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Creepy or thoughtful?
Is Doing His Laundry Without Permission Creepy or Thoughtful
Helping with your boyfriend's laundry can be a considerate gesture if done with his consent and genuine care. It shows support during his stressful work schedule but may be seen as intrusive if not communicated properly. Consider asking him first to ensure it is appreciated and not perceived as overstepping boundaries.
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange shit and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
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Lol I'm not that neat. Not even at my own home
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange shit and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
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No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange shit and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
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It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating.
Lol okay, majority rules. Nice thought but too early in the relationship for that. You can clean his own pig pen LOLOLOL.
Posted by ufo
my brother had a gf who would do his laundry, buy him gifts, cook food for him, clean his room, bake goods, and leave cute little noteshe cheated on her multiple times and she cheated on him as well
ask him before surprising him, that's his space, respect him and his space if permission is granted proceed
LMAO he cheated, she cheated - everyone sounds happy and satisfied 😄
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
Srly. 3 months??
I would think he's lowkey looking for my SS#, bank statements, or proof that I'm fucking some dude and sniffing for jizz stains on the bed. click to expand
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Check his amazon order history. Finds black light
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange shit and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
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he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe if she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so that it shows she has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
in other words
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me
Posted by ufo
my brother had a gf who would do his laundry, buy him gifts, cook food for him, clean his room, bake goods, and leave cute little noteshe cheated on her multiple times and she cheated on him as well
ask him before surprising him, that's his space, respect him and his space if permission is granted proceed
LMAO he cheated, she cheated - everyone sounds happy and satisfied click to expand
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was going to say that....Whats the issue then?
he did say to me after giving me the access code "i like spontaneous, come by WHENEVER you want"
one time i came by unannounced ...for some umm...fun. He loved it. After i apologized for just "showing up" and he said ...i would'nt have given you the code if i "didnt want you just showing up"
but yes, most of the tim ei call or text ahead of time.
Posted by i-xy
This a good time for you to see how he can manage/prioritize such tasks. Try not to discourage his ability to clean up after himself.
well, before me he was single for 2 years...i know hes capable, but he was very nice to me recently for my birthday and i thought since he's stressed right now it would be a nice gesture.
But, he got along without me, so he can do it on his own.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe is she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so shows sees has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me in short click to expand
click to expand
i mean it is early, but i would hope i will be considered "wifey material" down the line...
i know ultimately that is what he is looking for
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
Wasn't @DeleterNerd just talking about this one Virgo chick who reorganized her Taurus bf's butter without his knowledge and it infuriated him? I'd reconsider the "surprise" part. That MFer is gonna think he got robbed.
LOL he is a taurus
but im a taurus too, and i would love to come home to someone doing my laundry 😄
(how come men don't surprise woman by cleaning their apartment? )
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe is she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so shows sees has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me in short click to expand
i mean it is early, but i would hope i will be considered "wifey material" down the line...
i know ultimately that is what he is looking for click to expandclick to expand
is you asked him ( and again acknlowedge how hard he is working / and how you admire it ) and did it
for sure you'd be in the running*
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe is she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so shows sees has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me in short click to expand
i mean it is early, but i would hope i will be considered "wifey material" down the line...
i know ultimately that is what he is looking for click to expandis you asked him ( and again acknlowedge how hard he is working / and how you admire it ) and did it
for sure you'd be in the running* click to expand
click to expand
yeah, we have plans to hangout tomorrow night...
if I end up staying, while he plays PuBg maybe ill just start folding some of his T-shirts nonchalantly.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe is she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so shows sees has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me in short click to expand
i mean it is early, but i would hope i will be considered "wifey material" down the line...
i know ultimately that is what he is looking for click to expandis you asked him ( and again acknlowedge how hard he is working / and how you admire it ) and did it
for sure you'd be in the running* click to expand
yeah, we have plans to hangout tomorrow night...
if I end up staying, while he plays PuBg maybe ill just start folding some of his T-shirts nonchalantly. click to expandclick to expand
i'd ask first but preface it by acknowledging how hard he is working***
the last part is the most crucial and clutch key
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans?
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
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I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take"
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expandSurely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
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lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expandAww you sound adorable 😍😘 click to expand
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HAHAHA...adorable, sounds like im a child
thank you though 🙂
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expandSurely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego click to expand
Haha! Good! In all seriousness, I know if I was prepared for it... I wouldn't care at all... I'd try to talk you out of it.. but I'd secretly hope you would anyway.. just ask him. Or do it nonchalantly. Or just be chalant as treetrunk and come over with a haz-mat suit like "listem, we gonna do this or not?" click to expand
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I like the latter
Okay amazon, how much for a Haz-Mat suit?
