Could it Be I am the 1 Being Chased 7 Mos Later?!

I am back! I was away for a while getting my mind right! Lol. Fininshing my Masters...graduated this past Saturday!! Woo Woo!! Losing weight, lost over 50 pounds and gaining over all mentally clarity. In the process of focusing on me, bettering my life. My love life kicked it up a few notches without me really noticing it. I met a Libra man about 7 months ago after chasing after a Virgo. Lol. I almost started chasing the Libra but with the help of Tiki and a lot of reading and research, I decided to leave him alone and FOCUS on me. This is when I took my hiatus. Lol. Here it is 7 months later. I have finished my degree, I am in the best shape of my life and the Libra (my boy friend) is still courting me like we JUST met. I have stopped the chasing game. Chasing the man down to get him. HUGE mistake. I did not know that I was chasing him. I thought that b/c i did not call him a lot or ask him a bunch of questions that I was not chasing the men who I used to date. I did not realize it was the little things that I did that were killing me. things that I perceived as nice things to do for a person who you care about. I realized i was doing way too much way too soon! I was doing these little things for men that had not done ANYTHING for me. Not talking about money. I am talking about time, energy, effort etc. These men had not put much effort or enegergy into me b/c I was so busy doing all the leg work. When I decided to completely become obessessed with myself and start doing things that enriched my life and not worry about doing for a man. Things changed dramatically.

I like sitting back and letting the man do the heavy lifting. Lol. 🙂

🙂 That's GREAT. Well done! 🙂

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🙂 That's GREAT. Well done! 🙂

Thanks!!!

You go girl! Congrats on earning your Masters; doing you, and learning so much a long the way. Aww, mental clarity is a priceless gift, hang on to it girlfriend.

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You go girl! Congrats on earning your Masters; doing you, and learning so much a long the way. Aww, mental clarity is a priceless gift, hang on to it girlfriend.

USC!! How the heck are you?!?!!? Ahh yes, mental clarity is so important. Lol. FYI - I am going to be applying to one of SC's doctoral programs this Fall. 🙂

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You go girl! Congrats on earning your Masters; doing you, and learning so much a long the way. Aww, mental clarity is a priceless gift, hang on to it girlfriend.

USC!! How the heck are you?!?!!? Ahh yes, mental clarity is so important. Lol. FYI - I am going to be applying to one of SC's doctoral programs this Fall. 🙂

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GOOD FOR YOU! That's awesome. I wish you the best of luck with the application process and your future endeavor! That's something to be proud of lady! I'm doing my thing. Was down in San Diego a week ago, and will be in our neck of the woods for business in a few weeks, so I can't complain!

"our" = "your" (dammit)! LOL

USC - Awesome! Good to hear that business is going well for you. 🙂 Any vacation plans for the summer?

Hey, where is VirgoHero? Lol. He still around?

I'm always doing something! Mexico and Aruba for this year besides other domestic traveling. There are no more vacations for me...all business baby girl! LOL.
VH is around...he peeks in intermittently, like me. I've been on more in the past couple of days, but then I'll be gone for a little while. Sometimes "real life" happens, but all in all, I still come back to see what's happening in DXP land!

I hear you about real life. Mexico AND Aruba. Ohh La La La. My bf and I were thinking about going on a little cruise to Mexico sometimes this summer. A quick trip. We shall see about that. I really do not want to spend ANY money. I just moved and I am tapped. Lol.

Starfish!!! How are you—

Glad to hear that things are well for you! Lol @ Libra men being real decisive! Thanks for the compliment! 🙂

He is pretty decisive. .Maybe even a little stubborn. Lol. But yes, AMEN to them liking to buy nice things. I love it. Lol. 🙂 OK, take care. Ttyl.

Hey you!! OMG you look fab....Gosh I like the new you....so attractive and purty LOL d:

Okay I won't hog your thread, just stopped in to say how great you look....

OMG Tasha, Bella and TIKI!!! Hey ladies. I missed you all!!

Tasha - Yes I remember that thread! Lol. It made for sme really interesting conversation. Lol. Girl, you get that degree!! 😉

Bella - Oh my Bella!! How are you— thanks for the well wishes!!!

Tiki - Girl, thank you...thank you...thank you! You opened my eyes to some truths. Truths that I did NOT want to see at first. But am glad that you kept it real with me and were patient! lol. 🙂 Btw, have you ever heard of Alison Armstrong?

No the ladies I help teach me patience, lord knows I need it LOL.....I have not heard of her up until now, Her name seems familiar though, Like maybe I saw it in passing, I will google her, if there is something specific you want me to read send it to me please, I enjoy reading new information...I have something to email you as well, a really good find I recently came up on, I think you will benefit from it as you continue on your journey....I will email it soon okay, like either tonite or tomorrow for sure...

Yes please do send over when you can. I love reading new information.

I was actually turned onto Alison Armstrong by my boyfriend. Lol. He said that she was awesome. I looked her up on Youtube and came across some awesome clips from lectures that she has done. She is awesome! I just ordered one of her books, "Making Sense of Men".

I also read a really good book "It's Not Him, It's You" by Georgia Witkin, I think. I have to look through my books to be sure. Anyways, awesome stuff!!! I'll let you know for sure. 🙂

Hey Tiki, cant you post it for us all to read?

Natural check your email via yahoo...sweethearts send me your personal email address and I will send you the ebook.

Becasue we are talkikng about SERIOUS business Awake. Lol. Jk. 😉

Hi Awake...I dunno, sometimes I feel like a nut sometimes I don't d:

Tasha - Why are you giving up?!?!?

Ahh I see. Doing you... I can dig it! 🙂