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beautifulsoul74
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I know how we are guys. But we shouldn't live in fear of giving our hearts to a woman. I say this...love her. I know you want to jump in front of a bus in order to save her life, but the true sacrifice comes from the day to day ways of showing her you're there and you care. Calling her or texting her to get her day started. Helping her with the kids. When she tells you her mind and how she feels...she's not complaining, she's showing you that she trusts you and that is sacred. Support her dreams, share her nightmares and calm her when she has them. She doesn't want the world...she wants YOU. They need the reassurance that we're there. In time...you will heal her heart and she will heal yours. So, love her whoever she is.
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Posted by Mr. Defense
That dude is some pussy whipped loser waiting to happen. All the romantic lovey dovey bullshit, women can listen to that shit all day. At the end of the day women don't respect it. Look at who women fall in love with. It isn't some romantic dude who does everything she says.



That's all right Clueless...I've got this.

The reason you call me names is because you're a coward. You're an asshole and what do assholes do...shit. The fact is I'm more man than you'll ever be. Why, because I'm not afraid to speak what's in my heart regardless of what someone. By saying that women don't respect it you're implying that they should. It takes courage to speak like this. Instead jumping off a bridge and do what bits do, fucking step up for once in your like and be a man.


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The ironic thing is that's exactly what my OP was about... The integrity of doing what you're supposed to do when you say you love someone. But Im gay in your mind. Laughable. Where is it that I said to let a woman disrespect you. No where. I didn't even mention romance. All the stuff I mentioned is what you do when you care for someone. Did I say, go out and mess with a crazy woman no. The bus analogy is meant that when you love a woman you'd give your life for her right? If you're willing to do that then do right by her everyday. There nothing gay about I wouldn't have to explain that to a male who thinks in those terms.

Your comments wreak of fear. You're the type that goes out and lure a woman to get the panties, then bails when she gets attached leaving other men to clean up the mess. Why, because you can't handle your own feelings of love. You just posted about some Pisces chick you thought was crazy and you slept with her anyway. That speaks more to your character than anything and you want to bark at me about integrity?! Please. Then you go one some childish rant about how earth signs are superior to water signs. You don't have a leg to stand on sir. Thats why you play defense, you lack the offensive firepower to actually lead.

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Posted by Mr. Defense
Stupid topic. You guys can continue with your circle jerk and your fantasies.



Loloh where's the defense Mr D? What's the matter? Stepped into the jungle and tried to pick a fight with tiger and bi off more than you could chew? Not surprising. But then again...I'd expect that from some Virgos...to criticize but never defend their statements with credible words and then hurl insults because they're mad.
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In reference to Sag women you love what you can't handle.

I wasn't butt hurt at all. I thought it was quite funny.

Now you've confessed to being gay. No problem! Its nice to see you come out of the closet and live openly but nobody likes a hypocrit...including Sag women *shrugs*

You go on QuietStorm's thread where I posted a few things on love and trust being synonymous. No noise there from you. Now you come here and all of a sudden you're vocal. Sounds to me that not only do you not know your own feelings but you can't control them or your mouth. Nobody likes a complainer and yes, jerks are forgettable.


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Posted by crunchy
Posted by sweethearts
So Mr Defense...tell us what does a real man does? I'm guessing you think you are one. Throw it out there and let the woman be the judge...that's IF you have any balls at all!!!



https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/the-return-of-the-virgo-player-3645049/
According to him, neurotically obsess about fashion and desperation to "become a player".
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Just read the first part of his thread...his self esteem has taken such a blow that he's trying to prove something to the word by fucking all the woman around to get back at this one girl that hurt him! He's never going to get any self satisfaction from that.

VB put it quite simply...


"What a shallow and cold existence you lead."

He'll never be happy until he changes his own outlook...money doesn't buy happiness Mr Defense and all the fame and notoriety in the world don't cut it either. Hope one day you wake up and start respecting yourself.
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I'd say your view of this is not only gentlemanly, but mature. Once people become less self-centered and less afraid, they will be able to open up to themselves and others and form a mature relationship with somebody. It's not gay or unmanly to be in tune with yourself and be willing to care for another person like described in the OP. While not everyone is going to be at the maturity level needed to understand this and actually do it, nor will they be free of barriers (such as the stereotype that being gentle in love is unmanly, or something of the sort), it is still good that we have people out there like you, beautifulsoul. The women who are said to usually go for the bad boy types , or whatever else, I believe are somewhat insecure, or a bit immature, themselves. It IS a preference, but there are things that subconsciously lead to those preferences. You will attract mature individuals, yourself, with your type of thinking and the way you present yourself.

Thanks for posting this! It made me smile. : )
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I know how we are guys. But we shouldn't live in fear of giving our hearts to a woman. I say this...love her. I know you want to jump in front of a bus in order to save her life, but the true sacrifice comes from the day to day ways of showing her you're there and you care. Calling her or texting her to get her day started. Helping her with the kids. When she tells you her mind and how she feels...she's not complaining, she's showing you that she trusts you and that is sacred. Support her dreams, share her nightmares and calm her when she has them. She doesn't want the world...she wants YOU. They need the reassurance that we're there. In time...you will heal her heart and she will heal yours. So, love her whoever she is.



