Why do I always seem to attract sensitive men?

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Ok so for some reason I keep attracting men that are sensitive . Unless all men are like this and I can't imagine that's the case. Is it my chart?? I seem to attract alot of water signs as well..


Sun Libra 8.10 ??
Moon Sagittarius 29.13 ??
Mercury Libra 0.38 ??
Venus Scorpio 6.45 ??
Mars Sagittarius 27.13 ??
Jupiter Capricorn 4.44 ??
Saturn Scorpio 14.22 ??
Uranus Sagittarius 10.21 ??
Neptune Sagittarius 28.48 ??
Pluto Scorpio 1.07 ??
Lilith Aries 2.48 ??
Asc node Taurus 28.31 ??
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Posted by libnicole84
Ok so for some reason I keep attracting men that are sensitive . Unless all men are like this and I can't imagine that's the case. Is it my chart?? I seem to attract alot of water signs as well..


Sun Libra 8.10 ??
Moon Sagittarius 29.13 ??
Mercury Libra 0.38 ??
Venus Scorpio 6.45 ??
Mars Sagittarius 27.13 ??
Jupiter Capricorn 4.44 ??
Saturn Scorpio 14.22 ??
Uranus Sagittarius 10.21 ??
Neptune Sagittarius 28.48 ??
Pluto Scorpio 1.07 ??
Lilith Aries 2.48 ??
Asc node Taurus 28.31 ??



oh joy! come down in the south so you can meet men who beat the shit out of woman, and couldnt treat one decently if he wanted to. then you will truely know the meaning of 'dont know how good you got it till its gone'

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LibNicole84,
Well, he obviously choked some brain cells out of you because being "abusive" and "sensitive" are two completely different things. Unless, he was an emotionally unstable man who's abusive. I'm a sensitive man, but I would never, ever hit a woman. I think for this post, your title was meant to be, "Why do I seem to attract emotionally toxic men into my life?" You can change this, though. I think it's going to take alot of soul searching on your part and find out what it is about yourself that's drawing these toxic personalities into your life. Good Luck. 🙂

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Posted by libnicole84
Ok so for some reason I keep attracting men that are sensitive . Unless all men are like this and I can't imagine that's the case. Is it my chart?? I seem to attract alot of water signs as well..


Sun Libra 8.10 ??
Moon Sagittarius 29.13 ??
Mercury Libra 0.38 ??
Venus Scorpio 6.45 ??
Mars Sagittarius 27.13 ??
Jupiter Capricorn 4.44 ??
Saturn Scorpio 14.22 ??
Uranus Sagittarius 10.21 ??
Neptune Sagittarius 28.48 ??
Pluto Scorpio 1.07 ??
Lilith Aries 2.48 ??
Asc node Taurus 28.31 ??



Lotta high scoring Sagittarius in your chart! Way more than your actual Sun sign.
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Posted by libnicole84
That guy was a Capricorn trying to control me n keep me in all the time. Which made me rebel which ended up in a blowout. Great I like a cancer guy right now haha



All Capricorn men beat the hell out of their girlfriends/wives. You didn't know that? Joking....but I almost got into a relationship with a Cap once. We hadn't even slept together and he hit me. I never spoke to him AGAIN! I didn't get the sensitive vibe from him either.
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Usually when you've asked yourself why is it that sensitive men are attracted to you it means that you are making them feel comfortable enough to be that way around you. Even a so called "sensitive" man by nature is not going to cry in front of a woman if he feels that she is going to make fun of him or if she speaks about not liking to date punks. In my opinion all men are sensitive in some way. Some just don't show it in public. I love sensitive men. I love stroking their little egos and making them feel like they are the best thing in my world. That is what allows them to exhale and open up more. Treat sweet and be treated sweet.
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I dont even know where I got that chart from in december... The one I get off cafe astrology is this




Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 8.27 Ascendant Libra 4.33
Moon Capricorn 2.56 II Scorpio 1.02
Mercury Libra 1.09 III Sagittarius 1.40
Venus Scorpio 7.05 IV Capricorn 5.14
Mars Sagittarius 27.25 V Aquarius 8.37
Jupiter Capricorn 4.45 VI Pisces 8.48
Saturn Scorpio 14.24 VII Aries 4.33
Uranus Sagittarius 10.22 VIII Taurus 1.02
Neptune Sagittarius 28.48 IX Gemini 1.40
Pluto Scorpio 1.08 Midheaven Cancer 5.14
Lilith Aries 2.50 XI Leo 8.37
Asc node Taurus 28.30 XII Virgo 8.48



What I do think happens is these "sensitive" guys see me as sweet and sorta shy they hang out with me but I always come off cold at first... I dont really show my feelings or get all enthusiastic about shit especially at first.. I feel people out so it seems like they think I dont like em... my ex that choked me was a pussy with some insecurity and anger issues... Even in that situation I wasn't "showing him" enough love or whatever... I didnt love him so that might be why but I think that just fueled the fire...

