Can anyone help me out?

Okay a while back this guy in my class I was kinda feeling randomly asks me out...we were in a group of friends and he kinda Just blurted it out. He said exactly, Sarah, I like you, would you go on a date with me? I kinda froze and didn't say anything because a) I thought he was kidding b) it was out of nowhere.

So a week later (kinda late) after a ball game I went up to him and was like when you asked me out we're you serious and he hesitated for a while looking at me and he nooded saying yes and asked me if he had made me angry by asking me out..I told him no and he continued to say I talk about you,all the time and his friend came over and got down on one knee...

Well another week later (late again!) before winter break, I went up to him after class and asked him if he still wanted to go out...he kinda blew me off around his friends saying no your mean to me and he was like never then he walked away and went off with his friend...

So I was like whatever we went on winter break and then we came back to school. First day of class back, he asks me Sarah, did you have a good break and I say yeah and he says that he had the same...then he looked down and was like ' I haven't seen you in so long'? ..whyd he say that ?

Anyway like later that week I find out hes been talking to this girl...and apparently he had been way before he asked me out..so I kinda got dis hearted...his friends knew apparently he had asked me out because this one day his friend looked at me and said ' so you guys went on that date yet'? And we both were silent....

So the semester ends and we don't have the same class anymore I decided I want to find out what's really going on and I say...
Hey drew its me , I miss u from class I wanna talk to you about something tho!
Him....heyyy girl I miss you too what do you have to share
Me....well when unasked me out that day I was caught off guard and everything plus I heard you had a gf when u asked me out..so I want to know what's up
Him...sorry it took so long to reply I had a bball game , well I'm talking to someone NOW..real sorry :/

First..why would he LIE and say he's talking,to someone now when he was talking to her way before he asked me out...and second...what made him act this way..was any of this my fault? Please help?

So I saw him a weekend ago for the first time in almost a year & we completely ignored each other but he checked me out...

Posted by BikerCh1ck
He is still young and doesn't know what he wants. He would be happy with whatever he gets.
He wants both girls. Maybe the other girl is easier for him to understand.
However, he wants both the same. In other words he is not in love. He wants to experiment. He is a young boy.
You should be flirty too. You are learning ( how old are you?)

Yeah, well as far as me & him we didnt work out, & as of now we completely ignore each other. Like the other weekend i saw him for the first time in almost a year and we didnt speak to eachother. He was just checking me out. He is still with the other girl. Do you think I hurt his pride or ego or whatever when he thought i turned his date down.? Which I didnt mean to do. It was a misunderstanding. I`m 18. He`s 19.

Posted by BikerCh1ck
I don't think you've hurt his ego. He just gave it a go and ask you out. You were too difficult, he thought that he ONLY wanted sex and he moved on to the easy pray. He is not into her. He is checking out YOU.
He is not though into you either. He is not serious about any woman in the world. He only wants to sleep around. He is playing.
Anyway, you are young too. If you are looking for something more than sex you should be searching for someone older than the age of 24.
Around the ages 18-22 Men just want to sleep around and get more experiences. Some might get into relationships just to get experience in sex before they start sleeping around. There are few exceptions on that rule but these are for special cases.
The majority of men start their first more serious relationship at the age of 24-26. I remember when I was 27 that my friends that were around that age were telling me that they wanted to settle down and find someone that they can think about marriage. If a man is passed the age of 32 and still haven't thought about proposing to a woman he might never want to marry.
Just keep in mind that right now that you are 18 you shouldn't be thinking about love. It is the time that you should be thinking too about partying. Up until the age of 22 you shouldn't try to find prince charming. After that age you will be more mature and do better choices.
My advice is go outside and flirt another 5 guys and have fun and stop thinking about this loser. You'll see you will feel better after flirting with the 3rd guy.

Thanks! Why was it so awkward when we saw each other last weekend. Lol, I didnt even make eye contact with him although he looked at me. But what about the other girl? but He is still with her today, how is he not into her...

Posted by BikerCh1ck
Just because he is with her doesn't mean that he is into her.
You said:
"he was talking to her way before he asked me out..."
That doesn't sound as a guy that is 100% into a woman.
On the other hand if you knew he was dating someone else why did you even consider flirting with him?

I found out after the fact. & you think he thought I was too difficult. I thought he really liked me since he embarrased himself infront of his friends trying to get me to go out with him?