@Aleem22
9 Years
Can't leave relationship
How to Handle a Relationship Where Your Partner Says You Cannot Leave
If your partner insists you cannot leave, it may indicate controlling behavior or emotional manipulation. It is important to prioritize your safety and seek support from trusted friends, family, or professionals. Recognizing unhealthy patterns and setting boundaries are crucial steps toward resolving or ending the relationship safely.
Posted by AquariusBeauty
Be a man and leave. Why are you going to be manipulated to stay when you're miserable?You do you, baby boo.
i know but what if that girl is crazy lol
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
If a man "can't" leave his girlfriend when he wants toThen he's not a man and deserves it.
How weak can you get, smh.
Agreed but some people cant seem to see the light haha
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
If a man "can't" leave his girlfriend when he wants toThen he's not a man and deserves it.
How weak can you get, smh.
Agreed but some people cant seem to see the light haha
That's because most "men" see vagina as a God.
Here's the whole fact of life:
Men want pussy, women got pussy = take these words and really get into thinking.
When you finally realize what's the picture is, you'll stop asking questions like the the one in this thread.
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its not my situation though i reedited my original post because i knew what was coming. i just wanted to know why these guys think like that cuz i know guys who can't leave even if they wanted to 😉
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
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I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
Posted by nanobyte
I put my hand on my spineand realize that I still have one.
I've always kind of done this thing called whatever the fuck I want
A man telling me I can't do anything just makes me laugh and pat their head
If anything, I will continue to do what he didn't want me to do, out of sheer spite.
lol i know you'd do what you want 😉
You're gonna have to find your happiness, with or without her.
Posted by Mandy27
Restraining order
lol well yes thats always an option 😄
that means you gave her some good dick!!!!
Posted by uchiha
that means you gave her some good dick!!!!
lol that's how some girls are
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
I was in that situation. He even left a suicide note that our son found once. There was fake blood on it. Completely manipulative and sick. I still pity him.
But I pity my kids even more for what they've endured. And they're all great kids who've shown there strength through all the craziness.
You or they can talk to the family or friends of your S/O, let them know he or she needs help, and start planning on your exit strategy even faster.
No good comes out of being in a relationship like that. For anyone.
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yes things can get very extreme! hope all that gets resolved 🙂
Posted by AquariusBeauty
Be a man and leave. Why are you going to be manipulated to stay when you're miserable?You do you, baby boo.
i know but what if that girl is crazy lol
Damn. Protection, pepper spray, tazer lol
Or let her bitch slap you
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its how crazy she can get, you just gotta walk away from that
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
You leave.
Everyone is responsible for themselves. She is not a child.
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It is childish
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
You leave.
Everyone is responsible for themselves. She is not a child.
It is childish
That is her problem.
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i know i would recommend help for that person 🙂
You buy her a VS gift card and bounce when she goes to shop
Posted by Ssuperman
You buy her a VS gift card and bounce when she goes to shop
lol
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
I was in that situation. He even left a suicide note that our son found once. There was fake blood on it. Completely manipulative and sick. I still pity him.
But I pity my kids even more for what they've endured. And they're all great kids who've shown there strength through all the craziness.
You or they can talk to the family or friends of your S/O, let them know he or she needs help, and start planning on your exit strategy even faster.
No good comes out of being in a relationship like that. For anyone.
I could see myself doing that.
lol
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You'd do that?
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
I was in that situation. He even left a suicide note that our son found once. There was fake blood on it. Completely manipulative and sick. I still pity him.
But I pity my kids even more for what they've endured. And they're all great kids who've shown there strength through all the craziness.
You or they can talk to the family or friends of your S/O, let them know he or she needs help, and start planning on your exit strategy even faster.
No good comes out of being in a relationship like that. For anyone.
yes things can get very extreme! hope all that gets resolved 🙂
Yeah they really can get extreme. And it's been resolved for a few years now, thanks 🙂
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good 🙂
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
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I've had some people threaten to hurt themselves if I left..but that was hurting me so I just had to.
Guess what..?
He is alive and well.
But I'd still tell other people they are threatening their own lives if it gets too out of hand/intense.
You can't be forced into staying with someone. It will only create resentment in the long run.
Is she threatening you in any way?
