What made you realise you love someone?

A sense of lost? them dating other people? They giving you love? Them being hard to get? Them playing game? Them showing u consistency? Them loving you so hard and you fall? I'm curious, what's ur sun and venus too?

Posted by Effervescent
we were walkin on deh street nd den he was eatin a snickerz nd den he ripped it in half nd hes lyk "here" nd den i realized i loved him x

Hahaha..too funny . I realised I love mine when he spanked me ?

Posted by youngali
a mental and soul connection, transparent heart and consistency.

sagittarius sun

capricorn and aquarius venus.

Very deep for sag sun and Aqua venus. What's ur Eros n psychv

Psyche?

Posted by Algol-Rising
It's a feeling for me too, one that happens and that I know will be static no matter what I do. Relationships are all about reciprocity for me, but love is just love. It drops on me like a ton of bricks. I don't think I experience normal stages of infatuation and love like other people. I just go from not knowing someone to recognizing their soul from somewhere else. It's the kind of love that lasts even if they do something terrible and/or we have to distance ourselves.

Sometimes I'm surprised by the strength of it.

There was one time when I thought I was in love but wasn't. I just had a giant crush. I was 16. I fell in love for the first time the next year and knew the difference from then on.

What was the difference?

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Posted by Algol-Rising
It's a feeling for me too, one that happens and that I know will be static no matter what I do. Relationships are all about reciprocity for me, but love is just love. It drops on me like a ton of bricks. I don't think I experience normal stages of infatuation and love like other people. I just go from not knowing someone to recognizing their soul from somewhere else. It's the kind of love that lasts even if they do something terrible and/or we have to distance ourselves.

Sometimes I'm surprised by the strength of it.

There was one time when I thought I was in love but wasn't. I just had a giant crush. I was 16. I fell in love for the first time the next year and knew the difference from then on.

What was the difference?

It's hard to describe. It's a different feeling than a crush. It's only happened 4 times in 40 years, so it's pretty memorable when it does.

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There's love and there's true love 🙂

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Posted by Algol-Rising
It's a feeling for me too, one that happens and that I know will be static no matter what I do. Relationships are all about reciprocity for me, but love is just love. It drops on me like a ton of bricks. I don't think I experience normal stages of infatuation and love like other people. I just go from not knowing someone to recognizing their soul from somewhere else. It's the kind of love that lasts even if they do something terrible and/or we have to distance ourselves.

Sometimes I'm surprised by the strength of it.

There was one time when I thought I was in love but wasn't. I just had a giant crush. I was 16. I fell in love for the first time the next year and knew the difference from then on.

What was the difference?

It's hard to describe. It's a different feeling than a crush. It's only happened 4 times in 40 years, so it's pretty memorable when it does.

There's love and there's true love 🙂

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Total bull. Love is true or it's not love.

So if you were right love is just a meh...but true love!!!

I realised I love someone when I realised that I'm willing to let them do whatever makes them happy. Also giving almost all of yourself to that person not wanting anything in return and being a rock to them, so they can lean on you

Only happened to me once,i always tell myself im inlove with my boyfriend or girlfriend in the past but then when it hit me i was like "so this is what love really feels" im not clingy but i would want her to text me once a day,i can literally feel whenever something is happening to her,and when i look into her eyes whenever i make her laugh i was like,damn im inlove with this woman?it just happened without me realizing it

i think when i cannot take them out of my mind, and i want to text all the times (im reluctant to texting generally speaking or even talking that much) - i want them to be around me, i get attached to their smell, im comfortable being vulnerable with them, i wanna make them the happiest and would do anything for them. Also when I wanna share things with them, thoughts, have deep conversation with them

Posted by Algol-Rising
It's so weird to read about people making love decisions based on logic and stuff. What the hell is wrong with me?

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I have lots of Aqua. I put logic on everything ( what the hell is wrong with me ) one thing I learn is you can't analyse love.... haha and I'm a queen of that

When you started to sacrifice.

Really, its that simple. See, I do many things to the people I'm in love with. I sacrificed my ego, my tears (cried for girls), my time, everything.

I believe that when you're in love, sacrifice is an important factor because it shows that you care for that person and you would go out of your way to care for them.

As someone once said, love involves 60/40 from both parties, with both parties thinking that they are giving 60 into the relationship. That's love. You don't calculate whether the relationship's fair at all, it just is without thinking.

Capricorn sun, Sag venus. I might edit this post later when my mind is more calm and tranquil as it is not atm.

I didn't just want to give him my body, I actually did give it to him.

There are other more PC answers that are also true, but I wanted to go with this one.

Posted by EtherealTraveler
When you started to sacrifice.

Really, its that simple. See, I do many things to the people I'm in love with. I sacrificed my ego, my tears (cried for girls), my time, everything.

I believe that when you're in love, sacrifice is an important factor because it shows that you care for that person and you would go out of your way to care for them.

As someone once said, love involves 60/40 from both parties, with both parties thinking that they are giving 60 into the relationship. That's love. You don't calculate whether the relationship's fair at all, it just is without thinking.

Capricorn sun, Sag venus. I might edit this post later when my mind is more calm and tranquil as it is not atm.

I like that. Sacrifice n 60/40!!

Posted by DlCKBUTT
I feeling in my heart that wasn't heartburn.

Mmm love or infatuation ? I have them too

This thread is so beautuful .. Im inlove with it. Make my day.

Its funny coz i started getting tose heart burnt n exciting feeling 4 momths after we dated.. So i think it was real love n def not lust.

The first minute I saw my Taurus I knew I was in "like".