Virgo women, what is your experience with Capricorn men?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by DannyMC on Friday, February 17, 2017 and has 24 replies.

Virgo Women and Capricorn Men Relationship Insights

Virgo women often find Capricorn men to be practical and reliable partners. However, some may experience challenges with emotional expression or communication. Compatibility varies based on individual personalities, but mutual respect and understanding typically strengthen the relationship between Virgo women and Capricorn men.

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@DannyMC
9 Years

I'm a Cap guy 12/27 and Virgo women drive me insane, especially those on the virgo/libra cusp. What is your experience with Cap men - have they been positive or negative? Share your stories πŸ™‚

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@Virgorean
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Ask again in a few months. Just started dating one and he's pretty amazing so it's going well at the moment πŸ™‚.

Also have a best friend of 10+ years who is a cap and we never miss a beat. Although, he's cheated on his women...but that's a different story :/

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

My sister is a Virgo and Cap guys like her.

Her one Cap friend will try to fight guys that approach her, which makes her furious because they are only friends, but even as friends he is territorial and protective. He's always liked her but she never gave him a chance. There's been other Caps in her past, but nothing long term.

This is one relationship pairing I approve of for Cap men. They act better with Virgos than others, imho.

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@StrawberryJam
9 Years500+ Posts

Posted by DannyMC
I'm a Cap guy 12/27 and Virgo women drive me insane, especially those on the virgo/libra cusp. What is your experience with Cap men - have they been positive or negative? Share your stories πŸ™‚

I'm Virgo libra cusp.

My best guy friend is a cap 1/12 he drives me insane cos he is not very articulated but we have the same humor and we always have each other's back.

Boss is also a cap 1/14 we never have any trouble with communication. We have unspoken jokes that only us would get in and others think we are crazy. I admire him on a platonic level.

Only dated one cap the one I was talking about on my thread.

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@virgxxleo
9 Years

Theres a magnetic bond between virgos & capricorns ... I dated one (he had an aquarius moon) but mostly capricorn placements. To say the least, I liked him a lot but he was just too overbearing and dominant, I had to break it off. He would always text and call to see where I was and got mad when I didn't answer. I couldn't walk anywhere without him needing to be by my side. :o

It was a nice relationship other than that. Peaceful, harmony emotional wise. Physically and mentally, maybe not so much.

Also, had a capricorn best friend (libra moon), he was really cool and we enjoyed each other's company. Harmony.

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I feel safe around most cap guys. There's something very masculine about them...

One of my cap guy friends is so easy to talk to and he makes me feel safe.

I've had a few cap guys approach me, but I never felt that... spark, that everyone's always talking about.

But idk :/ I feel like I'm being used sometimes when I talk to them...

Maybe in the future I could see myself dating one.

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@DannyMC
9 Years

Virgoxxleo: the overbearing dominant overprotective thing, that's interesting, you virgos bring that out in us lol there's an innate vulnerability in you ladies.

Sunsetvirgo: "makes me feel safe" I've heard this from virgo girls I've dated before, like I said to xxleo, you bring that out in us lol πŸ™‚

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@VirgoSquirrel
10 Years

My brother is a cap we get along very well. I dated two in the past, we had Nice chemistry but over time i just could not stand them anymore. So much misunderstanding... That being said i respect them a lot and we are still in Touch in a very respectful way. I used to have a lot of crushes on cap men when i was a bit younger but it's been a while since one crossed my path.

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@Lilianni
11 Years1,000+ Posts

I was into a cap in high school but he was gay. Regardless, we got along very well and have this harmony between us. I would have made a move on him if he was straight.. He was attractive. Very much a normal person yet hard worker, makes the most out of situations, procrastinates yet manages to get things done correctly before the due date, and always up to date. Very much a people person, popular, knows many, his connections alone take him places and that's not including his own efforts. I respected him.

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@DannyMC
9 Years

FknNerd: You remind me of a Virgo Sun Libra Moon I dated.. very similar.. I called her mochilita (it's spanish, her language for 'little backpack'), because she was always grabbing onto me and went everywhere with me lol

Lilianni: We can do that sometimes, depending on what we feel, go from super lazy procrastination to extremely ambitious

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Caps are very comfy people to be around. I could talk to them all day. Very masculine as I said. I could swoon.

But that whole servant-master archetype.. I won't stand for it ?

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@DannyMC
9 Years

Sunsetvirgo: I think it's because you virgo woman are natural givers, and we caps, naturally dominant, when you get worn out it just heads straight to the bedroom, or we spend all of our money on you, in my experience lol (probably the only girls on the chart that are worth it) and when you do get mad it's so delicate.. you drive us crazy lol

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@Virgorean
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by FknNerd
I have a cancer moon so if they want to be by my side 24/7, I'd totally be down with that. I think I'd be perfect for a cap guy because I rarely talk to other people πŸ˜†

The only downside is that caps, like taurs, want to pay for everything. I try to be as financially independent as possible because I like having the emotional freedom to stay and go of my own volition.

I have this style of wanting to pay for myself on dates-creates some awkward situations. I am also completely fine going dutch on everything. I won't share my bank account until I'm married.

