VenusStar
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Dating Game: How do i compete with naked chicks?
Posted by VenusStar
ok, I want to get back into the dating game (I've been on the bench for almost 7 years). I live in a city where it's cool to walk around practically naked. How do I compete with the naked chicks because I refuse to wear cut off shorts
p.s. I know that personality counts and wins out. i'm fairly cute but my ego won't let me tolerate wondering eyes. I also refuse to meet new people at bars or clubs.
Don't.
Unless you're at the beach it's kinda trashy for women to walk around in super skimpy bathing suit. If your talking the slut clothes some chic's wear to the club, not all guys find that attractive.
You don't have to compete with anyone. Just be yourself and the right person will appreciate you for who you are.
Your brain is how you compete.
An intelligent girl wins out every time (with me), over scantily clad. Hell, anybody can do run around half naked, but not many can hold intelligent conversation.
My .02
An intelligent girl wins out every time (with me), over scantily clad. Hell, anybody can do run around half naked, but not many can hold intelligent conversation.
My .02
When I was on a dating site, I had men contact me and they said they chose me especially because I wasn't wearing revealing clothes in my pictures. They thought it showed class and self respect, which made them more interested in reaching out to me.
Or so they said, anyway.... lol!
Just keep in mind that some men are looking for a wholesome lady to spend time with and are not interested in the barely clothed easy looking girls. It's all about quality attracting quality.
Or so they said, anyway.... lol!
Just keep in mind that some men are looking for a wholesome lady to spend time with and are not interested in the barely clothed easy looking girls. It's all about quality attracting quality.
lol, naked chicks.
Well, there's no mystery to them so you should do fine.
Well, there's no mystery to them so you should do fine.
It's not personality or looks that win anything. It's emotional stability and openness that does.
Posted by VenusStar
ok, I want to get back into the dating game (I've been on the bench for almost 7 years). I live in a city where it's cool to walk around practically naked. How do I compete with the naked chicks because I refuse to wear cut off shorts
p.s. I know that personality counts and wins out. i'm fairly cute but my ego won't let me tolerate wondering eyes. I also refuse to meet new people at bars or clubs.
First of all....why would you want to compete with stupidity or women with no class? You don't.
However..there's a blessing hiding in the city where you live with this attention ho crap going on.
9 times out of 10 men are going to look. (they can't help it, so accept that). The sweet part about this is what I call a "weeding out" process for women who do have class. Sit and WATCH the men. Be a sponge. What you will notice is the guy whose only looking to get laid and their obvious behavior/actions that the dimwits are attracting. Look at the guy's eyes, is he just there for the view or a free piece? Does he look amused, but not acting out? He very well could be decent. When these women desperately throw themselves at men who are decent, they WILL reject it if they truly are not into an easy piece of meat. (or gay..) If anything this will give you some if any hope that all men aren't assholes while educating yourself in the free meat market.
You will also conclude that the the men's faces/actions looking to get laid, is simply comparable to a dog when you hand out a bone from a t-bone steak. It's actually very entertaining. If you are out with a group of friends, you can all place a dollar bet on which guy gets to screw the dimwit.
Hahah ya T? LOL 😄
You wearing clothes would make you stand out in the crowd.
Make sure you dress sexy but classy.
Make sure you dress sexy but classy.
Go out and be yourself, hang out in places you like and stop comparing yourself to naked chicks. As where I live it's the weather and heat/humidity that makes you wear little clothing and mostly for comfort but who cares what they are wearing as long as you are comfortable in what you are.
Meeting men down under is a challenge in itself as they tend to stick to themselves unlike the European men 🙂 It's amazing that they are partnered up at all, unless there's a lot of woman doing the chasing.
Unfortunately love doesn't happen just because we decide we want it but adjusting your mindset and being more open to it is a start. Good luck!
Meeting men down under is a challenge in itself as they tend to stick to themselves unlike the European men 🙂 It's amazing that they are partnered up at all, unless there's a lot of woman doing the chasing.
Unfortunately love doesn't happen just because we decide we want it but adjusting your mindset and being more open to it is a start. Good luck!
For every 1,000 men who prefer overly-sexualized chicks, there are 2,000 that don't.
You've gotta find the 2,000 that don't. They're out there. Trust me. Will men ever get tired of seeing naked chicks? Probably not lol. But do all men wanna take them home to mama & wife half naked chicks? Usually not.
It may take you a little longer than you'd like to find love, but don't necessarily assume that half naked chicks are the only factor here for why you may not be finding it as quickly
Are you going to the places/environments where the kind of guy you'd want would hang out? (Example: If you don't want a guy who parties all the time, don't go to clubs/bars expecting to find a guy like him there).
Are you putting yourself out there enough? Flirting. Smiling a lot. Going to places you love & that are fun-oriented
Are you giving the few guys who I'm sure you have crossed paths with, the time of day? Sometimes a woman has 1,000 guys flocking to her at any given time, but b/c none of them are her "type" she convinces herself that she doesn't get any play at all lol
Plus, remember that all of those naked chicks aren't married or in serious relationships. Some of them are just as single as you are. So clearly, the issue isn't that the competition is half naked. It's important that you know that deep down b/c a lot of times women get discouraged & a little envious when they see all the other chicks 'getting guys.' Funny thing is, all those half naked chicks are probably at home right now venting & b****ching about the fact that most of the men in their towns only want them for 1 thing lol
In other words, you may think they're getting all the play & attention, meanwhile, they're just as single as you are b/c they see that getting the wrong attention isn't so victorious or leading to love either.
Just be patient. Sometimes the only thing stopping you from finding love is timing. The answer isn't always that something is wrong with you or the other person. Sometimes it's just not your time yet.
You've gotta find the 2,000 that don't. They're out there. Trust me. Will men ever get tired of seeing naked chicks? Probably not lol. But do all men wanna take them home to mama & wife half naked chicks? Usually not.
It may take you a little longer than you'd like to find love, but don't necessarily assume that half naked chicks are the only factor here for why you may not be finding it as quickly
Are you going to the places/environments where the kind of guy you'd want would hang out? (Example: If you don't want a guy who parties all the time, don't go to clubs/bars expecting to find a guy like him there).
Are you putting yourself out there enough? Flirting. Smiling a lot. Going to places you love & that are fun-oriented
Are you giving the few guys who I'm sure you have crossed paths with, the time of day? Sometimes a woman has 1,000 guys flocking to her at any given time, but b/c none of them are her "type" she convinces herself that she doesn't get any play at all lol
Plus, remember that all of those naked chicks aren't married or in serious relationships. Some of them are just as single as you are. So clearly, the issue isn't that the competition is half naked. It's important that you know that deep down b/c a lot of times women get discouraged & a little envious when they see all the other chicks 'getting guys.' Funny thing is, all those half naked chicks are probably at home right now venting & b****ching about the fact that most of the men in their towns only want them for 1 thing lol
In other words, you may think they're getting all the play & attention, meanwhile, they're just as single as you are b/c they see that getting the wrong attention isn't so victorious or leading to love either.
Just be patient. Sometimes the only thing stopping you from finding love is timing. The answer isn't always that something is wrong with you or the other person. Sometimes it's just not your time yet.
Wait until winter.
Sounds like you have made a league of you're own.. If everyone else is naked. Own it..
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p.s. I know that personality counts and wins out. i'm fairly cute but my ego won't let me tolerate wondering eyes. I also refuse to meet new people at bars or clubs.