AWESOME first date, great follow-up, possible ghosting? HELP!

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Zodiaclove88
@Zodiaclove88
9 Years

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For reference, I am a Leo(sun)/Libra(moon)/Cancer(Venus). My enneagram is a 4w3 and my MBTI is an ENFJ.

The guy that I am referring to is a Sagittarius(sun)/Taurus(moon)/Capricorn(Venus). His enneagram is a 6w5 and his MBTI is an ISFJ.

We met online and I am very hesitant about jumping in and talking to someone offline, but I felt that that based on our conversation that this man had made me feel comfortable to do so and meet in person. The date went really well and he was following up, flirty, and chatty for the next day or so afterwards, but no ask of a second date and when I made a recommendation of doing something this weekend his response was “that could happen, what are your plans?” And when I told him that I was off he hasn’t responded. It’s been two days. Is this an instance of someone “not that into me”? Am I overreacting?

Help me out and fill me in guys. Please 🙂
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Zodiaclove88
@Zodiaclove88
9 Years

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Posted by MephistoZap

Well I can see he is a introvert and your a extrovert. I’m a introvert and people are draining and I do need some alone time to recharge. I wouldn’t worry too much right now you guys seem compatible. But if you don’t here from him after a while I would say he’s not interested. Which isn’t a big deal there are plenty of others fish in the sea. Good luck with everything ☺️.


How long would you say to wait?