What makes a guy decide to marry?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by spica on Saturday, October 20, 2007 and has 4 replies.

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

I know this is a broad question that may not be easy to answer in full detail, but little bits of 'truth' would be enlightening, and even better since they're concise.

This is 2007, and seriously, people I know personally are getting married left and right (this has not happened before, either that or I'm blind?!). There'd be 4 marriages this year for my friends (and to think I don't have THAT many..)

So, to cut to the chase, why do some people marry early, and some marry late, or date without marrying at all?

I know this may be assuming that the guy makes all the marriage decisions, which ain't the case always, but being one-half of the couple duo, on the female side, I'm curious as to what guys think regarding marriage.

In essence: What makes a marriage-minded man and a bachelor-or-in-a-relationship-type man? This puzzles me, because I know 2 of my friends already married at 23-24, with their husbands not really much older.

So, is it the girl that makes men decide to marry, or is it their innate "marrying" mechanism activating?

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@Cancer Lady
18 Years1,000+ Posts

"He is strongly attracted to you to want to start the breeding process"

Can you further explain this please? Like at this time he see you as being the mother of his children and is eagered to start a family with you?

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

Gemfox, w00t! Thanks for searching articles for the topic!
It's way true. I liked another article you posted, regarding what men look for in women.
I think you're a wise 'un under this girly bubbly exterior.

Cheers 😉 🙂