make yourself very clear (not saying he'll get it or actually listen, though.)
I was starting to like him until i felt like he may be a game player or manipulator....I havent been in contact and niether has he....guess its a wrap folks!
Posted by QLIbraMale
Its basiclly giving you a heads up, if your love is to stubborn to appreciate the gestures.
Stubborn to appreciate the gestures—? i dont think so
Posted by PurrrrHissss
It means I'm going to laugh in their face.
Huh? What u mean?
He seems a little cocky! I'd accept the challenge and see what happens. Probably just be a fun ride! Just don't put out. lol!
Posted by truecap
He seems a little cocky! I'd accept the challenge and see what happens. Probably just be a fun ride! Just don't put out. lol!
LOL..thanx!
My late husband said that to me, he said *can i tell you something in your ear?* and he whispered to me that he would bet me that I would fall in love with him...lol I thought it was cute it makes things more exciting....you obviosley like him because you are making a whole thread about what he said 😉 So go for it...
Posted by rockyroadicecream
It means run away.Lol...may you elaborate on why?
You sort of picked up on it here-
I was starting to like him until i felt like he may be a game player or manipulator....I havent been in contact and niether has he....guess its a wrap folks!
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It just sounds like he has quite a bit of an ego. But it also sounds like a line some player/womanizer would use to snag a woman when he wants.
It's not necessarily a bad thing per se, but if a guy was cocky enough to say that to me, I'd be a bit turned off.
"I'm going to MAKE you fall in love with me!" ...really now? What am I, a game to be conquered?? You want to manipulate my feelings why? Forget that noise.
It's just nonsense. I don't take it serious because a month from the time he said it, he goes MIA!
Which further enforces the idea that he's mister playa playa. All talk and no action when he isn't getting any action. Funny how that works.
Posted by bkbella86
When someone says they are going to make you fall in love with them?
"I know you 'like' me. I can tell--- and i wont stop romancing you until you feel physical 'love' for me or.....you ask me to stop feeling for you---
which ever comes first."
Posted by bkbella86
When someone says they are going to make you fall in love with them?Seduce you with their charm?
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Uh Huh
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
@ original Poster^^^^, what makes you fall in love?
Why do you ask?
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
God Woman just answer the question!🙂
LOL....it starts with an attraction whether it be physical or mental. There is no one specific thing really that makes me fall though it just happens each situation different thn the last.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
hmmm......so he may still have a chance. Im sort of like that too.
You like to be surprised? or sum sort of spontaneity?
Def love some spontaneity, i wasn't even sure i like him until we hung out. It was supposed to be friendly or so I innocently thought. He had plans for me. I just don't like the idea of someone playing mind games or manipulating me, and i feel he has already started to try and do that. But there is only a game if there are two players involved, right? im sitting this one out one the bench!
**Crickets**
Posted by LunarMaiden
**Crickets**
LOL
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Smart Woman ^^^
You smoke/drink?
Tell me about yourself...🙂
LOl @ smoke/ drink?
Im always put off by that question.
Also I have my merc in Pisces so I don't just go around spewing facts about myself, for i am very private despite airing my laundry on DXP...read some of my post im sure you'll find out something about me
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Smart Woman ^^^
You smoke/drink?
Tell me about yourself...🙂
🙂
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Smart Woman ^^^
You smoke/drink?
Tell me about yourself...🙂LOl @ smoke/ drink?
Im always put off by that question.
Also I have my merc in Pisces so I don't just go around spewing facts about myself, for i am very private despite airing my laundry on DXP...read some of my post im sure you'll find out something about me
I don't see why your so put off by that question
Spewing facts—..Really—...****Shruggs****
Or you could just inbox it, but Im not about to go weaving through hundreds of your posts just to find out what your personality is like, thats crazyness...click to expand
Ok
OMG EEE . . . LOL . . .
I thought it sounded kinda romantic . . . (ducks head and runs . . .)
I think it depends on the context, when and where he said it.
This is why I probably shouldn't be allowed to date. My common sense hasn't been too common lately.
Love, LS67
... and boy does he like attention
I have barely given him any...
A guy isn't going to desire having a woman love him who barely notices him.
This is likely just you being an attention whore again and creating this lie so that you look special.
... and boy does he like attention
I have barely given him any...
A guy isn't going to desire having a woman love him who barely notices him.
This is likely just you being an attention whore again and creating this lie so that you look special.
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That's a lie. That's why there are pages upon pages of post On here about people loving people who ignore disappaear and treat them like crap. So p fangel your wrong this time sir, don't go slitting your wrist now, we all are wrong sometimes.
It's obvious people like getting treated like shit
It wasn't super cheesy though because we were making out, it kinda flowed with the moment. But it threw me off because I sensed the G in his words
It's either preceding obsession (first stalking, then kidnapping, finally the death of you) or telltale of a bloated ego. Not fucking cute or romantic. The line's just a card in the con-man's sleeve, and accessory to the tool that he may be.
Don't know how this will play out but im talking to two Taur its going slow, I don't mind though because I am not sure about either
To OP... it means they are going to do whatever it takes to win you over.
Posted by tbird
To OP... it means they are going to do whatever it takes to win you over.
Lol well see about that
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When someone says they are going to make you fall in love with them?