What's your age limits?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Aleem22 on Tuesday, April 25, 2017 and has 55 replies.

What Are Common Age Limits for Dating

Age limits for dating vary based on personal preferences and cultural norms. Many people consider a range of about five to ten years older or younger as acceptable, but the ideal age difference depends on individual values and relationship maturity.

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@Aleem22
9 Years

How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by SeraphCuteness
I don't think I would be comfortable to date someone too much older. I am sure it's fine for other people ...I know a wonderful couple in my social circle who are this way.

But for me ...I think not 10 yrs...(although there is ten years between my mom and dad)

hmmm 5 yrs? Max 5 yrs? Preferably 2 yrs either way.

yeah you're right i guess 10 years is too much lol

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by WarAngel1

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Older: 2 years

Younger: depends on maturity.

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what if the person is more than 2 years older but they look young?

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

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sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

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Posted by Aleem22

Posted by SeraphCuteness
I think it's more ...I would feel I would be behind in life experience etc.

True we would be so apart in terms of knowledge and interests

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i disagree.

i have dated younger and older and have all connected on different things, never been an issue tbh. Life experiences teaches people more than a birthday. Some of the younger guys have been more mature than the older guys, because of what they had endured and well sometimes the older guys have been pretty immature i came to find out. lol

As long as everyone is legal.. who cares, if you connect, you connect.

Dont let a birthday cut you off from something that could be good is all i am saying and they are legal! lol

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@WitchmitchAries
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

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sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

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well i wont go for jail bate. everything else is far game.

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by justagirl

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by SeraphCuteness
I think it's more ...I would feel I would be behind in life experience etc.

True we would be so apart in terms of knowledge and interests

i disagree.

i have dated younger and older and have all connected on different things, never been an issue tbh. Life experiences teaches people more than a birthday. Some of the younger guys have been more mature than the older guys, because of what they had endured and well sometimes the older guys have been pretty immature i came to find out. lol

As long as everyone is legal.. who cares, if you connect, you connect.

Dont let a birthday cut you off from something that could be good is all i am saying and they are legal! lol

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you're right, some older guys are way more immature than younger guys lol you gave me hope 🙂 thanks

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by MissDiamond

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

My husband is 10 years older than me (I'm 26, he is 36) and we couldn't be happier with each other. 😏

When I was 22, I dated a 37 year old man briefly (15 years difference), it was a very passionate relationship but it didn't work out - not because the age difference though. I have always been attracted to men that are older than me. I like how they know how to make a woman feel safe, loved, and cared for. Plus I love how mature they are and more experienced sexually. I don't like immature, player, commitment phobic manboys. Of course I'm not saying that all 20 something men are immature and all 30 something and 40 something men are mature, there are always exceptions, but I'm sure you get what I'm saying. 🙂

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i get what you're saying 🙂 all the best in your marriage wish you the best 🙂

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by WitchmitchAries

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Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

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sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

well i wont go for jail bate. everything else is far game.

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what do you mean lol? sorry for not understanding

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@WitchmitchAries
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aleem22

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Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

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sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

well i wont go for jail bate. everything else is far game.

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what do you mean lol? sorry for not understanding

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under 18. they are called jail bait. vvv jail bait. lol sorry for spelling. touch = jail

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9 Years

Posted by Miamia13
I have never considered age to be a factor when getting to know someone. I must say it's a real turn-off when being younger or older holds relevance to another person. With that being said, I have yet to connect with anyone younger.

okay i understand but for a guy it might be diffrerent, for example if i wanted to have a child maybe someone older would be less fertile, though it may not always work like this

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@Aleem22
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Posted by WitchmitchAries

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Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

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sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

well i wont go for jail bate. everything else is far game.

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what do you mean lol? sorry for not understanding

under 18. they are called jail bait. vvv jail bait. lol sorry for spelling. touch = jail

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yeah for sure thats illegal yo

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@WitchmitchAries
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aleem22

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Posted by Aleem22

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Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

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sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

well i wont go for jail bate. everything else is far game.

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what do you mean lol? sorry for not understanding

under 18. they are called jail bait. vvv jail bait. lol sorry for spelling. touch = jail

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yeah for sure thats illegal yo

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thats why they are called JAIL BAIT. hehe

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by MiZLeo
3 years both older and younger. I've dated younger than 3 years... but.. eh.... that might change when I'm older though cause of maturity levels. I'm not really into older men tho....usually cause those men are in their 40+ ages. But I'm sure exceptions will come along.

yeah 3 years is not bad lol

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9 Years

Posted by WitchmitchAries

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Posted by Aleem22

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Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

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sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

well i wont go for jail bate. everything else is far game.

