@ashboogie89
9 Years
Why are people always trying to pair up Virgos and Capricorns?
Posted by rekt
I'm not a fan of this match either. Caps stay shitting on virgos.
Exactly! It might look good on paper but in real life this is not a good match
Well maybe it works with Capricorn girls and Virgo guys but when it's the other way around...nope. Not a good match at all.
That's like how they're always pairing Pisces with Cancers and Scorps...
—?
I could be friends with them, but not lovers...
This pairing is absolute HEADASS.
Theres a pure "worker/servant-master" complex with the two. And I hate it. I HATE it. Don't try to control me like that or I'll lash out. I'm sure as hell no ones servant. if I love you though, the things I'll do for you are endless. But for me to love a cap guy, that's already a feat in itself.
They only put us together because we're earth signs. That's it. And we look good on paper.
Virgos are earthy yes but we're mutable and mercurial. We need some excitement and romance. FIRE SIGNS!!! ? I've been saying this for months y'all
I asked a cap girl I know what she thought Of this pairing and she said it'll be "effortless but a lot of mind games" and I said ——?
Just pure and absoloute headass. I feel like if I ever pursued a cap guy I'd just get my heart broken because they literally shvt on us. I've seen too many virgals get walked all over by these guys. Virguys... Idk. It could go either way.
Posted by ashboogie89
Well maybe it works with Capricorn girls and Virgo guys but when it's the other way around...nope. Not a good match at all.i agree, even though Virgo women are earthy, they want excitement and fun in their life and someone passionate and romantic
even if they say they don't want that, they do!
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Truth ??
And cap guys just :/ it's never pure fun. It's "hahaha let's reorganize MY files. Or you could do it since you're SUCH a good organizer".
And I'm just like "bby why ... we could be out star gazing ?"
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy
Been there , done that , cap play the victim ones you speak up and then blame you and tell you re playing it instead
All they want is someone to feed their ego ( what us Virgo girls tend to do if were in love with you )
And sometimes the only reason they get into a relationship its because hey got bored with the routine and want someone to fill the void of loneliness ( they literally could not fall in love with you and still be in a relationship with you )
Cap man are just not for a Virgo woman and let's not forget you could DAtr a cap for years and they still won't commit to you .. Not even a promise ring , cause hey are fucbois , they wanna see what else they can have , unlike Virgo woman we want a long lasting relationship , that ends in that happy ever after lol
Taurus man on the other hand , oh baby I need more of those in my life omg
Hi Virgo woman here... I agree... I haven't had the best experiences with Cap men. One relationship I had with a Cap man derailed my life and I nearly lost everything. I tried it out with another Cap man 6 months later, and well, nothing came about that.
You win some, you lose some.
Looks like the unicorn types are hiding and who could blame them when they're being blasted.
It’s an effortless partnership to me be it romantic or friendship. I’ve never had a problem with a Cap.
I agree with some-I need the excitement and passion, but also the long term stability in a relationship. I’ve come to find an Earth sign with fire placements brings that to the table.
#1 will always be a Taurus for me, however. Best connection I’ve experienced.
Posted by Virgorean
You win some, you lose some.Looks like the unicorn types are hiding and who could blame them when they're being blasted.
It’s an effortless partnership to me be it romantic or friendship. I’ve never had a problem with a Cap.
I agree with some-I need the excitement and passion, but also the long term stability in a relationship. I’ve come to find an Earth sign with fire placements brings that to the table.
#1 will always be a Taurus for me, however. Best connection I’ve experienced.
I only have a Cap Moon but my first great love was my son's father and he is a Virgo. We got along very well. His other placements are a tad fuzzy but I think he has an Aqua Moon and Scorpio in Mars. That created some problems with us but overall we gel pretty well. He's just very secretive about his private goings on and that is what broke us apart.
Posted by Virgorean
You win some, you lose some.Looks like the unicorn types are hiding and who could blame them when they're being blasted.
It’s an effortless partnership to me be it romantic or friendship. I’ve never had a problem with a Cap.
