I just got friend zoned...

by my boyfriend.

Ummm what?

Damn Libras 😢

Why do u think that u got friend zoned

Awww, it happens. I find one has to get over themself more so than the other person. Just boils down to someones opinion after all, what they think doesn't mesh with some part of self. No reflection on your personal awesome. Nope. 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
Awww, it happens. I find one has to get over themself more so than the other person. Just boils down to someones opinion after all, what they think doesn't mesh with some part of self. No reflection on your personal awesome. Nope. 🙂

Thank you 🙂 It just came out of no where. Hit me like a ton of bricks. It's his loss right? 🙂

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Posted by virgochick827
by my boyfriend.

Ummm what?

Damn Libras 😢

It happens. Look at it as his loss, and now your sexy Virgo self can go find somebody else who will properly appreciate you. 🙂 Find yourself a good water sign or a Cap and never look back!

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I know. It was just like really?! a week before Christmas?! who does that? lol 🙂 A water sign would be good? hmm...I will keep that in mind! Thanks! 🙂

That is very true. It just hurts right now is all. What can ya do tho?

One of his best friends got dumped yesterday as well, and we are meeting up for dinner and drinks on friday. I know, I know "plenty of fish in the sea". yeah yeah yeah lol.

I am actually going out with some girlfriends later on tonight 🙂

Thank you. You are very wise.

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Posted by venusianbull
Awww, it happens. I find one has to get over themself more so than the other person. Just boils down to someones opinion after all, what they think doesn't mesh with some part of self. No reflection on your personal awesome. Nope. 🙂

Thank you 🙂 It just came out of no where. Hit me like a ton of bricks. It's his loss right? 🙂

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Most definitely his loss. 🙂 Out of nowhere 'surprises' suck the root. It's like a shite present. Literally. Ooooo pretty box....oh...thanks so much. Erm, I think? Maybe not. I'll just put it over there.

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Posted by virgochick827
That is very true. It just hurts right now is all. What can ya do tho?

One of his best friends got dumped yesterday as well, and we are meeting up for dinner and drinks on friday. I know, I know "plenty of fish in the sea". yeah yeah yeah lol.

I am actually going out with some girlfriends later on tonight 🙂

Thank you. You are very wise.

Bwahahhahahaha awesome. That will bug him too, but he can't say a damned word about it.. he wanted it this way after all. Go out with his friend and see where it goes. See, you've already got guys lining up! Get Mr. Friend under some mistletoe at some point... there's no reason why you guys can't enjoy yourselves and have some holiday cheer together.

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Yup, nothing wrong with some dinner and booze between friends, right? haha. That is very true, he wanted this, he made his choice. He now has to live with the consequences of me being friends with his friends...Too bad for him. His friend is nice, very very friendly. Should be a good time on Friday.

Since he's the one who decided he didn't want you .. how does that make it his loss?

It doesn't

Don't trip on your ego as you try to wedge yourself out of the door

No guy ever wanted to be my friend so I think you should feel lucky

Posted by Let*It*Be
"I know. It was just like really?! a week before Christmas?!"

OUCH! DO NOT continue to acknowledge his existence! Move on and forget as easy as he did this. ugh..

That's the plan 🙂

I do not want him back, no matter how much he begs haha.

When the tables turn you can sit there laughing your ass off while he tries to pry you out of the friend zone.

LOL. Yup, I will be sitting there laughing when he tries to pry me out of there. Should be pretty entertaining to say the least.

For the fact that you are sitting here planning emotional reactions for your next encounter with him, I would say that you are thinking about him, putting energy into his being.

Which means it's your loss.

Virgochick just be like P Angel no emotions just constant RAGE AND HATRED...hell id shoot myself in the head if I had to live each day that way...

Well if he was going to dump you at least it's sooner rather than later. You get New Years to go out and who knows meet more new people and get your mind off of him.
Yes it is his loss you seem quite nice from the posts I have read. But I am not saying that he is this crap of a man either because he dumped you or anything. He wasn't bi-polar was he? Many Libras who I have known have been, so you know I had to ask. Since it is a huge surprise which makes you say WTF over and over again, and since he is a libra (total air goes anywhere not so stable for earth) Yes listen to cowpuncher go find yourself a nice water man. Earth and Water = perfection! I can hear bubbling brooks can't you?. 😛

Yes, that is true. I am glad he did it sooner than later. I am starting to get over the whole thing. It is what it is, that was his choice and all I want is for him to be happy. He might been a little bi-polar, and OMG he did drive me up the wall very often. I am very "let's plan everything" and he is very "let's do this, because it sounds fun". I honestly couldn't handle very much of it. I have noticed that I have dated a lot of air signs in my past. Maybe that's why my relationships never really lasted. In fact, my longest relationship (3 years) was with a pisces. Maybe I should stick with water signs lol 🙂

Good for you - honestly. You will be FINE. Virgos are a hand full for Libras. You guys are such perfectionists, and tend to over-plan, it drives Libra nuts. (I mean all these comments in a positive way - I have a Virgo Moon, and love it!)

A word of advice from someone who comes from almost an entire family of Libras - WATCH OUT!

If he hasn't hit you up since this last posting, he will soon. Libras can't ever let go. Especially if they think you're talking about them, or perhaps may take them back when they're ego has been hit by the 'harsh world'.

har.har.

good luck to ya! =)