What is wrong with me and this situation?

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Zodiaclove88
@Zodiaclove88
9 Years

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Does anybody else feel like they only seem to match with or get feelings for people with baggage, ending relationships, or currently in them? I already feel like a bad person.

Most recent interaction: early last week a guy from my gym that I’ve been crushing on had talked to me and asked for my number and we have been connecting since. I’ve gone out with groups and him and everyone has commented on how interested in me he seems. I recently found out from him that he had a girlfriend and that things are complicated in that she lives across the country and they don’t talk and had a bad falling out when he took this job opportunity. We have not been physical, but I feel like we are really connecting and I want to be real with myself and try to be as respectful of myself and him and his girlfriend. Do you think he will break up with her? It also seems like they have some issues and never effectively communicate.

Zodiac info:

Myself: sun-Leo

Moon-Libra

Venus-Cancer

Mars- Aries

Him: Sun-Aries

Moon-Pisces

Venus- Pisces

Mars- Pisces

Her: Sun- Gemini

Moon- Virgo

Venus- Gemini

Mars- Pisces (I think this is hers?)

Please help
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Gemitati
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Posted by Zodiaclove88

Does anybody else feel like they only seem to match with or get feelings for people with baggage, ending relationships, or currently in them? I already feel like a bad person.

Most recent interaction: early last week a guy from my gym that I’ve been crushing on had talked to me and asked for my number and we have been connecting since. I’ve gone out with groups and him and everyone has commented on how interested in me he seems. I recently found out from him that he had a girlfriend and that things are complicated in that she lives across the country and they don’t talk and had a bad falling out when he took this job opportunity. We have not been physical, but I feel like we are really connecting and I want to be real with myself and try to be as respectful of myself and him and his girlfriend. Do you think he will break up with her? It also seems like they have some issues and never effectively communicate.

Zodiac info:

Myself: sun-Leo

Moon-Libra

Venus-Cancer

Mars- Aries

Him: Sun-Aries

Moon-Pisces

Venus- Pisces

Mars- Pisces

Her: Sun- Gemini

Moon- Virgo

Venus- Gemini

Mars- Pisces (I think this is hers?)

Please help


She is across the country!

Imaginary friend! You are here! Grab him by the balls and he will forget everything! Good luck!
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Zodiaclove88
@Zodiaclove88
9 Years

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Posted by Ellygant

His chart says that if he isn’t taking charge in his love life, he will probably just go along with whatever seems easiest and takes care of his ego the most.

Your chart says you desperately want companionship, and that feeling like you worked hard to earn it, perhaps even to your own detriment, is the only way you think the love is real.

Her chart says she will do what’s best for her and won’t think twice about it.

She seems like the person who will be most fine in this situation.

As for attracting wounded/taken/baggage types, that’s probably means you have your own you are avoiding sorting out. So you’ll attract people with that theme till you fix it within yourself. Once you do, you will feel better and change your expectations, for yourself and relationships, and probably attract more equal and positive prospects.


Couldn’t have said it better myself. What are the chances of this working out at all? Is there any chance?