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by DannyMC
Sunsetvirgo: I think it's because you virgo woman are natural givers, and we caps, naturally dominant, when you get worn out it just heads straight to the bedroom, or we spend all of our money on you, in my experience lol (probably the only girls on the chart that are worth it) and when you do get mad it's so delicate.. you drive us crazy lol

@parisiancappy

HMMM

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Virgorean

Posted by FknNerd
I have a cancer moon so if they want to be by my side 24/7, I'd totally be down with that. I think I'd be perfect for a cap guy because I rarely talk to other people πŸ˜†

The only downside is that caps, like taurs, want to pay for everything. I try to be as financially independent as possible because I like having the emotional freedom to stay and go of my own volition.

I have this style of wanting to pay for myself on dates-creates some awkward situations. I am also completely fine going dutch on everything. I won't share my bank account until I'm married.

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LMFAOO Same.

Idk.. I feel like it's pity money. And I don't like pity money.

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by DannyMC
Sunsetvirgo: I think it's because you virgo woman are natural givers, and we caps, naturally dominant, when you get worn out it just heads straight to the bedroom, or we spend all of our money on you, in my experience lol (probably the only girls on the chart that are worth it) and when you do get mad it's so delicate.. you drive us crazy lol

Really? Wow

I don't really hear the actual reasons that caps like us from actual cap guys that much

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@virgxxleo
9 Years

Posted by DannyMC
Virgoxxleo: the overbearing dominant overprotective thing, that's interesting, you virgos bring that out in us lol there's an innate vulnerability in you ladies.

Sunsetvirgo: "makes me feel safe" I've heard this from virgo girls I've dated before, like I said to xxleo, you bring that out in us lol πŸ™‚

Haha, I see x) ! Most capricorns I met felt a sense to hover over me.. interesting to know πŸ˜„

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@DannyMC
9 Years

Sunsetvirgo & virgoean: I've noticed what you both said in regards to the money. We don't mind if you whip out your wallet too lol because it saves us money, it doesn't mean we wouldn't spend all of ours on you though, which for some reason Virgos don't always like. You always want to show us how independent you are, with money πŸ™‚

Virgoxxleo: If I meet a girl and I feel those protective instincts come out, and also some kind of like magnetic feeling, she's a Virgo or virgo/libra cusp 95% of the time. Very bizarre, in a good way lol

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@DannyMC
9 Years

Posted by bubbythewhale1
First bf was a cap, he made me feel safe and protected so I sort of assumed bfs after him would give me the same feeling. Dated 2 fire signs years later but they both cheated lol. Dated a Cancer sun cap moon, felt the same sense of protection like with my cap ex, I think he felt like he had to "protect" me a little too much and became overwhelmed (territorial at times, so he stressed himself out)

"he made me feel safe and protected" so interesting hearing this so many times.. I heard it many times from a Virgo in my past as well.. interesting stuff..

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@virgxxleo
9 Years

Posted by DannyMC
Sunsetvirgo & virgoean: I've noticed what you both said in regards to the money. We don't mind if you whip out your wallet too lol because it saves us money, it doesn't mean we wouldn't spend all of ours on you though, which for some reason Virgos don't always like. You always want to show us how independent you are, with money πŸ™‚

Virgoxxleo: If I meet a girl and I feel those protective instincts come out, and also some kind of like magnetic feeling, she's a Virgo or virgo/libra cusp 95% of the time. Very bizarre, in a good way lol

Really? lol! I think half of that attraction is coming from your Pisces moon πŸ™‚

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@DannyMC
9 Years

Posted by virgxxleo

Posted by DannyMC
Sunsetvirgo & virgoean: I've noticed what you both said in regards to the money. We don't mind if you whip out your wallet too lol because it saves us money, it doesn't mean we wouldn't spend all of ours on you though, which for some reason Virgos don't always like. You always want to show us how independent you are, with money πŸ™‚

Virgoxxleo: If I meet a girl and I feel those protective instincts come out, and also some kind of like magnetic feeling, she's a Virgo or virgo/libra cusp 95% of the time. Very bizarre, in a good way lol

Really? lol! I think half of that attraction is coming from your Pisces moon πŸ™‚

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It could be ya, there's a deep emotional connection too. It's easy for me to woo a virgo, I show up, and within a week she's initiating the love making lol I don't understand when people say "Virgos are cold" or have no depth like ya I understand they run away and throw ice from a distance if they're stressed out or pissed off (avoiding confrontation) but this sign is not cold in my opinion lol and if you make a virgo run off it means you're a douche and don't deserve her.. or you can't understand her because she doesn't let on when she's upset.. I've seen this play out so many times with friends and once with me when I was younger. /rant

lulz

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@DannyMC
9 Years

Posted by virgxxleo

Posted by DannyMC
Sunsetvirgo & virgoean: I've noticed what you both said in regards to the money. We don't mind if you whip out your wallet too lol because it saves us money, it doesn't mean we wouldn't spend all of ours on you though, which for some reason Virgos don't always like. You always want to show us how independent you are, with money πŸ™‚

Virgoxxleo: If I meet a girl and I feel those protective instincts come out, and also some kind of like magnetic feeling, she's a Virgo or virgo/libra cusp 95% of the time. Very bizarre, in a good way lol

Really? lol! I think half of that attraction is coming from your Pisces moon πŸ™‚

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But ya I'm totally not even lying, it's very bizarre.. I started to pay attention to astrology after that, it's more than a coincidence..