@LibraLovesHim
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Ladies...would you be mad if your man....
How Women Might Feel If Their Partner Transfers a Large Sum
Reactions vary depending on trust and communication. Some women may feel appreciated and secure, while others might feel suspicious or concerned about intentions. Open discussion about financial transfers helps maintain trust and understanding in long-term relationships.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Transferred $ 25,000 to your account, for say example you mentioned school fees you were currently paying off...Long term relationship.
And he got your bank account how?
If you break up, he will want that back.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Transferred $ 25,000 to your account, for say example you mentioned school fees you were currently paying off...Long term relationship.
It sounds like the plot to Shopgirl
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Transferred $ 25,000 to your account, for say example you mentioned school fees you were currently paying off...Long term relationship.
And he got your bank account how?
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Yeah I'd be pissed purely for this reason...that he invaded my privacy. But I'd for sure take the money. Thanks boo!
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Transferred $ 25,000 to your account, for say example you mentioned school fees you were currently paying off...Long term relationship.
And he got your bank account how?
Yeah I'd be pissed purely for this reason...that he invaded my privacy. But I'd for sure take the money. Thanks boo!
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She said LTR right? Hmmm
he'd be gettin his gobby sucked every goddam mornin for the rest of our lives
No complaints from meh.
I'd wonder wtf he didn't just buy me a Volvo.
😐
Posted by wagtail
he'd be gettin his gobby sucked every goddam mornin for the rest of our livesNo complaints from meh.
This plus a coochie credit card with no limit.
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agreed
It's all love babeh
If it's a long term relationship he's investing in OUR future when he spend dat cash.
If i had the resources I'd reciprocate the same way.
Money isn't everything but supporting your partners education is a priority whether it's being the guy who parents the kids full time while mama studies,
or works two jobs while mama studies,
or both partners work two jobs share parenting duties,
or what have you,
both sacrificing travel plans to save while studying etc it's all comin out in the wash to benefit both of you.
A lump sum payment is something to be grateful for-
Very easy to see the optimists vs the um... realistics.
Cynics 😄
Posted by wagtail
he'd be gettin his gobby sucked every goddam mornin for the rest of our livesNo complaints from meh.
You get one side.. I get the other, and we split the cash moneyz?
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LOL
The question is, what does he do for a living? If he's already well off, then why would you question it? If he works a normal job though, that may be cause for a few questions. Maybe he has a lot of savings. If his profession is....sketchy...then ask a LOT of questions.
Posted by Montgomery
Very easy to see the optimists vs the um... realistics.Cynics 😄
Realist here LOL
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I hear you (and I put realistics... I know it's not
a word, but realist isnt appropriate here)-- but...
I can't imagine you, for instance, being in a
long-term relationship with someone and being
completely unaware of his financial situation.
Our realistics are assuming this man, or any
man you may date, wouldn't have the bank
account to do this.
Why... ?
People really need to learn how to appreciate gifts. I'm shocked, SHOCKED I tell you, how many people are so mistrusting.
Hell yeah, bj's forever for that. There is no amount I would accept for anal @GetMisted.
Posted by sultrykitty
People really need to learn how to appreciate gifts. I'm shocked, SHOCKED I tell you, how many people are so mistrusting.Hell yeah, bj's forever for that. There is no amount I would accept for anal @GetMisted.
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I'll take the sloth.
And the money.
Still no to the back door action. 😄
if my hubby transferred $ $ to my account, i'd say 'thank you babe ?' lol
If he can afford it and our relationship is good, I'd be very grateful. If I hadn't given him my bank account info, I'd be curious about that, but other than that, I have no problem with it. There are definitely ways a person could get that info w/o being creepy - cheques, for example. You can't take money out of someone's account with the info on cheques, unless the cheque is made out to you, you can only put it in.
Posted by Capz
? how horrible ?stop copying the real ceo
who is that ?
not you
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Progress.
Posted by Chuckcem
The question is, what does he do for a living? If he's already well off, then why would you question it? If he works a normal job though, that may be cause for a few questions. Maybe he has a lot of savings. If his profession is....sketchy...then ask a LOT of questions.This matters a lot. Is this a lot of money for him or isn't it? It's a shitload of money for most people. If he sells drugs, definitely don't take it. 😆
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If you're dating a drug dealer... :/
Uncomfortable
Would feel like a kept woman
@LibraLovesHim, did this happen to you?
Posted by MyStarsShine
@LibraLovesHim, did this happen to you?
No no it was a part in the new shades of grey movie-this chick complains about everything right enough lol!
As long as he didn't sell an organ
Posted by tiziani
How horrible.
The nerve!
Realists often = jaded
Keep looking a gift horse in the mouth...
Keep getting in the way of your own blessing...
Keep letting the cloud of past relationship follow you around like dust does Pig Pen...
Not sexy
Posted by MyStarsShine
@LibraLovesHim, did this happen to you?No no it was a part in the new shades of grey movie-this chick complains about everything right enough lol!
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Oh right
I can't decide which would piss me off the most....taking the money or watching that movie. 😛
Fifty Shades of Hype
🙂
Posted by MyStarsShine
@LibraLovesHim, did this happen to you?No no it was a part in the new shades of grey movie-this chick complains about everything right enough lol!
Oh right
I can't decide which would piss me off the most....taking the money or watching that movie. 😛
Fifty Shades of Hype
🙂
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Hahaha believe me I got through it with a bottle of Prosecco! That helped.
Posted by MyStarsShine
@LibraLovesHim, did this happen to you?No no it was a part in the new shades of grey movie-this chick complains about everything right enough lol!
Oh right
I can't decide which would piss me off the most....taking the money or watching that movie. 😛
Fifty Shades of Hype
🙂
Hahaha believe me I got through it with a bottle of Prosecco! That helped.
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Haha, brave woman
I keep seeing the books in charity shops for a euro or two each......says it all really
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Transferred $ 25,000 to your account, for say example you mentioned school fees you were currently paying off...
Long term relationship.