Approaching a potentially upset Virgo Male

Posted by ariessign189
Long in short - I have been seeing this man for approximately 5 months. We hit it off right away and have agreed multiple times that we feel connected and attracted to each other in more ways than either of us felt possible. Things were perfect for almost three months and then he was "rubbed the wrong way" but a friend of one of my friends and was scared off (for lack of a better word). We parted amicably, I let him have his space for a few weeks without bugging him and he came back eventually to tell me he hadn't handled the situation well. We hypothetically kissed and made up and started talking again regularly and seeing each other on the weekends.

Which brings me to the present day - the last time I saw him was about two weeks ago, at his place. We had a quiet night in after a ridiculous work week and had been drinking wine and smoking and talking for hours on end... Things were perfect. But in my relaxed and somewhat deliriously tired state I called him by the wrong last name.

This wouldn't have been a big deal if we hadn't been laying in bed together face to face (so I'm sure he heard me) ... The sad part is I called him by one of my good friend's last names (who he hasn't met or even heard about yet). In my less than stellar state of mind I just continued talking as if nothing had happened because I had said his name mid-sentence. I feel like it's important to stress I DID call him by the correct first name (which my friend happens to have the first same name). It was an honest mistake and I feel horrible about it but I'm not sure how to address it seeing as he never brought it up.

He hasn't initiated contact with me over the last two weeks except once. The other few times I initiated contact he was short in response but friendly. I definitely feel like something is off between us.

With all of that being said (I apologize for the long read) - would you all suggest I shoot him an unemotional email asking to let me know if I've something I've done has upset him and caused this withdrawal? Or should I use the hands off tactic and let him go do his own thing. I do want to get back together with him so I'm not trying to let this situation get too out of hand.

PS: He definitely threw his temper tantrum this past weekend, acting out via Facebook though posting pictures of himself at a strip club and some other bar with a bunch of

Posted by ariessign189

... Things were perfect. But in my relaxed and somewhat deliriously tired state I called him by the wrong last name.

This wouldn't have been a big deal if ....