fed up with this world

my fianc? cheated on me, with my best friend. They flirted at my birthday party, and when I confronted her about it, everything came out in the open. where do I go from here?

1. Dump them BOTH

2. There's NO use in trying to figure out the who's, what's, when's, where's, & why's b/c all the added/extra detail WON'T change the big picture NOR will it help you to see the big picture/reality for what it really is

3. If he'll sleep with your best friend, there's no telling who else he's slept with already

4. If your best friend will sleep with your man, there's no telling how many other boyfriend's of yours she's slept with

5. What they did was bottom of the barrel. Of all the men on this earth that your best friend could've slept with she stooped low enough to choose your man. Of all the women he could've cheated on you with, he CHOOSE to go below the belt & choose the 1 person that means the world to you

6. Be glad you saw BOTH of their true colors before you walked down that isle & married the sob. You knowing the truth could've just saved you from years of heartache & spending alot of money on a divorce attorney

7. No, don't be fed up with this world. I know it hurts BUT don't ever allow any circumstances involving a man to make you question/challenge your worth. All the rest of the guys in the world wouldn't have done that to you, but HE did. So if you're gonna be disgusted with anyone, be digusted with HIM, not the world.

8. He's not worthy enough & he doesn't deserve to have the power to make you change or miss out on someone else that actually WOULD'VE respected & been faithful to you

9. Dump them BOTH!

10. And did I mention, DUMP THEM BOTH?!!

Say this line. Trust me it works every time!

Next time you get the chance to see/talk to your fiance, say:

"I'm not even mad at you. In fact I THANK you for showing me your true colors before I walked down that isle with you. You actually just brought me 1 step closer to meeting the real person that's right for me. Oh yeah & since you risked losing me & all we've built together over my own best friend, I hope you 2 find happiness together. Since he/she was worth you losing me, I hope you 2 can ride off into the sunset together. Not to be rude, but don't be surprised if the same gets done to you. Karma is a B & unfortunately for you, you'll have to go find another best friend (or another friend of mine) to go get comfort from when Karma actually does come back & slap you across the face. I hope it was worth it. In the meantime, know that I'm gonna be ok & just fine without you. Know that the next time there's a ring on my finger, it's gonna be from/with someone who actually won't risk losing an "everything" all for 20 minutes of pleasure with a "nothing." Don't call me Karma comes a-knocking at your door b/c I won't answer. I'll be off into the sunset with the person that truly deserves me. And unfortunately for you, you're not that person. Your time is up. Peace!"

Works every time!

I kinda wanna know the story. This is both intriguing and upsetting. Hope you get to feeling better :/

Posted by happykitsune
I kinda wanna know the story. This is both intriguing and upsetting. Hope you get to feeling better :/

ehehehehehe 😈

Misery loves company...sounds like they deserve eachother so let them at it...think of it this way...better now then later..like play this very same scenario but after you were married...better now then later...they both did you a favor...thank them, hold your head up high and move on...

guuuuuyz....tis a joke.its nice to know that people care tho 😄

FAWK, knew I should've at least check that fool's profile.

Oh well, thanks for the workout fuel *finna BEAST*

Oh..Hi Mark!🙂

Keys this is a man not a woman

Krys* effin auto correct

Posted by everevolvingepithet
lol@ the reactions

Posted by UrsaMediocre

As for now, destroy her mentally, emotionally, socially, & financially. Make sure she never experiences happiness for the rest of her life. Fuck her best friend too while you're at it. As for your boy, have him ostracized from your circle.

Best freind ?
Umm, Sis or Mum possibly ?

LMAO, THAT is the greatest thing in LIFE, fuck what Conan says.

Im sorry Lisa is tearing you apart.

Lets go play football instead.

Posted by happykitsune
I kinda wanna know the story. This is both intriguing and upsetting. Hope you get to feeling better :/

When I moved to San Francisco, um, with two suit cases and I didn't know anyone and I have...I hit YMCA with a two-thousand dollar check which I couldn't cash because it was an out of state bank. Anyway, I was working as a bus boy in hotel and, uh, she was sitting drinking her coffee and she was so beautiful, and I say hi to her. That's how we met. The interesting part is that on our first date, she paid for dinner!