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
I've had some people threaten to hurt themselves if I left..but that was hurting me so I just had to.
Guess what..?
He is alive and well.
But I'd still tell other people they are threatening their own lives if it gets too out of hand/intense.
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wow yes i hear guys do this alot
Posted by AquariusBeauty
Be a man and leave. Why are you going to be manipulated to stay when you're miserable?You do you, baby boo.
i know but what if that girl is crazy lol
Damn. Protection, pepper spray, tazer lol
Or let her bitch slap you
its how crazy she can get, you just gotta walk away from that
true, if worst case scenario get a restraining order against her.
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good idea 🙂
Posted by Chuckcem
You can't be forced into staying with someone. It will only create resentment in the long run.
yep someone may trip in the future
Posted by blackphase
Anyone can do whatever they want... Man or woman, it's your choice.
I hear you but its not easy as it sounds...this is not my situation but those who have been through it find it very difficult cuz they already have an emotional bond.
Posted by LillyPetal
Is she threatening you in any way?
no it's not me lol but you sound like you were going to do her something
Posted by AquariusBeauty
Be a man and leave. Why are you going to be manipulated to stay when you're miserable?You do you, baby boo.
i know but what if that girl is crazy lol
You run!!!!
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For real!
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You order pizza!
It's smell awesome!
She said 'don't touch' - hell you would listen! It's pizza!!!
No difference! Is there?
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
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Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You order pizza!
It's smell awesome!
She said 'don't touch' - hell you would listen! It's pizza!!!
No difference! Is there?
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lol all this is just for fun. but what if they're psycho and would do crazy things?
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
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haha you went hard bro
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You order pizza!
It's smell awesome!
She said 'don't touch' - hell you would listen! It's pizza!!!
No difference! Is there?
lol all this is just for fun. but what if they're psycho and would do crazy things?
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Like eat ALL pepperoni and leave you with just a smell?
If I was in jury duty for murder...he is not guilty!
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
haha you went hard bro
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+1
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You order pizza!
It's smell awesome!
She said 'don't touch' - hell you would listen! It's pizza!!!
No difference! Is there?
lol all this is just for fun. but what if they're psycho and would do crazy things?
Like eat ALL pepperoni and leave you with just a smell?
If I was in jury duty for murder...he is not guilty!
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I don't eat pepperoni but i meant crazy like stalker kind of ish
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
So you stay!
Hating her guts but stay!
Living miserable life not even legally married because she said so!
What kind of man are you?
Woman?
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You order pizza!
It's smell awesome!
She said 'don't touch' - hell you would listen! It's pizza!!!
No difference! Is there?
lol all this is just for fun. but what if they're psycho and would do crazy things?
Like eat ALL pepperoni and leave you with just a smell?
If I was in jury duty for murder...he is not guilty!
I don't eat pepperoni but i meant crazy like stalker kind of ish
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So simple really! Pack and leave!
Is there easier way?
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
So you stay!
Hating her guts but stay!
Living miserable life not even legally married because she said so!
What kind of man are you?
Woman?
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hey don't hurt your head over this. this post is just for fun. its not my situation. lighten up will ya 😛
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
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MANipulation
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
haha you went hard bro
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LOL!
If she's threatening to kill herself, you have to tell them you're not happy & that continuing to be in a relationship that is beyond repair is emotionally harmful for the both of you.
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
I'm glad this is not your situation, under no circumstances should your friend leave. Instead send them here, for a full synastry analysis, also we can get the couple to enroll in DXP games for couples therapy and inevitable reconciliation.
Never move in with someone if you can't cover the rent on your own. Aka don't be forced to stay with them because you can't afford to leave.
Posted by AquariusBeauty
Be a man and leave. Why are you going to be manipulated to stay when you're miserable?You do you, baby boo.
i know but what if that girl is crazy lol
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all the better to run !
Posted by Aleem22
What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?(not saying this is my situation)
You leave.
I know but what if she's crazy and says she's gonna kill herself if you leave?
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that's on her !
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What if you're in a relationship and you want to leave but your girlfriend says you can't leave. What do you do? Don't laugh because I'm sure people may facing these situations. It could be the other way around where the girl can't leave her boyfriend. What does one do in this situation?
(not saying this is my situation)