My first love used to threaten me all the time telling me he wanted to punch me in the mouth and break all my teeth haha.. so sweet huh? He was an aries

Since my most recent relationship I have been trying to figure out what about me attracts certain types of men.. Hoping to not attract then damn people anymore..
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Posted by libnicole84
I dont even know where I got that chart from in december... The one I get off cafe astrology is this




Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 8.27 Ascendant Libra 4.33
Moon Capricorn 2.56 II Scorpio 1.02
Mercury Libra 1.09 III Sagittarius 1.40
Venus Scorpio 7.05 IV Capricorn 5.14
Mars Sagittarius 27.25 V Aquarius 8.37
Jupiter Capricorn 4.45 VI Pisces 8.48
Saturn Scorpio 14.24 VII Aries 4.33
Uranus Sagittarius 10.22 VIII Taurus 1.02
Neptune Sagittarius 28.48 IX Gemini 1.40
Pluto Scorpio 1.08 Midheaven Cancer 5.14
Lilith Aries 2.50 XI Leo 8.37
Asc node Taurus 28.30 XII Virgo 8.48



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I feel like you are a Cap moon rather than Sag moon but I may be wrong. You come across as cap moon to me anyways.

Anyway from your first chart you have moon/mars/neptune conjunct in Sagittarius! This is exactly what my guys placements are. I don't feel you both are very alike..
Anyway what's your asc? Was it libra?

I keep telling Libras they should stay away from Aries they don't listen. They're naturally violent esp towards Libras.
Seems like sag libra or scorpio are your best matches.
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Posted by libnicole84
I dont want a cry baby or someone overly emotional i just want someone i can talk to and be best friends with to be honest someone that has my back and i have theirs no matter what.. idk... maybe i'm asking for to much



No you're not asking for too much.
The Libra Sun Capricorn Moon ladies I know are the prettiest of the lot; they're noble souls with gorgeous cheekbones and great hearts.

One was the school Belle. She got married few years ago. I didn't see her hub's sign (she's a Lib/Sco and also very private), but she has a good marriage.

I think you should stay away from Cancer Men, Aries or even Capricorns. Find a Libra, a mature one.
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Posted by libnicole84
I think emotionally slutty people make me nervous.. I feel really uncomfortable when boyfriends cry like sobbing cry to me... I'll comfort you but it still makes me a little uneasy... I rarely cry and if I do I'll be damned if I let you see me unless I absolutely cannot help it.



I hate that too. I hate any emtional manipulation of any sort, especially those that involve "crocodile tears".
You sound like you do best with a fellow air.
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Posted by libnicole84
I dont even know where I got that chart from in december... The one I get off cafe astrology is this




Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 8.27 Ascendant Libra 4.33
Moon Capricorn 2.56 II Scorpio 1.02
Mercury Libra 1.09 III Sagittarius 1.40
Venus Scorpio 7.05 IV Capricorn 5.14
Mars Sagittarius 27.25 V Aquarius 8.37
Jupiter Capricorn 4.45 VI Pisces 8.48
Saturn Scorpio 14.24 VII Aries 4.33
Uranus Sagittarius 10.22 VIII Taurus 1.02
Neptune Sagittarius 28.48 IX Gemini 1.40
Pluto Scorpio 1.08 Midheaven Cancer 5.14
Lilith Aries 2.50 XI Leo 8.37
Asc node Taurus 28.30 XII Virgo 8.48



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I feel like you are a Cap moon rather than Sag moon but I may be wrong. You come across as cap moon to me anyways.

Anyway from your first chart you have moon/mars/neptune conjunct in Sagittarius! This is exactly what my guys placements are. I don't feel you both are very alike..
Anyway what's your asc? Was it libra?

I keep telling Libras they should stay away from Aries they don't listen. They're naturally violent esp towards Libras.
Seems like sag libra or scorpio are your best matches.


Im a Libra asc sag sun and never had problems with Aries and im surrounded by them, my brother and 2 of his friends then a few of my friends. my Mars is in Libra and Sun in Sag and my best friends growing up one was Gemini Sun Mars Aries and the other Aries sun MArs Scorpio
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Chums and relationships are different. I was just saying for Aries/Libra relationships. Plus you're a Sagittarius, you love Aries as a fellow Fire signer.

I don't have problems with Aries men as a whole actually.

I think your friends sound OK..