Thank you BS74.
It's always nice to see that there are at least some men out there who think fondly of women. 🙂
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ious of why BS74's post brings so much anger and resentment from other male posters.
Quoting for reference:

Posted by Mr. Defense
You sound sooooo gay.


Posted by Sneaky
Posted by Mr. Defense
You sound sooooo gay.


+ infinity and beyond.


Posted by Mr. Defense
That dude is some pussy whipped loser waiting to happen. All the romantic lovey dovey bullshit, women can listen to that shit all day. At the end of the day women don't respect it. Look at who women fall in love with. It isn't some romantic dude who does everything she says.


Posted by Sneaky
Why would I jump In front of a bus to save her ? That's where you lost me. If crazy bitch wants to get hit by a bus then crazy bitch must get hit by a bus. Modern romance has no space for romeo's any more, and I feel sorry for the guys who still have that attitude towards romance.
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Posted by Mr. Defense
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by Mr. Defense
That dude is some pussy whipped loser waiting to happen. All the romantic lovey dovey bullshit, women can listen to that shit all day. At the end of the day women don't respect it. Look at who women fall in love with. It isn't some romantic dude who does everything she says.



That's all right Clueless...I've got this.

The reason you call me names is because you're a coward. You're an asshole and what do assholes do...shit. The fact is I'm more man than you'll ever be. Why, because I'm not afraid to speak what's in my heart regardless of what someone. By saying that women don't respect it you're implying that they should. It takes courage to speak like this. Instead jumping off a bridge and do what bits do, fucking step up for once in your like and be a man.




You know what a real man doesn't do, he doesn't waste his time. And trust me, with the way you are talking, you sound like you're ripe to waste your time. I guess concepts like self respect, integrity, and efficiency are all lost on you.
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Actually a whimp is the guy in this post that can't handle a little rejection and lashes out trying to build himself up by tearing as many woman down as he can...one day he will awaken and realise how lonely he is...even though he is in a room full of people!


https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/the-return-of-the-virgo-player-3645049/

Waves back at VB, lovely to see you lady!
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i think that BS is a good guy. i wouldnt call him a whimp. overly romantic, yes IMO. my romantic yearnings arent inline with his.

tbh, i wouldnt give him the time of day. not his fault, but im attracted to a different type of men. less expressive of his romantic yearnings. still has them, but keeps it mum. id probably run the other way from all the mushiness of it all.

but i know a few of my girlfriends who would eat that shit up all day long.

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Posted by Mr. Defense
There is a difference between a good guy and a whimp. The OP is definitely more a whimp than a good guy. A good guy does the right thing at the right time. This romantic nonsense is completely disgusting. It holds no weight in the real world. Women just love hearing it, and guys get the impression that's what it takes to get them. It doesn't. In practice women are not responsive to such garbage.



Oh really? Because that's exactly why I chose my kind, heart-of-gold Aqua (who is overweight and average looking) over a suave, smooth-talking sexy bad boy, right? And this is from a 22 year old girl who is 98 lbs and models.

may a pigeon shit on your fake Versace suit

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Posted by Mr. Defense
People come on the internet and say anything, so what you guys are talking about really doesn't matter. I know how women behave in real life, and I know what they respect and don't. Some guy talking a bunch of lovey dovey bullshit is stuff they don't respond to. Oh they'll think it's nice and they'll think it's cool. They just don't take a guy who says such nonsense seriously. There is only one thing women in the real world respond to, that's status and money. Amazing you get on the internet, all all of the sudden women don't care about money. You come on the internet and say that shit because you don't want to make yourself look cheap. But we all know what you women are really chasing in real life. you just come on the internet with your "money doesn't matter, it's all about love" bullshit, becasue you're basically trying to save face. I don't listen to this load of shit for a second.



IIRC, you stated that you specifically didn't want non-materialistic girls. By weeding them out, you acknowledge they exist.

duh!
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Clearly that is all women respond too in, where was that again? Ah yes, the "real world". The one where dragons guard pearls and gnomes tunnel daily.
Painfully obvious with all the swooning going on.

I sincerely doubt you take one word of the horseshit you've been troweling on thickly seriously. It's like you keep cross referencing some idiotic players handbook you picked up at the bus stop.

Women are gold diggers.
Women aren't worth my time.
Women are merely arm candy/penis holsters.
Women aren't my mental equivalent.
Women and their baggage.

Blah, blah, bullshit blah.

