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Attractiveness
Understanding Attraction and Its Impact
Attractiveness varies based on individual preferences and can be influenced by emotional connection and personality. Physical appearance is only one aspect of attraction, and many factors contribute to genuine interest and relationship success. Focusing on deeper qualities often enhances overall attraction and relationship satisfaction.
Haha! But now I'm thinking..he might actually be too smokin'!
Good for you! Ugly people are really toxic and corny lol someone created the myth that ugly people somehow have better personalities and I am STILL waiting for evidence that proves this theory 💀
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One thing I learned this year from this site is to not argue with ugly people. Life has struck them down enough. I will just let them say whatever they want from now on
My top 5 categories to never argue with
1. Straight men
2. Women that hate women
3. Ugly people
4. Hyper-religious people
5. People over 75, they are dying soon. Imma leave them alone
Shit why am I turning into Ands
6. People who write lists.
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Op, there are physically attractive men but i dont feel nothing.
they gotta be a certain "energy" like CHEMIStRY ...and yummmy!!!! u can't get enough LOL ;p
this really happened to me this year, and last year, where there were two men... i had met (acquiantances)
who had similar placements as my husband.. and were similar in everything!! well almost everything.
i was like, shitttt...what is the universe doing?? LOL
and they were also feeling something ..i can tell. I dont have to even have words...
of course i dont encourage it. I stay away ... lol i mean i have my yummy man and they have other women chasing them. So good for them LOL
I told my husband too, about how other people have similar birthdays, or very close..and similar placements.
(he's not into astrology much...but he is into some chinese astrology for fun, and he kind of gets it)
but OMG there are others out there ...
They might be thinking the same about you but put up with it cause love is blind!
Besides, as long as they are attractive in your own "attractive scale" I don't see the problem
Also, if you build your core values around physical attractiveness, what are you going to do once you get old, ugly and nobody finds you physically attractive anymore? Are you gonna kill yourself?
He's Gemini with lots of Taurus. It's not his only quality but he is majorly hawt. I just realised it when i saw him yesterday. Lucky me 🔥🔥
Good for you! Ugly people are really toxic and corny lol someone created the myth that ugly people somehow have better personalities and I am STILL waiting for evidence that proves this theory 💀
Yes.
My Cappy says if they're ugly on the outside, they're ugly for a reason.
However, I can't tell. I have a fine artist's eye. And, my Cap aunt said this to me because she would be occasionally disgusted by what I brought home.
Once, she was so disgusted because I called her about an arguement with an "ugly" dude.
She screams, "What!!! He should be licking your ass!" I'll never forget that cause she's miss decorum.
This is a thing?
I thought this only happens when you two get closer to each other and the other person becomes more and more of a cornerstone of your world.
All right, if you insist. We'll try it THAT way then. Sigh.
What do you mean?
I will explain more when I can report LIVE! from the cornerstone of her world. Wish me luck.
Best of luck.
Pro tip: use granite.
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LOL to this whole convo.
Good for you! Ugly people are really toxic and corny lol someone created the myth that ugly people somehow have better personalities and I am STILL waiting for evidence that proves this theory 💀
Yes.
My Cappy says if they're ugly on the outside, they're ugly for a reason.
However, I can't tell. I have a fine artist's eye. And, my Cap aunt said this to me because she would be occasionally disgusted by what I brought home.
Once, she was so disgusted because I called her about an arguement with an "ugly" dude.
She screams, "What!!! He should be licking your ass!" I'll never forget that cause she's miss decorum.
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omg!! LOL
sounds like @Geminitati
Xd
Good for you! Ugly people are really toxic and corny lol someone created the myth that ugly people somehow have better personalities and I am STILL waiting for evidence that proves this theory 💀
Yes.
My Cappy says if they're ugly on the outside, they're ugly for a reason.
However, I can't tell. I have a fine artist's eye. And, my Cap aunt said this to me because she would be occasionally disgusted by what I brought home.
Once, she was so disgusted because I called her about an arguement with an "ugly" dude.