I agree with some-I need the excitement and passion, but also the long term stability in a relationship. I’ve come to find an Earth sign with fire placements brings that to the table.
#1 will always be a Taurus for me, however. Best connection I’ve experienced.
I only have a Cap Moon but my first great love was my son's father and he is a Virgo. We got along very well. His other placements are a tad fuzzy but I think he has an Aqua Moon and Scorpio in Mars. That created some problems with us but overall we gel pretty well. He's just very secretive about his private goings on and that is what broke us apart.
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Cap Moon Club!
I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but it opened the door to your current relationship now 🙂
Posted by Virgorean
You win some, you lose some.Looks like the unicorn types are hiding and who could blame them when they're being blasted.
It’s an effortless partnership to me be it romantic or friendship. I’ve never had a problem with a Cap.
I agree with some-I need the excitement and passion, but also the long term stability in a relationship. I’ve come to find an Earth sign with fire placements brings that to the table.
#1 will always be a Taurus for me, however. Best connection I’ve experienced.
I only have a Cap Moon but my first great love was my son's father and he is a Virgo. We got along very well. His other placements are a tad fuzzy but I think he has an Aqua Moon and Scorpio in Mars. That created some problems with us but overall we gel pretty well. He's just very secretive about his private goings on and that is what broke us apart.
Cap Moon Club!
I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but it opened the door to your current relationship now 🙂
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lol yes thanks - that was 40 years ago but what you said is so true -
Same with Libra and Aquarius. Geminis aren't that bad, but the ones I've been romantic with haven't worked out and we ended up being close friends. Aquarius is just ugh.... ugh.
What about Taurus?
In my case I feel like I attract every sign i'm not suppose to be compatible with. Pisces, Capricorn, Cancer mostly. Maybe I'm just a libra and need a balance or people from the same element are better at being friends.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
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#rip ur old name
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
#rip ur old name
i think im gonna leave dxp soon,
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Don't leave my lil pc ? You're all I have
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
#rip ur old name
i think im gonna leave dxp soon,
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same. I'm getting bored with this place now. somehow I feel like I don't fit in anymore. like I'm just getting in the way so to speak. and I didn't know you deleted.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
#rip ur old name
i think im gonna leave dxp soon,
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But...Anime and weirgos!
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
#rip ur old name
i think im gonna leave dxp soon,
Don't leave my lil pc ? You're all I have
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Who will melt our icy cold hearts?
I don't know about my other fellow Virgo Man, but I always like Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman pairing.
I've seen lots of successful Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman couples and everytime I see my fellow Virgo Man who's married to a Capricorn Woman, can't help myself but to smile because they have great chemistry and they are really low-key and very peaceful couple.
I guess Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman.
Posted by Shadowcat
Tbh house overlays matter more
lol you should be the house overlays chick. change your avatar/name to house overlays!! important.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
#rip ur old name
i think im gonna leave dxp soon,
Don't leave my lil pc ? You're all I have
Who will melt our icy cold hearts?
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Not sure ??
But here's the only cap I like trying to leave me —? I won't stand for this
Posted by Nathan912
I don't know about my other fellow Virgo Man, but I always like Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman pairing.I've seen lots of successful Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman couples and everytime I see my fellow Virgo Man who's married to a Capricorn Woman, can't help myself but to smile because they have great chemistry and they are really low-key and very peaceful couple.
I guess Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman.
It didn't work for my mother in law and father in law unfortunately. they were not low-key, fought a lot.
over money. and other deep issues.
maybe there are others out there that are harmoniously.
my virgo uncle ended up with a water sign (pisces and she acts like a virgo), and my virgo brother in law is with a fire sign. lol smh
Posted by Nathan912
I don't know about my other fellow Virgo Man, but I always like Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman pairing.I've seen lots of successful Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman couples and everytime I see my fellow Virgo Man who's married to a Capricorn Woman, can't help myself but to smile because they have great chemistry and they are really low-key and very peaceful couple.
I guess Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman.
It didn't work for my mother in law and father in law unfortunately. they were not low-key, fought a lot.
over money. and other deep issues.
maybe there are others out there that are harmoniously.