Nah. PLEASE give me a farmer, a construction worker, a dreaming aspiring writer, a romantic. And God save me from delusional pretenders.
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As Marilyn said, everyone is different and while there are some girls who go after money and status, not all, or perhaps even most, do that. You cannot accept that there are other views who are right besides your own. I quote you: "There is only one thing women in the real world respond to, that's status and money". That statement is absolute. You are saying there are no other options. ALL women wants those two things. You can continue thinking your view is supreme, but others are going to know you're wrong.

Might I also add, you called this a 'stupid topic' and said that real men don't waste their time. That last part was probably meant in a different context, however, what you are doing here is wasting your time on a 'stupid topic'. Unless you don't think it's 'wasting' time if you spend it on something you consider 'stupid'. Apparently, you are not a real man either, but I could have told you that without you digging that hole for yourself.
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Posted by Sneaky
All I read in the OP was wimpiness. A sequence of wimpy statements made by a wimpy guy, written as both a request and advice from an unqualified person.

Personally, I didn't like that. If he wants to live his life as a crying dildo, that's fine by me, but other men might be more ambitious than that.

I also think its hilarious that women think they are in a position to define a gentleman. Imagine if men did that to ladies ? Possibly encouraging unhealthy behaviour by labelling it lady like. Imagine if someone copied the op and addressed it to women, word for word, what would your reaction be? Imagine if guys encouraged that imaginary female poster by calling her a lady, as if it is some cerimonial title.

Any one who actually liked the original post is has unrealistic and unhealthy expectations about romance. I mean the post assumed men are clueless and even afraid of their own feelings and they must correct that by practically obeying their love interest. Just pathetic.

Which is why I disliked it so much.



Well, as per your definition, I find crying dildos hot.

But really, you're the one whining and crying about how awful the post was. Get a fucking grip, bitch.
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@MrDefense

The vibrational field of your being is all about money and status,
therefore women who are looking for money and status are drawn to you.

The women who are not into that so much,
and are more into the kind and loving and
true-giving-of-the-self type of man,
will not be drawn to you.
Therefore, you are not seeing those women.

You attract to you that which you are.


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Hey Sneaky...here's another shovel for ya. Now your bitching about unsolicited advice when that's all you done since you been on this site. "How dare this whimp tell me how to be a man!" The funny thing is you basically given me unsolicited power over you because of your reaction. Then you said you're done only to come back and give the proverbial "and another thing." So who's the real bitch? Basically you've only proven that you can be controlled. Basing how you feel and act on what you see and how others act. Like I said..,you're a hypocrit. You yourself have said the exact same things in another way. Telling others how to live their lives and what they should do. Thanks for demonstrating your character.
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And

@sneaky
@Mr. Defense

You two are the ones clinging desperately to traditional societal expectations like good little simians. So if anything, kind and considerate men are more courageous for not staying inside their assigned boxes. I don't even agree with the OP about a lot of things, but this is a solid message that everyone (both genders) need to hear.

You can't spell "romantic" without "man".

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Posted by scorchedearth
crunchy, sneaky has some pretty serious emotional problems. he's not playing with a full deck. you can scream until your blue in the face and nothing you say will get to him. he has some really fucked up ideas about women and romance. he thinks being a jaded woman hating manipulative twat is a respectable way of existing.

he's obviously very insecure in his own manhood. look at him aggressively attacking a sensitive man. it's obvious he's insecure because as a cancer with a chart full of water he's as much of a bottom boy as he's projecting onto BS. it's really obvious from reading sneaky's posts that he's not very masculine or manly. that's why he tries so hard to seem tough. his insecurities are being spit all over BS for reasons only he really understands.

if he was the least bit secure he wouldn't need to attack another man for being willing to be vulnerable and loving with a woman.

it's the same as mr defense.

it would be interesting to find out about their pasts and figure out which girl it was that curbstomped their hearts and created the monster.



It's not so much for them...it's just so that other impressionable guys reading this know that they're full of it.

And I think Mr. Defense actually stated that he now is on a mission to use women, because a Taurus didn't poke him back on Facebook or something. Not sure if that was exactly it, but it was something pretty silly.
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There is an equally loud and opposing voice as I'm sure I'm not the only man who feels thus way.

To clarify things, my intentions were not for my OP to be about romance. It's about the daily things you do when you say you love someone...man or woman. You're their with them and support them. Not control them or do for them in the traditional sense. But your their partner. If fulfilling your word when you tell someone, man or female is whimpy or a juvenile idea, then so be it. That doesn't make any one less of a person. If you can't grasp that simple concept..,
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You, boy, are not enlightened. You have a lot to learn if you truly believe that.

I don't understand why you're still posting in this thread. You have already declared that you don't agree with the OP. Why do you believe he needs to reconsider his position on this subject? He is not you and because he doesn't agree with you does not make him wrong. You're trying to control him. Saying that he needs to reconsider, his idea is based on juvenile ideas. Basically, change. But, you have no control over that. So, once again, realistically, why are you still posting here? Because, if it's only based on what you've already said, you ARE wasting your time. You can't honestly believe that what you've said or can say is going to make him reconsider or think about what he says next time. That would be delusional.
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