She screams, "What!!! He should be licking your ass!" I'll never forget that cause she's miss decorum.
omg!! LOL
sounds like @Geminitati
Xd
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Lol, it does.
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
Beauty isn’t a fact it’s an opinion.
I find people who carefully curate their looks to draw in the crowd conceited af.
I ain't mad at em.
At one point, I thought wearing my hair wild unkempt.. sometimes letting my curls compact from not combing it.... I got hella shrinkage when curly... Or, an illegal afro would be a turn-off.
LMAO...
This guy I dated said that I was turning him on with his pimp fantasy... (I look like a street hoe in the morning after alot of sexing.)
We wound up doing public role play on his comment.
~Venus in Aqua meets Mars in Aqua~
Haha! But now I'm thinking..he might actually be too smokin'!
Just enjoy it! Why settle for less ?😄
Also, if you build your core values around physical attractiveness, what are you going to do once you get old, ugly and nobody finds you physically attractive anymore? Are you gonna kill yourself?
You are assuming that because they are good looking they don’t have a great personality. There are lots of people that they are attractive, intelligent, wealthy and down to earth.
Haha! But now I'm thinking..he might actually be too smokin'!
Lol you sound like me. I was all, he’s too good looking to be bf material...but we can have some fun.
3 years later...jokes on me 😭😂😂
Also, if you build your core values around physical attractiveness, what are you going to do once you get old, ugly and nobody finds you physically attractive anymore? Are you gonna kill yourself?
You are assuming that because they are good looking they don’t have a great personality. There are lots of people that they are attractive, intelligent, wealthy and down to earth.
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Read again... slowly.
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
My Gemini locked it down after 1month. He got me liqored up on a boat so I had no choice but to say yes 😅
Ironically it came after a conversation that same morning where I was all ‘I don’t need a title. I like where we're at and where we're headed’.
Reverse psychology ftw! Lol
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
My Gemini locked it down after 1month. He got me liqored up on a boat so I had no choice but to say yes 😅
Ironically it came after a conversation that same morning where I was all ‘I don’t need a title. I like where we're at and where we're headed’.
Reverse psychology ftw! Lol
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LOL,
Go Pisces
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
My Gemini locked it down after 1month. He got me liqored up on a boat so I had no choice but to say yes 😅
Ironically it came after a conversation that same morning where I was all ‘I don’t need a title. I like where we're at and where we're headed’.
Reverse psychology ftw! Lol
LOL,
Go Pisces
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Lol I really was being sincere. But shit...
Good for you! Ugly people are really toxic and corny lol someone created the myth that ugly people somehow have better personalities and I am STILL waiting for evidence that proves this theory 💀
Yes.
My Cappy says if they're ugly on the outside, they're ugly for a reason.
However, I can't tell. I have a fine artist's eye. And, my Cap aunt said this to me because she would be occasionally disgusted by what I brought home.
Once, she was so disgusted because I called her about an arguement with an "ugly" dude.
She screams, "What!!! He should be licking your ass!" I'll never forget that cause she's miss decorum.
Ouch.
Some of us just inherited big noses. :/
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Take heart.
A big nose on a guy has some practical uses 😂😂
Good for you! Ugly people are really toxic and corny lol someone created the myth that ugly people somehow have better personalities and I am STILL waiting for evidence that proves this theory 💀
Yes.
My Cappy says if they're ugly on the outside, they're ugly for a reason.
However, I can't tell. I have a fine artist's eye. And, my Cap aunt said this to me because she would be occasionally disgusted by what I brought home.
Once, she was so disgusted because I called her about an arguement with an "ugly" dude.
She screams, "What!!! He should be licking your ass!" I'll never forget that cause she's miss decorum.
Ouch.
Some of us just inherited big noses. :/
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She said he looked like Pugsly from the Adams Family.
I like big bellies. Big bellies mean big fun. I'm hedonistic. So, I say, hello Mr. Love Alot... alota good food, alotta good liquor... alotta... and, he was impotent. No worries, he ate me alot. Like a boss eating a porterhouse.