My house needs a good cleaning, I will cook you a nice dinner 😏 🍽
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expandSurely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego click to expand
Haha! Good! In all seriousness, I know if I was prepared for it... I wouldn't care at all... I'd try to talk you out of it.. but I'd secretly hope you would anyway.. just ask him. Or do it nonchalantly. Or just be chalant as treetrunk and come over with a haz-mat suit like "listem, we gonna do this or not?" click to expand
I like the latter
Okay amazon, how much for a Haz-Mat suit? click to expandA real one is fairly expensive..
Better yet get you a sexy maid outfit and knock on his door... bowchicabowwow click to expand
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BINGO
you just won this thread..congratulations
Posted by justagirl
My house needs a good cleaning, I will cook you a nice dinner 😏 🍽
...done
are you a cuddler though?
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expandSurely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego click to expand
Haha! Good! In all seriousness, I know if I was prepared for it... I wouldn't care at all... I'd try to talk you out of it.. but I'd secretly hope you would anyway.. just ask him. Or do it nonchalantly. Or just be chalant as treetrunk and come over with a haz-mat suit like "listem, we gonna do this or not?" click to expand
I like the latter
Okay amazon, how much for a Haz-Mat suit? click to expandA real one is fairly expensive..
Better yet get you a sexy maid outfit and knock on his door... bowchicabowwow click to expand
BINGO
you just won this thread..congratulations click to expand
What'd I win?!
I need my trucks washed? Jk I'm picky click to expand
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LMAO now THAT is something i know hes particular on...HIS CAR
hes been opening the door for me lately and i thought it was such a nice and gentlemanly gesture.
NOPE he told me he noticed my fingernails were scratching the handles on his car... :/
Posted by justagirl
My house needs a good cleaning, I will cook you a nice dinner 😏 🍽...done
are you a cuddler though? click to expand
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Haha 😂 😂
Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expandSurely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego click to expand
Haha! Good! In all seriousness, I know if I was prepared for it... I wouldn't care at all... I'd try to talk you out of it.. but I'd secretly hope you would anyway.. just ask him. Or do it nonchalantly. Or just be chalant as treetrunk and come over with a haz-mat suit like "listem, we gonna do this or not?" click to expand
I like the latter
Okay amazon, how much for a Haz-Mat suit? click to expandA real one is fairly expensive..
Better yet get you a sexy maid outfit and knock on his door... bowchicabowwow click to expand
BINGO
you just won this thread..congratulations click to expand
What'd I win?!
I need my trucks washed? Jk I'm picky click to expand
LMAO now THAT is something i know hes particular on...HIS CAR
hes been opening the door for me lately and i thought it was such a nice and gentlemanly gesture.
NOPE he told me he noticed my fingernails were scratching the handles on his car... :/ click to expandLol! I do that.. but to be fair all mine are black... and she has a lot of rings. click to expand
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his is black too.
I dont get offended i thinkt its hysterical.
Him and I have similar humor and a hilariously ridiculous relationship full of banter .
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
Keep whatever you find in hi $ pant $ pocket $ .Damn fisk! Are you gonna steal his lunch too? click to expand
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if his fridge wasn't empty.
can you believe hes a taurus that ISNT into food...
he might be a robot
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
Keep whatever you find in hi $ pant $ pocket $ .Damn fisk! Are you gonna steal his lunch too? click to expand
if his fridge wasn't empty.
can you believe hes a taurus that ISNT into food...
he might be a robotclick to expand
I'm really not either.. I like to cook, but I rarely eat what I cook. Or I'll chew it and spit it out. click to expand
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hes health conscious, so i cant even cook for him because hes particular.,
are you a 1st decan by chance?
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
Keep whatever you find in hi $ pant $ pocket $ .Damn fisk! Are you gonna steal his lunch too? click to expand
if his fridge wasn't empty.
can you believe hes a taurus that ISNT into food...
he might be a robotclick to expand
I'm really not either.. I like to cook, but I rarely eat what I cook. Or I'll chew it and spit it out. click to expand
hes health conscious, so i cant even cook for him because hes particular.,
are you a 1st decan by chance? click to expandI am. Is he? click to expand
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yeah april 26th
def more reclusive, and independent than im use to.
ANYWAY were all off subject now.
spoke to him about 30 minutes ago on his *lunch break* its midnight ha
we have plans to hangout and "tackle" his pile tomorrow.
He thanked me greatly for even offering to help, and said it will make his life so "much easier and he wont feel as stressed" with the pile gone.
So thanks all!
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My boyfriend recently has been working very long inconvenient hours. Mostly 3 p.m. to 3 a.m. in the city so it takes them 2 hours to get there and get home. His dishes and laundry are really piling up at his apartment and I know it's making him a little depressed.
I have the code to his apartment, I never go there without his permission and we've been dating about 3 months now. Since I have time after work if I want to his place and did his dishes and folded his laundry and put it away and wrote him a little note do you think he'd appreciate that? Is that kind of creepy? What would you guys do and would you like that if your girlfriend did that for you?