@AL4813
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Women and cheating—
People are people.
Posted by AL4813
Good morning intelligent and insightful folks of dxp.We all know that history wants us to only believe men are the cheaters and all that.
However present day has shown us that the ladies can be quite the dogs themselves lol.
Have women matched men in terms of cheating? Or do they do it more than men now?
Fellas, what's your honest opinion about today's generation of women? Do you feel they are trustworthy?
I have observed some pretty crazy stuff in terms of women who are in relationships, it seems of you're alpha enough, they'll let you in.
History (popular culture?) shows men this way since around the 1980s, before that women are painted much worse.
it's both - and it's sad whichever way you look at it because it's a problem in society
Have women matched men in terms of cheating? I think nowadays, it's become easier to act based off of being human rather than based off your gender.
Women are just as skillful as men. Women can do the same things as men.
Women and men are equally capable of cheating on their partners.
As for trusting this generation of women, I think it all depends on finding the right one. There's good and bad apples everywhere and the same thing goes for the dating market. I know women who like to do whatever they want and I know women who are very polite, reserved in public, and saving themselves for marriage.
I think there is more cheating among women because of how society now accepts and empowers us now, and because how with more prevalence, you hear more bad stories, but there's good and bad with everything. Empowering women created stronger women and more contributions to society, so the good overall is greater than the bad.
It's difficult to trust anyone.
The Age of Technology has worsened the problem 1000 fold.
Why is this still a problem then?
You know, we have good paternity tests now, based on DNA "fingerprinting"...
Cheating for all!!! In fact, its name should be changed to "individual swinging"
Undine.. what in the hell are you talking about?
Posted by Mandy27
I believe men and woman can be equally unfaithful, we are all human.Lol it takes a lot of skill for men to pull out 10 partners at a time but it only takes a pretty face for a female to bed as much.
You're joking right, maybe people on dating apps, men are so beta now, do they even have sex
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Lol most people on dating apps are just looking for attention. Unless you're superman, you're not pulling anything decent.
Dating apps are all about the appearance before personality which is why they're trash.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol it's a doggy dog world women could do it better if they want to.
Definitely true.
Is very rare to catch a cheating woman. Guys fall very quick when it comes to hiding affairs.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol it's a doggy dog world women could do it better if they want to.Definitely true.
Is very rare to catch a cheating woman. Guys fall very quick when it comes to hiding affairs.
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Seen a coworker of mine who's happily married. talk about this guy she's been talking to etc..
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol it's a doggy dog world women could do it better if they want to.Definitely true.
Is very rare to catch a cheating woman. Guys fall very quick when it comes to hiding affairs.
Seen a coworker of mine who's happily married. talk about this guy she's been talking to etc..
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She's not happily married if she's talking to other guys.. ?
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol it's a doggy dog world women could do it better if they want to.Definitely true.
Is very rare to catch a cheating woman. Guys fall very quick when it comes to hiding affairs.
It's the truth.
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That's why women are smarter than men, Men are naive.
Posted by AL4813
Good morning intelligent and insightful folks of dxp.
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Im sure you can sense my sarcasm when I start off with those intros lol
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol it's a doggy dog world women could do it better if they want to.Definitely true.
Is very rare to catch a cheating woman. Guys fall very quick when it comes to hiding affairs.
It's the truth.
That's why women are smarter than men, Men are naive.
But it all depends on maturity.
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yup!!!! if the guy isn't mature enough, she will go find other options. #truestory jk but yes if the girl isn't mature to be in a committed relationship then what's the point of being in a relationship?
Posted by Mandy27
I believe men and woman can be equally unfaithful, we are all human.Lol it takes a lot of skill for men to pull out 10 partners at a time but it only takes a pretty face for a female to bed as much.
You're joking right, maybe people on dating apps, men are so beta now, do they even have sex
Lol most people on dating apps are just looking for attention. Unless you're superman, you're not pulling anything decent.
Dating apps are all about the appearance before personality which is why they're trash.
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It is the same for women. I tried a dating app one time and all I got was guys texting me all they can do to me to please me.
I mean, I like that men would love to please me but I'm mature and looking for something other than sexual pleasure. So, I put down that I'm a Sapiosexual and never got anything again.
Concidering? Lol retard
Posted by Mandy27
I believe men and woman can be equally unfaithful, we are all human.Lol it takes a lot of skill for men to pull out 10 partners at a time but it only takes a pretty face for a female to bed as much.
You're joking right, maybe people on dating apps, men are so beta now, do they even have sex
Lol if a female looks good guys will hit on her left and right no work needed that's a fact.
i guess im ugly
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Not true.
If you look TOO GOOD dudes stay being little pussies and don't make a move.
Women have way more opportunities to cheat than men. There are equal "chances" on paper but men have to work more to get sex than women in general.
I have had a couple of flings and short adventures with married and committed women so sometimes it just takes a look, a drink and a smile and the rest is a formality. Two of the most memorable moments I have had recently were also quite interesting.
When I was sitting at a bar I was watching a couple arguing. The guy was a tall good looking man, kind of a softie though, while she was a blond hot and stunning woman in her 30s. I was drunk and dealing with my own issues about another EVIL AQUA, as usual. Infront of me there was this big broad mirror where I could watch them talking. I just locked my eyes with hers once when I noticed a subtle smile in her face and she wouldn't break eye contact so I never broke it either. It went on for like 10 minutes of looking and smiling while her guy was talking and talking. I was waiting for the guy to either leave for the bathroom or to get upset with her and leave the bar so that I could talk to her and get her number at least or even more. But it never happened, instead they left together. But I was like 99% sure that had he left, I would have had sex that night.
Another time I was in a dance bar, talking to some people when a blond short haired women came and sat next to me. She didn't say anything, she just laid her head on my shoulder. Then she left. After 10 minutes she came back, took my hand and we went dancing. I tried talking to her but she didn't say a word at all, instead she pushed her finger on my lips, signaling me to shut up. I did. Then while dancing we started french kssing for like a minute but not too obvious for others cause she stopped inbetween a couple of times. When the song ended she took me back to my place, like a little stupid boy. lol When I returned to my chair I talked to this guy who was sitting next to me and he said "dude, are you crazy—?" and laughed. I said "what's wrong?" He said I had balls to kiss her like that when her husband was drinking at the bar. I turned my head and saw her and him sitting on the bar, he never saw us I guess. I didn't know she was there with her husband anyway. lol
Women cheat more because they can. Seduction is an art women perfect out the womb.
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Good morning intelligent and insightful folks of dxp.
We all know that history wants us to only believe men are the cheaters and all that.
However present day has shown us that the ladies can be quite the dogs themselves lol.
Have women matched men in terms of cheating? Or do they do it more than men now?
Fellas, what's your honest opinion about today's generation of women? Do you feel they are trustworthy?
I have observed some pretty crazy stuff in terms of women who are in relationships, it seems of you're alpha enough, they'll let you in.