My hubby has a big nose and women look at him like The Second Coming. I like it when he kisses me and when it's gently against my clit.
See no worries.
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
My Gemini locked it down after 1month. He got me liqored up on a boat so I had no choice but to say yes 😅
Ironically it came after a conversation that same morning where I was all ‘I don’t need a title. I like where we're at and where we're headed’.
Reverse psychology ftw! Lol
LOL,
Go Pisces
Lol I really was being sincere. But shit...
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I know.
Pisces symbol is two fish swimming in opposite directions, right?
Haha, i love these posts 🙂 We haven't had any "exclusivity" chat....yet. It's been a slow and steady start so I'll wait for him to play his cards, he knows im interested.
Do I have to wait for the talk...can I just assume we're like, properly together?!
Good for you! Ugly people are really toxic and corny lol someone created the myth that ugly people somehow have better personalities and I am STILL waiting for evidence that proves this theory 💀
Yes.
My Cappy says if they're ugly on the outside, they're ugly for a reason.
However, I can't tell. I have a fine artist's eye. And, my Cap aunt said this to me because she would be occasionally disgusted by what I brought home.
Once, she was so disgusted because I called her about an arguement with an "ugly" dude.
She screams, "What!!! He should be licking your ass!" I'll never forget that cause she's miss decorum.
Ouch.
Some of us just inherited big noses. :/
She said he looked like Pugsly from the Adams Family.
I like big bellies. Big bellies mean big fun. I'm hedonistic. So, I say, hello Mr. Love Alot... alota good food, alotta good liquor... alotta... and, he was impotent. No worries, he ate me alot. Like a boss eating a porterhouse.
My hubby has a big nose and women look at him like The Second Coming. I like it when he kisses me and gently against my clit.
See no worries.
I'm a girl though 😂🙁
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LOL!
UM, big noses also attribute to wealth.
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
My Gemini locked it down after 1month. He got me liqored up on a boat so I had no choice but to say yes 😅
Ironically it came after a conversation that same morning where I was all ‘I don’t need a title. I like where we're at and where we're headed’.
Reverse psychology ftw! Lol
LOL,
Go Pisces
Lol I really was being sincere. But shit...
I know.
Pisces symbol is two fish swimming in opposite directions, right?
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Yes, perfect for the jeckel and Hyde Gemini personality lol
Haha, i love these posts 🙂 We haven't had any "exclusivity" chat....yet. It's been a slow and steady start so I'll wait for him to play his cards, he knows im interested.
Do I have to wait for the talk...can I just assume we're like, properly together?!
No need to rush. Just don’t fuck him until (at least) sexual exclusivity is in the cards.
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
My Gemini locked it down after 1month. He got me liqored up on a boat so I had no choice but to say yes 😅
Ironically it came after a conversation that same morning where I was all ‘I don’t need a title. I like where we're at and where we're headed’.
Reverse psychology ftw! Lol
LOL,
Go Pisces
Lol I really was being sincere. But shit...
I know.
Pisces symbol is two fish swimming in opposite directions, right?
Yes, perfect for the jeckel and Hyde Gemini personality lol
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Yeaaaaaah, girl!
LOL.
My Pisces daughter's with a Gemini. I said to myself as I was looking through my arsenal.... stop Venus. She got this.
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
My Gemini locked it down after 1month. He got me liqored up on a boat so I had no choice but to say yes 😅
Ironically it came after a conversation that same morning where I was all ‘I don’t need a title. I like where we're at and where we're headed’.
Reverse psychology ftw! Lol
LOL,
Go Pisces
Lol I really was being sincere. But shit...
I know.
Pisces symbol is two fish swimming in opposite directions, right?
Yes, perfect for the jeckel and Hyde Gemini personality lol
Yeaaaaaah, girl!
LOL.
My Pisces daughter's with a Gemini. I said to myself as I was looking through my arsenal.... stop Venus. She got this.
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Dude fuck astrology stereotypes. When it’s good, it’s good you know?