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what do you mean lol? sorry for not understanding

under 18. they are called jail bait. vvv jail bait. lol sorry for spelling. touch = jail

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yeah for sure thats illegal yo

thats why they are called JAIL BAIT. hehe

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i see plus they try to trick you by looking 18 plus

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9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aleem22

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Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

Image Not Found

sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

well i wont go for jail bate. everything else is far game.

Image Not Found

what do you mean lol? sorry for not understanding

under 18. they are called jail bait. vvv jail bait. lol sorry for spelling. touch = jail

Image Not Found

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yeah for sure thats illegal yo

thats why they are called JAIL BAIT. hehe

i see plus they try to trick you by looking 18 plus

click to expand

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by WitchmitchAries

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Why is it older and not younger? and why you ask?

Image Not Found

sorry but it can be younger too lol age limit in the sense of max youngness and max oldness. i just wanted to know lol

well i wont go for jail bate. everything else is far game.

Image Not Found

what do you mean lol? sorry for not understanding

under 18. they are called jail bait. vvv jail bait. lol sorry for spelling. touch = jail

Image Not Found

Image Not Found

yeah for sure thats illegal yo

thats why they are called JAIL BAIT. hehe

i see plus they try to trick you by looking 18 plus

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yeah i always knew that haha just not the term 😛

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@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Eh at this particular point in my life I'd probably go 2-3 years older and 4-5 years younger. I have certain life goals that I'm trying to attain and would prefer a partner on a similar track.

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@Crabra
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by WarAngel1

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Older: 2 years

Younger: depends on maturity.

what if the person is more than 2 years older but they look young?

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That's just it. We are so conditioned to look at age in years/experience and not physical appearance. I could say that I would never date an older woman (I'm 39), but what if said older woman looks like she is in her late 20's early 30's? Then it would no longer be accurate because I would date the fvcking crap out of her.

All that matters is that she is an adult, around the same maturity level I am, and we are attracted to each other. Fvck age.

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@libralotus
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I had to grow up fast plus was always ahead in school and started early. So my development level was a few years ahead. I rarely found anyone who I connect with my age nonetheless younger. Usually go for guys a few years older but the one now is nine years.

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11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by WarAngel1

Posted by Aleem22
How much older of a person would you date? For me i would say it depends on the person but if I really had to choose i'd say 10 years.

Older: 2 years

Younger: depends on maturity.

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Wtf?

Younger: "uhhh..well if she's mature enough!"

Older:"PFF only 2 years above."

so you'd date an 18 yr old if they're "mature enough" but not a 40 year old? With you having 37 yrs?

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@SalamanderCandy
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by Miamia13
I have never considered age to be a factor when getting to know someone. I must say it's a real turn-off when being younger or older holds relevance to another person. With that being said, I have yet to connect with anyone younger.

okay i understand but for a guy it might be diffrerent, for example if i wanted to have a child maybe someone older would be less fertile, though it may not always work like this

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"less fertile"

Well with arguments like those, you could say that women usually out-live men. So why date a guy that will die before you do?

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@Aleem22
9 Years

Posted by SalamanderCandy

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by Miamia13
I have never considered age to be a factor when getting to know someone. I must say it's a real turn-off when being younger or older holds relevance to another person. With that being said, I have yet to connect with anyone younger.

okay i understand but for a guy it might be diffrerent, for example if i wanted to have a child maybe someone older would be less fertile, though it may not always work like this

"less fertile"

Well with arguments like those, you could say that women usually out-live men. So why date a guy that will die before you do?

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you date the guy because he'll be alive for the majority of your life. but if she can't have children then thats different.

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@SalamanderCandy
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by SalamanderCandy

Posted by Aleem22

Posted by Miamia13
I have never considered age to be a factor when getting to know someone. I must say it's a real turn-off when being younger or older holds relevance to another person. With that being said, I have yet to connect with anyone younger.

okay i understand but for a guy it might be diffrerent, for example if i wanted to have a child maybe someone older would be less fertile, though it may not always work like this

"less fertile"

Well with arguments like those, you could say that women usually out-live men. So why date a guy that will die before you do?

you date the guy because he'll be alive for the majority of your life. but if she can't have children then thats different.

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I know, I was being slightly satirical. Both genders can be un-fertile though.

But from the posts it sounds like you're feeling pressured to do something..

Just know you don't have to jump to

anything you don't want to.

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