About this guy (he’s a Taurus)

I ended things about 3 months ago. Long story short. We met had the most amazing chemistry I’ve ever had with anyone. He treated me great always wanted to spend every second with me and was never pushy I loved who I was when I was with him. Yet it wasn’t long lasting. He ended up lying to me and hung out with an ex.... with all of their friends... and they had always. hung out before me and I know they were just friends in this big ole group. Well when I found out he lied to me saying he was going on this vacation with friends (6 guys) it turned out it was 3 guys and 3 girls. I immediately ended things with him. He was saddened by it I ignored him for a week then caved in a talked to him. He was very sweet and apologized and said they were just friends. Well I said ok let’s hangout again. And he says “ shut are you serious, I didn’t think u wanted to, you broke it off with me.I can’t tonight” I replied of course I want to if nothing is going on with u and your ex. He replied I’m so sorry this is so hard for me to tell you but we decided to get back together. Th.ere was more he wrote but that’s the jist of it. He was very nice about it and I know he knew he screwed up and I’m seated he had unfinished business and deep down I truly believe he didn’t mean to hurt me. I honestlyy think he got back with her bc I ended it. Well anyways I never texted him back. It to this day it’s killing me. I feel it so strong inside that I know he misses me as much as I miss him (and now he broke up with her a month ago) and I know he is stubborn and of course he won’t text me bc I think he thinks I hate him. But I’m also stubborn.... either I need closure or something. That chemistry we had was unbelievble that I know neither of us can deny. I see him every where and he doesn’t see me. I feel sometimes the universe sends me signs to contact him but then I think to myself ok your delusional lol. Our relationship we had was nothing like I’ve ever experienced before I feel like we are super connected. I have no idea if it’s a good idea to text him or not. Am I delusional to think he still has the same feelings and misses me.i just can’t ever get him off my mind not even for a second it’s so heavy in my chest. Mind you I’m not someone who hangs on to someone ever I’m so damn stubborn and my mind is set on you have to be strong always never back down. But this, this has been defeating me latley No negative feed back but of course honesty. I’m sure I missed somethings but I’m sure it’ll come out.

What a jerk! Don't think that him getting back with his ex is your fault. I mean you broke up with him for good reason, he's the one who lied not you! He didn't even fight for you when you talked to him again, you deserve better.

Just know, it wasnt until after you laid out a boundary, that he finally came clean.

That's the kind of child that is now off your hands. You no longer have to coax the truth out of a grown ass man.

Hes no prize and you calling him back and asking him out was practically gluttony for his ego. He got a reward for his bad behavior. 2 in fact, he has her and he still has you despite lying and going on vacation with women you dont know. Where the fawk was your ticket———??

This man faces zero concrete consequences from already 2 women.

He keeps having his needs met and can do whatever he wants cause neither you or the other women puts their foot down.

There are other men in the world and you are worthy Queen.

Thank you all for answering back!!! I actually haven’t texted him yet. I want to because it’s bothering me so bad I think I need some kind of closure. I miss him and the connection so much but the way he lied I just can’t go back to it. I just need some kind of closure but don’t know how to go about it.

Posted by nanobot

I think that you're romanticizing him, and your "chemistry" and "connection"

If it was as incredible and requited as you say it was, then he would not have gotten back with his ex immediately after you broke up with him.

I suspect that something happened between them on the vacation and that you were right to break up with him. Don't second guess your initial intuition and move on from this. Move on and don't look back

Thank you all for answering back!!! I actually haven’t texted him yet. I want to because it’s bothering me so bad I think I need some kind of closure. I miss him and the connection so much but the way he lied I just can’t go back to it. I just need some kind of closure but don’t know how to go about it.

Posted by hibye

What a jerk! Don't think that him getting back with his ex is your fault. I mean you broke up with him for good reason, he's the one who lied not you! He didn't even fight for you when you talked to him again, you deserve better.

Thank you all for answering back!!! I actually haven’t texted him yet. I want to because it’s bothering me so bad I think I need some kind of closure. I miss him and the connection so much but the way he lied I just can’t go back to it. I just need some kind of closure but don’t know how to go about it.

Posted by Shey8888

Posted by hibye

What a jerk! Don't think that him getting back with his ex is your fault. I mean you broke up with him for good reason, he's the one who lied not you! He didn't even fight for you when you talked to him again, you deserve better.

Thank you all for answering back!!! I actually haven’t texted him yet. I want to because it’s bothering me so bad I think I need some kind of closure. I miss him and the connection so much but the way he lied I just can’t go back to it. I just need some kind of closure but don’t know how to go about it.

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In my opinion you got closure when he said he was back with his ex and couldn't hang out. At this point I'd move on. It's going to hurt for a while but it'll get better with time and you'll thank yourself later.

I'd never be able to trust him since he'd lied to you already