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Well shoot! But I still think Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman overall.
I rarely run into Virgos!! The only male Virgo I'm near is my Vietnamese supervisor who is sexy as all outdoors, but he's married 😢.
I miss Decan talking bad about Cappies lol.
Just today my friend told me about a Virgo she went on a date with. Said he was turning her off because he was telling her "I knew you liked me, and wanted to be with me." She told me she doesn't even call the guy. I don't know why some Virgos do that. That's part of the games the males seem to play.
It seems Cap women fall in love deeper with Virgos than any other sign. That's enough for me to stay faaarrr away. The compatible sign thing is stressful when its not going right.
My Virgo sister is going to see her Cap friend. He bought her plane ticket yesterday.
Posted by Nathan912
I don't know about my other fellow Virgo Man, but I always like Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman pairing.I've seen lots of successful Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman couples and everytime I see my fellow Virgo Man who's married to a Capricorn Woman, can't help myself but to smile because they have great chemistry and they are really low-key and very peaceful couple.
I guess Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman.
It didn't work for my mother in law and father in law unfortunately. they were not low-key, fought a lot.
over money. and other deep issues.
maybe there are others out there that are harmoniously.
Well shoot! But I still think Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman overall.
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after learning astrology, I can see why it didn't work. she's aqua dominant, and he's scorpio dominant, too much squaring.
I don't know about Capricorn man and Virgo woman. lol I hardly ever see Capricorn man with any earth sun females when I research for astrology. I don't know any in real life either. Cap man usually is with Cancer, their opposite.
virgo women on these boards really like the Scorpio men though.
So can I speak for Virgo women and come up with the conclusion that we go best with fire signs?
Posted by Nathan912
I don't know about my other fellow Virgo Man, but I always like Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman pairing.I've seen lots of successful Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman couples and everytime I see my fellow Virgo Man who's married to a Capricorn Woman, can't help myself but to smile because they have great chemistry and they are really low-key and very peaceful couple.
I guess Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman.
It didn't work for my mother in law and father in law unfortunately. they were not low-key, fought a lot.
over money. and other deep issues.
maybe there are others out there that are harmoniously.
Well shoot! But I still think Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman overall.
after learning astrology, I can see why it didn't work. she's aqua dominant, and he's scorpio dominant, too much squaring.
I don't know about Capricorn man and Virgo woman. lol I hardly ever see Capricorn man with any earth sun females when I research for astrology. I don't know any in real life either. Cap man usually is with Cancer, their opposite.
virgo women on these boards really like the Scorpio men though.
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^ that's true. I agree with everything...
Except that last paragraph
Posted by Nathan912
I don't know about my other fellow Virgo Man, but I always like Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman pairing.I've seen lots of successful Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman couples and everytime I see my fellow Virgo Man who's married to a Capricorn Woman, can't help myself but to smile because they have great chemistry and they are really low-key and very peaceful couple.
I guess Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman.
It didn't work for my mother in law and father in law unfortunately. they were not low-key, fought a lot.
over money. and other deep issues.
maybe there are others out there that are harmoniously.
Well shoot! But I still think Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman overall.
after learning astrology, I can see why it didn't work. she's aqua dominant, and he's scorpio dominant, too much squaring.
I don't know about Capricorn man and Virgo woman. lol I hardly ever see Capricorn man with any earth sun females when I research for astrology. I don't know any in real life either. Cap man usually is with Cancer, their opposite.
virgo women on these boards really like the Scorpio men though.
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You hardly see Capricorn Man with Earth Sun females because Cap Man tend to fail at flirting like whenever I see them flirt with women they always come off as really really creepy dude especially when they try to flirt to Virgo Women. Not all though.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
So can I speak for Virgo women and come up with the conclusion that we go best with fire signs?
No. Fire placements. I still prefer an Earthy sun
Posted by Nathan912
I don't know about my other fellow Virgo Man, but I always like Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman pairing.I've seen lots of successful Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman couples and everytime I see my fellow Virgo Man who's married to a Capricorn Woman, can't help myself but to smile because they have great chemistry and they are really low-key and very peaceful couple.
