So I met this Capricorn guy online. He was very keen initially. We were texting everyday and we really hit it off, I'm a virgo. We met up as I was on a training course and he kissed me at the end of the night. We really got on well and I felt as though I wanted to see him again.
Before we met the first time I had suggested a weekend I was free so that we could meet up. We had a wonderful weekend away although we did have sex. He was quite rough and it really surprised me. I was very taken aback but the aggression in the bedroom but I still felt we had something. We went out the next day.
The week following that I was pulling back abit and I guess testing him. He text me about his issues with his wife (currently going through a divorce) and about suicidal dreams he was having about his daughter. It made me panic and I was texting saying maybe we should halt things as the situation was complicated. I invited him down the following weekend as I felt that I couldn't discuss such big things on text. He text the night before saying he was ill so knew he'd flake.
Then for 2 weeks we both stepped away and stopped texting. He text me a couple of weeks ago and said he was in the area. We met up, spoke about his problems and had a nice evening. (Nothing happened not even a kiss)
I then suggested he come down the following weekend. I booked a place to stay. He again acted flakey about an appointment he had. The times kept changing and eventually I said don't worry I'll cancel it. Since then I figured he just isn't ready and even though it's hard decided to just leave him alone and give space. He texts me every 3-4 days but with random pictures or videos of things I'd interest to me. But he never writes anything to go with it.
My question is this... if he's not ready/ interested why would he still text me? I know I slept with him too soon and feel a bit silly for doing so. Problem is despite all the baggage and problems I feel we have something special. Maybe I'm delusional but something in my gut tells me not to give up on him. I can't explain it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated🙂
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Before we met the first time I had suggested a weekend I was free so that we could meet up. We had a wonderful weekend away although we did have sex. He was quite rough and it really surprised me. I was very taken aback but the aggression in the bedroom but I still felt we had something. We went out the next day.
The week following that I was pulling back abit and I guess testing him. He text me about his issues with his wife (currently going through a divorce) and about suicidal dreams he was having about his daughter. It made me panic and I was texting saying maybe we should halt things as the situation was complicated. I invited him down the following weekend as I felt that I couldn't discuss such big things on text. He text the night before saying he was ill so knew he'd flake.
Then for 2 weeks we both stepped away and stopped texting. He text me a couple of weeks ago and said he was in the area. We met up, spoke about his problems and had a nice evening. (Nothing happened not even a kiss)
I then suggested he come down the following weekend. I booked a place to stay. He again acted flakey about an appointment he had. The times kept changing and eventually I said don't worry I'll cancel it. Since then I figured he just isn't ready and even though it's hard decided to just leave him alone and give space. He texts me every 3-4 days but with random pictures or videos of things I'd interest to me. But he never writes anything to go with it.
My question is this... if he's not ready/ interested why would he still text me? I know I slept with him too soon and feel a bit silly for doing so. Problem is despite all the baggage and problems I feel we have something special. Maybe I'm delusional but something in my gut tells me not to give up on him. I can't explain it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated🙂