I treated her like a princess for seven years...

At my birthday party, we were all eating cake and mingling, except for the two of them. They had separated themselves from the group for most of the night, and looked to be having a serious conversation. I look up and saw that my fianc? had slapped him. I shot up from my seat and asked what was going on. All of a sudden, we are in the middle of a shoving match all I could hear was my girl begging us to stop. I managed to push him into a table, but by then everyone grabbed and pulled us apart. I went to the kitchen to cool off

A few hours passed and the fight was forgotten, but they were dancing intimately in front of everyone. I asked her:

"What are you doing?"
she said "None of your business."
"You're my future wife, what are you doing Lisa?"
The party went silent.
It seemed like everyone knew except for me. I couldn't take it anymore. I felt like everybody betrayed me...
I'd rather not say anymore- it was more chaos, until I just left
The Room

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Posted by happykitsune
I kinda wanna know the story. This is both intriguing and upsetting. Hope you get to feeling better :/

When I moved to San Francisco, um, with two suit cases and I didn't know anyone and I have...I hit YMCA with a two-thousand dollar check which I couldn't cash because it was an out of state bank. Anyway, I was working as a bus boy in hotel and, uh, she was sitting drinking her coffee and she was so beautiful, and I say hi to her. That's how we met. The interesting part is that on our first date, she paid for dinner!

I treated her like a princess for seven years...

At my birthday party, we were all eating cake and mingling, except for the two of them. They had separated themselves from the group for most of the night, and looked to be having a serious conversation. I look up and saw that my fianc? had slapped him. I shot up from my seat and asked what was going on. All of a sudden, we are in the middle of a shoving match all I could hear was my girl begging us to stop. I managed to push him into a table, but by then everyone grabbed and pulled us apart. I went to the kitchen to cool off

A few hours passed and the fight was forgotten, but they were dancing intimately in front of everyone. I asked her:

"What are you doing?"
she said "None of your business."
"You're my future wife, what are you doing Lisa?"
The party went silent.
It seemed like everyone knew except for me. I couldn't take it anymore. I felt like everybody betrayed me...
I'd rather not say anymore- it was more chaos, until I just left
The Room

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LMAO!!!! You didnt tell them about Denny and his drug-problem.

LMAO!

this just fumes me. You give the person your all and this is how they repay you? I hate people like that. Makes me wonder if true love exists, or are we just fooling ourselves.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
lol@ the reactions

Posted by UrsaMediocre

As for now, destroy her mentally, emotionally, socially, & financially. Make sure she never experiences happiness for the rest of her life. Fuck her best friend too while you're at it. As for your boy, have him ostracized from your circle.

Best freind ?
Umm, Sis or Mum possibly ?

OWNED haha!

That was without a doubt the most painful to watch film. Here's hoping France goes bankrupt enough to keep some of it's lesser directors from touching anything related to film-making technology.

Not even a water color paint set!

LOL

Sometimes it's best not have your friends meet your gf/bf and keep them separate. Chances are if she's attracted to you, she'd probably be attracted to some of your friends because you may have something in common.

A female friend of mine always brought her boyfriends to meet me, and it sickens me when some of them became attracted to me. I couldn't tell her about their flirtations because it would break her heart.

Leave.

Moral of this story, Keep your friends and your women completely seperated........

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by firewaterair
Sometimes it's best not have your friends meet your gf/bf and keep them separate. Chances are if she's attracted to you, she'd probably be attracted to some of your friends because you may have something in common.

A female friend of mine always brought her boyfriends to meet me, and it sickens me when some of them became attracted to me. I couldn't tell her about their flirtations because it would break her heart.

That's the difference between normal peeps and slores though lol

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I dont know man, there aren't alot of normal peeps left in the world.....lmao!!!!!

loving the word slores though...does this apply to both male and female....? lmfao!!!!!!!!!

kill that bitch