I guess Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman.
It didn't work for my mother in law and father in law unfortunately. they were not low-key, fought a lot.
over money. and other deep issues.
maybe there are others out there that are harmoniously.
Well shoot! But I still think Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman overall.
after learning astrology, I can see why it didn't work. she's aqua dominant, and he's scorpio dominant, too much squaring.
I don't know about Capricorn man and Virgo woman. lol I hardly ever see Capricorn man with any earth sun females when I research for astrology. I don't know any in real life either. Cap man usually is with Cancer, their opposite.
virgo women on these boards really like the Scorpio men though.
You hardly see Capricorn Man with Earth Sun females because Cap Man they tend to fail at flirting like whenever I see them flirt with women they always come off as really really creepy dude especially when they try to flirt to Virgo Women. Not all though.
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Negative. They're hidden because they're too focused on love they forget the world exists 😉.
There are 3 virgo female/cap men pairings I know of on here. Me being one of them.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
So can I speak for Virgo women and come up with the conclusion that we go best with fire signs?
No. Fire placements. I still prefer an Earthy sun
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Well I suppose I'll have to let that slide?
Alright so we all conclude that we love fire (sign) placements
Cap guys I know heckin love sir sign women though like. Cap and Gemini ? You wanna see a cap guy get his heart broken ? Introduce him to a Gemini LMFAOO
Cap and libra ? So many couples
^ air
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
So can I speak for Virgo women and come up with the conclusion that we go best with fire signs?
No. Fire placements. I still prefer an Earthy sun
Well I suppose I'll have to let that slide?
Alright so we all conclude that we love fire (sign) placements
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Cap guys I know heckin love sir sign women though like. Cap and Gemini ? You wanna see a cap guy get his heart broken ? Introduce him to a Gemini LMFAOOCap and libra ? So many couples
Not sure how true this rings, but my cap friend is with a libra.
Posted by Nathan912
I don't know about my other fellow Virgo Man, but I always like Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman pairing.I've seen lots of successful Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman couples and everytime I see my fellow Virgo Man who's married to a Capricorn Woman, can't help myself but to smile because they have great chemistry and they are really low-key and very peaceful couple.
I guess Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman.
It didn't work for my mother in law and father in law unfortunately. they were not low-key, fought a lot.
over money. and other deep issues.
maybe there are others out there that are harmoniously.
Well shoot! But I still think Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman works better than Capricorn Man and Virgo Woman overall.
after learning astrology, I can see why it didn't work. she's aqua dominant, and he's scorpio dominant, too much squaring.
I don't know about Capricorn man and Virgo woman. lol I hardly ever see Capricorn man with any earth sun females when I research for astrology. I don't know any in real life either. Cap man usually is with Cancer, their opposite.
virgo women on these boards really like the Scorpio men though.
You hardly see Capricorn Man with Earth Sun females because Cap Man they tend to fail at flirting like whenever I see them flirt with women they always come off as really really creepy dude especially when they try to flirt to Virgo Women. Not all though.
Negative. They're hidden because they're too focused on love they forget the world exists 😉.
There are 3 virgo female/cap men pairings I know of on here. Me being one of them.
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That's why I said "not all" haha
Honestly I still give Capricorn Men an slight edge over Taurus Men when it comes to pursuing women.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
#rip ur old name
i think im gonna leave dxp soon,
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Nooooo. If you do add me on snap
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
#rip ur old name
i think im gonna leave dxp soon,
But...Anime and weirgos!
i made my time on dxp, you a new ass
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What?
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
There's only one cap for me and that's @parisiancappy:o
#rip ur old name
i think im gonna leave dxp soon,
But...Anime and weirgos!
i made my time on dxp, you a new ass
What?
i mean i have nothing to learn, i understand everything on astrology here, i know how to make horoscope, i understand every placements on my chart. and i came here because my ex broke my heart, but now i dont give a shit about her i've grown up. dxp is the palace of broken souls, my souls isnt broken anymore.
plus this place can be so annoying sometimes
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Now you can move on to the Soul Society.
