Women, letting a guy in your bed? (Page 2)

Posted by HungVirgo

Posted by leejt86
hahah this thread

im kinda accepting that she's just a friend.

she's too guarded to let me get close and probably wont let her guard down. maybe something will happen in the future, who knows.

You dont have to wait for something to happen, something is already happening...youre in her bed...how many men would want to be in your position?
and you should never decide what a woman is thinking and use it to preemptively friendzone yourself, thats just fear. Use action to put the pressure on HER to decide/inform you what you two are, ie make a move.

Stop over thinking, shes not some holy unapproachable angel, shes a woman who takes shits and gets fucked by men.
Do you want to be one of them or not?
at a certain point between adults talking is ineffective, this is one of those times, you have to act or its not going to happen. Next time youre in bed with her just go the route I gave you, you will get farther than you've ever been yet. If you cant do what i suggested previously, then at least rub her ass, start with her hip then make your way down to her cheeks and start rubbing and squeezing. dont do it like a pussy either, act like its ok to find her attractive, the worst that can happen is she moves your hand or makes you sleep on the couch. If your too scared to do that then im not going to waste any more time here

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so being in her bed isnt friendzoning me already?

If you can sleep in her bed and be emotionally detached, do it. If you sleep in her bed, hoping for more, reading into things and over analyzing things... stay out of her bed.

There is no sleeping, we just lay there and listen to music and stuff

I'm keeping my distance, I haven't texted her in almost a week.

Last time I did that she started inviting herself over lol

How do I figure out my charts?

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 7.58 220
Sun Trine Mars 3.17 123
Sun Opposition Jupiter 4.33 -223
Sun Square Uranus 3.22 -57
Moon Square Venus 4.14 -33
Moon Square Pluto 4.56 -27
Moon Sextile Ascendant 0.34 155
Mercury Square Neptune 3.13 -70
Venus Sextile Neptune 3.13 24
Venus Conjunction Pluto 0.42 313
Venus Sextile Midheaven 0.11 93
Mars Sextile Jupiter 1.16 294
Jupiter Square Uranus 1.10 -97
Saturn Trine Ascendant 6.48 6
Uranus Trine Ascendant 7.26 2
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2.32 33
Neptune Conjunction Midheaven 3.02 56
Pluto Sextile Midheaven 0.30 26
1345 -507 838

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 7.58 220
Sun Trine Mars 3.17 123
Sun Opposition Jupiter 4.33 -223
Sun Square Uranus 3.22 -57
Moon Square Venus 4.14 -33
Moon Square Pluto 4.56 -27
Moon Sextile Ascendant 0.34 155
Mercury Square Neptune 3.13 -70
Venus Sextile Neptune 3.13 24
Venus Conjunction Pluto 0.42 313
Venus Sextile Midheaven 0.11 93
Mars Sextile Jupiter 1.16 294
Jupiter Square Uranus 1.10 -97
Saturn Trine Ascendant 6.48 6
Uranus Trine Ascendant 7.26 2
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2.32 33
Neptune Conjunction Midheaven 3.02 56
Pluto Sextile Midheaven 0.30 26
1345 -507 838

Yep that's me in the avi

No 89

well, if youve been following my story, i did, lol

Right now my plan is to keep my distance. Not text, Facebook nothing. If she wants to spend time with me she can initiate it

Posted by leejt86
I'll give an example.

We went to the store to get some snacks when we chilled in her room. It took her forever to pick some out. On the way back she told me I was distracting her, and I didn't do anything unusual

and then just a few pages later....

Posted by leejt86
I'm keeping my distance, I haven't texted her in almost a week.

Last time I did that she started inviting herself over lol

*****SMH*****

VIRGO VIRGINS!!!!!

Sure dude. She totally doesn't like you. Oh, and she wants you to lay in her bed and....

Posted by leejt86
There is no sleeping, we just lay there and listen to music and stuff

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Omg, I just.....

I mean.....

You see.... I.....

Fuck it.
I just can't.

I don't understand, if she likes me why would she say she didn't care about my feelings?

Posted by filipinoprince
use your camera. tell her you're a fan of terry richardson. 😈

hahaha i love you

Posted by leejt86
Would you let a guy friend hang out with you in your bed?

Is it something normal?

No, the couch is in the living room.

I love this thread

im starting to think she might not be interested

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Your hands and eyes are very sexual. Its just that you seem to have a pane of glass between you and the world in that you can look through it but its still a barrier to letting your true self out or letting others feel you. You need to work on that or else you could spend your whole life being a vayeur--a very Virgo thing to do.

Good luck.

for someone who's never met me that's pretty dead on

NO! There has to be boundaries.

Posted by leejt86

Would you let a guy friend hang out with you in your bed?

Is it something normal?

Posted by leejt86

so "platonic friends" probably shouldnt be doing this?

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That ^^^^^^^ is from the first page, and I didn't read anything past that ......

You are 26 years old, and asking a question about what is normal for friends to do ... so this leads me to believe one of two things:

1. you're emotionally challenged, or
2. you're trying to start a sex thread but don't know how

since you are a Virgo, either of those is plausible