Advice on those new to relationships

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piscesmoon2
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what is your sun signs... that would help.

I would actually just be careful unless you have know eachother for a bit. Mercury retro was just going on... Venus entering Aries will strike quite a few new into relationships. Just make sure you guys both have similar expectations and don't expect her to work or think just like you do.

I hope you are feeling also good about the new status... and realized it the easy part to really get in a relationship but to have a meaningful long lasting connection does take effort on both parts. Other then that just be respectful.

Piscesmoon
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Put in effort! Court the girl and make her feel special. Google courting if you need to. Don't date other girls at the same time.

But don't be too clingy. Give some space.
Why can't the girl court? We like flowers too. #meninism
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You seriously like flowers?? I find guys hard to shop for, especially in the beginning of a new relationship.

I think guys need to court instead of being players.
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Posted by DickButt
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by DickButt
Posted by pinkbird03
Put in effort! Court the girl and make her feel special. Google courting if you need to. Don't date other girls at the same time.

But don't be too clingy. Give some space.
Why can't the girl court? We like flowers too. #meninism
You seriously like flowers?? I find guys hard to shop for, especially in the beginning of a new relationship.

I think guys need to court instead of being players.
So if a man doesn't court he's a player? Maybe he just sucks at female contact. Women can be players too btw. Part of the guy population is gift dumb, so it's hard for them to shop for women too. Also i don't see a label on flowers that say women only.

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I can't live in this oppressive society where my masculinity is my prison.

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lol I am only writing my from my personal experiences as being a girl and what I would want. Being that this guy is a male, I'm just assuming he's asking for relationship advice with women, which is why I'm not talking about the male perspective. Perhaps I am wrong to make that assumption. This has nothing to do with you personally. Hope you are not offended! I honestly do not know anything about a males dating perspective. Enlighten me ? This could be helpful!!
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Pink Bird
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Comments: 975 · Posts: 5791 · Topics: 44
Posted by DickButt
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by DickButt
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by DickButt
Posted by pinkbird03
Put in effort! Court the girl and make her feel special. Google courting if you need to. Don't date other girls at the same time.

But don't be too clingy. Give some space.
Why can't the girl court? We like flowers too. #meninism
You seriously like flowers?? I find guys hard to shop for, especially in the beginning of a new relationship.

I think guys need to court instead of being players.
So if a man doesn't court he's a player? Maybe he just sucks at female contact. Women can be players too btw. Part of the guy population is gift dumb, so it's hard for them to shop for women too. Also i don't see a label on flowers that say women only.

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I can't live in this oppressive society where my masculinity is my prison.

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lol I am only writing my from my personal experiences as being a girl and what I would want. Being that this guy is a male, I'm just assuming he's asking for relationship advice with women, which is why I'm not talking about the male perspective. Perhaps I am wrong to make that assumption. This has nothing to do with you personally. Hope you are not offended! I honestly do not know anything about a males dating perspective. Enlighten me ? This could be helpful!!


I'm extremely offended. So offended, that i will have to sit down with the meninism council and get back to you.

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I look forward to hearing from you!!
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1. Let the person be free to choose you as you've chosen them. You don't own them, and vice versa, so don't try to force anything upon them.

2.Never stop courting the other person. Don't become complacent.

3. Remain loving at all times, even during the rough times. Learn how to forgive mistakes.

4.Do not use a relationship as a means to validate yourself. If you need to be with another person in order to feel whole, entering into a relationship will not actually help you. A couple requires two whole people to work.

5. Maintain some form of individuality. Be sure to take care of yourself and your needs so that you can always bring your best to the table. Likewise remember that the other person is an individual as well with their own needs.

6. Always create an environment of honesty, trust, and open communication. Without this your relationship will fail.

7. Don't be afraid to feel.