Posted by ashboogie89
Every astrology site says that Capricorns are the best matches for Virgos and I just don't agree with that. I understand that we're both Earths signs and we both have a lot in common but I don't think we're compatible. I hate Caps (the guys, not the girls). They're too boring and stuffy. Why do people automatically pair us with them?
I'm not! My two ex-husbands are Virgos 😡 NEVER again! (both September -- 12th and 16th)
Cappies? Men (SOME) move like slugs, aka "Warped turtle speed" (January Cappy). Y'all can keep them, too!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
@sunsetvirgo you're funny girl :')
Thanks ?
😢 it didn't do the gif thing
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
@sunsetvirgo you're funny girl :')she's mine
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^ better
Virgo almost always lead with caps. Caps are more out there and outgoing but virgo women have a stronger personality than cap men and overpower them. Virgo don't like leading cap , it's boring.
I dated 3 cap men and 2 female cap best friend. They rarely oppose me, i can sway them into agreeing with whatever I want to do. When they like you the want to please you too much that they end up following your lead ..i even tested this theory out that I can make them end up doing what I want and it worked. they also get their feeling easily hurt and as a virgo i knew the right spot to touch to get them back to being puppy like again. Virgo, especially women, do NOT like to leading in the relationship. They like to be the final decision maker and know that their final input is respected but virgo prefer someone to lead. caps do not lead
cap go well with taurus but taurus find themselves more attracted to virgo because virgo will oppose taurus stubbornness while maintaining the feminine charm and let taurus lead.
Call me crazy but i think cap goes with sag.
Posted by coldwateryvirgo
Virgo almost always lead with caps. Caps are more out there and outgoing but virgo women have a stronger personality than cap men and overpower them. Virgo don't like leading cap , it's boring.I dated 3 cap men and 2 female cap best friend. They rarely oppose me, i can sway them into agreeing with whatever I want to do. When they like you the want to please you too much that they end up following your lead ..i even tested this theory out that I can make them end up doing what I want and it worked. they also get their feeling easily hurt and as a virgo i knew the right spot to touch to get them back to being puppy like again. Virgo, especially women, do NOT like to leading in the relationship. They like to be the final decision maker and know that their final input is respected but virgo prefer someone to lead. caps do not lead
cap go well with taurus but taurus find themselves more attracted to virgo because virgo will oppose taurus stubbornness while maintaining the feminine charm and let taurus lead.
Call me crazy but i think cap goes with sag.
I agree. I don't really like to lead in relationships.
I could see cap with sag or air signs in general
Posted by coldwateryvirgo
Virgo almost always lead with caps. Caps are more out there and outgoing but virgo women have a stronger personality than cap men and overpower them. Virgo don't like leading cap , it's boring.I dated 3 cap men and 2 female cap best friend. They rarely oppose me, i can sway them into agreeing with whatever I want to do. When they like you the want to please you too much that they end up following your lead ..i even tested this theory out that I can make them end up doing what I want and it worked. they also get their feeling easily hurt and as a virgo i knew the right spot to touch to get them back to being puppy like again. Virgo, especially women, do NOT like to leading in the relationship. They like to be the final decision maker and know that their final input is respected but virgo prefer someone to lead. caps do not lead
cap go well with taurus but taurus find themselves more attracted to virgo because virgo will oppose taurus stubbornness while maintaining the feminine charm and let taurus lead.
Call me crazy but i think cap goes with sag.
I'm a Cap and I agree with this.
Caps do like to please and keep the peace, eventually. Once a Virgo figures a Cap out, the Virgo runs the show.
My fav couple is Cap female and Sag male. I do like Virgo women for Cap men, but Cap men are definitely softies once their walls are down.
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Every astrology site says that Capricorns are the best matches for Virgos and I just don't agree with that. I understand that we're both Earths signs and we both have a lot in common but I don't think we're compatible. I hate Caps (the guys, not the girls). They're too boring and stuffy. Why do people automatically pair us with them?