Also, how soon do guys make a woman their priority? I'm not talking sole focus but her over other things?
My Gemini locked it down after 1month. He got me liqored up on a boat so I had no choice but to say yes 😅
Ironically it came after a conversation that same morning where I was all ‘I don’t need a title. I like where we're at and where we're headed’.
Reverse psychology ftw! Lol
LOL,
Go Pisces
Lol I really was being sincere. But shit...
I know.
Pisces symbol is two fish swimming in opposite directions, right?
Yes, perfect for the jeckel and Hyde Gemini personality lol
Yeaaaaaah, girl!
LOL.
My Pisces daughter's with a Gemini. I said to myself as I was looking through my arsenal.... stop Venus. She got this.
Dude fuck astrology stereotypes. When it’s good, it’s good you know?
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O'tay.
No need to rush. Just don’t fuck him until (at least) sexual exclusivity is in the cards.
Oops!
No need to rush. Just don’t fuck him until (at least) sexual exclusivity is in the cards.
Oops!
Hey, I never cared about "exclusivity."
My misinterpreration of Anita Baker's "Sweet Love..."
"The sweetest dreams have loved me baby..."
Or, another one of my favorites while having perfect sex.
"If my friends could see me now..."
Playes in my head Ist time with hubby. Thought he was a one night stand, he is so fine.
But, he slowed danced me to his bed with Sade's "No Ordinary Love." And boy, it ain't no ordinary love.
Haha, did I mention he has a venus in Aries 😂
Sorry, im wrong! He has a venus in taurus and mars in aries
What do you mean Damous?
Sorry, im wrong! He has a venus in taurus and mars in aries
Wow, perfect dignity of Venus & Mars.
Can you expand on that?
Can you expand on that?
Quote me next time or, I won't know you responded to me.
The ruler of Venus is Taurus and Libra (Love, Money, Beauty)
The ruler of Mars is Aries (Sex, War, Power)
Can you expand on that?
Quote me next time or, I won't know you responded to me.
The ruler of Venus is Taurus and Libra (Love, Money, Beauty)
The ruler of Mars is Aries (Sex, War, Power)
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I'll remember! Yeah, im hoping we can make it for the long haul. He's divine!
Can you expand on that?
Quote me next time or, I won't know you responded to me.
The ruler of Venus is Taurus and Libra (Love, Money, Beauty)
The ruler of Mars is Aries (Sex, War, Power)
I'll remember! Yeah, im hoping we can make it for the long haul. He's divine!
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My husband is similar.
Venus is double dignity: Venus in Libra in the 7th house.
Mars is double dignity: Mars is Aries/Taurus Cusp in the 1st house.
But, there's a monster in there... a bunch of Pluto squares.... so...
He still fine as hell but with a bit of Hulk.
Nice! Although this guy seems pretty placid.
Also, if you build your core values around physical attractiveness, what are you going to do once you get old, ugly and nobody finds you physically attractive anymore? Are you gonna kill yourself?
You are assuming that because they are good looking they don’t have a great personality. There are lots of people that they are attractive, intelligent, wealthy and down to earth.
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Actually, I'm discussing values (on looks)
You are discussing looks.
Nice! Although this guy seems pretty placid.
Ooooh, he was quiet, calm... we spent hours not talking... vibing.
Can't remember when he showed his Pluto Squares.. lemme think...
I'm attracted but not smitten..he's 8 years younger than me 😃 A young Gemini, I don't really know what to do with him yet. It's unlikely to last, but I'm not sure how I can continue without feels.
Also, if you build your core values around physical attractiveness, what are you going to do once you get old, ugly and nobody finds you physically attractive anymore? Are you gonna kill yourself?
You are assuming that because they are good looking they don’t have a great personality. There are lots of people that they are attractive, intelligent, wealthy and down to earth.
Actually, I'm discussing values (on looks)
You are discussing looks.
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Sorry, I was the one assuming then 🙈 I agree about the values. Not a good thing 😄
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When the person you're dating is off the attractive scale and it hurts just looking at them 😍