What is the appeal of doggy style for women?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by muffdivingvirgo on Friday, February 8, 2013 and has 25 replies.

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A while back, with my fianc?e, I was engaging in missionary vanilla sex. One night I was really into it, I suddenly flipped her over??_

She went uncontrollably hog wild. I mean her body was quivering with ravaging vampire screams, dirty talking like a biker, clawing the sheets, violently biting the pillow.

I was completely blown away.

Why do women love this position?

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The taking of what you want, the animalistic desire and ownership, the caressed bottom and lower back, holding onto the waist/shoulders and showing possession of your woman. The way you are covered completly by this man when he lowers his head to kiss your back and shoulders. Moving slowly all the time, the feeling that you almost can't contain yourself, the moment when it feels like your control is slipping away, sexier still when you regain control through deep breathing, gripping tighter and halting stride momentarily. The absolute "I want you, you are mine".

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Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by Sag89
Doesn't have to look at you ugly face? jk...or am I?

Not gonna lie, there's something really hot about being bent over the bed/counter/whatever, with your guy going bananas on your ass.

Literally and figuratively.

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Seriously...especially when your ass is bouncing all over the place as well. I kinda like it when my ass jiggles, it makes him go harder. 😛

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No, but in real life, that's my favorite position too. As others have said, it's the angle that feels good- really hits the spot. Plus, he can pull your hair or fondle other things at the same time. Mirrors are cool. Doggie style looks hot in the mirror.

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Posted by ScorpSuperior
No, but in real life, that's my favorite position too. As others have said, it's the angle that feels good- really hits the spot. Plus, he can pull your hair or fondle other things at the same time. Mirrors are cool. Doggie style looks hot in the mirror.

I don't know why I prefer missionary with mirrors. I just don't pay attention with doggy style --feels too good.

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Posted by muffdivingvirgo
A while back, with my fianc?e, I was engaging in missionary vanilla sex. One night I was really into it, I suddenly flipped her over??_

She went uncontrollably hog wild. I mean her body was quivering with ravaging vampire screams, dirty talking like a biker, clawing the sheets, violently biting the pillow.

I was completely blown away.

Why do women love this position?

maybe she was excited that you finally did something different. this is the sag right? we're horses, we enjoy the ride.

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I may be the only female here today to say this....but.... I really don't like it :/

unless I'm super wasted....that's always the exception for everything.

and it's one of his favorites, so I feel sort of obligated.

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Posted by brianafay
This is probably TMI, but simply put it kind of hurts. :/ and not in a good way.

Idk if he's too big for me, or I'm just too small for that position...but it just never works for me.

From behind hurts for many women, deep inside like almost in your tummy, well that's what it used to be like for me, so he slowed right down and doesn't go in so far which makes it fantastic. If I orgasm first before we start it makes everything much softer and relaxed and then there is none of that internal pain which makes it the fabulous experience it should be 🙂

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Posted by celticlioness

Posted by brianafay
This is probably TMI, but simply put it kind of hurts. :/ and not in a good way.

Idk if he's too big for me, or I'm just too small for that position...but it just never works for me.

From behind hurts for many women, deep inside like almost in your tummy, well that's what it used to be like for me, so he slowed right down and doesn't go in so far which makes it fantastic. If I orgasm first before we start it makes everything much softer and relaxed and then there is none of that internal pain which makes it the fabulous experience it should be 🙂

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Might be a tilted uterus. I'm not a huge fan of it either...certainly can't cum that way. I need missionary so I can grab his hips and flex mine to the point of near exhaustion trying to pull him in as far as I can and the thought of that in my head sends me OFF!!!

Alternatively, if I'm flat on my tummy (guy has to be big enough for this), and he goes from behind that works great cause I can grab the front of the mattress (or the wall/headboard/etc) as leverage and push back. Regular doggie I have no power and no way to 'flex'. I dig thinking of him watching my arm muscles (the guns) work while I'm pushing like a maniac.

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Posted by AriesinLuuuv

Posted by celticlioness

Posted by brianafay
This is probably TMI, but simply put it kind of hurts. :/ and not in a good way.

Idk if he's too big for me, or I'm just too small for that position...but it just never works for me.

From behind hurts for many women, deep inside like almost in your tummy, well that's what it used to be like for me, so he slowed right down and doesn't go in so far which makes it fantastic. If I orgasm first before we start it makes everything much softer and relaxed and then there is none of that internal pain which makes it the fabulous experience it should be 🙂

Might be a tilted uterus. I'm not a huge fan of it either...certainly can't cum that way. I need missionary so I can grab his hips and flex mine to the point of near exhaustion trying to pull him in as far as I can and the thought of that in my head sends me OFF!!!

Alternatively, if I'm flat on my tummy (guy has to be big enough for this), and he goes from behind that works great cause I can grab the front of the mattress (or the wall/headboard/etc) as leverage and push back. Regular doggie I have no power and no way to 'flex'. I dig thinking of him watching my arm muscles (the guns) work while I'm pushing like a maniac.

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Mine is tilted! Exactly. 🙂
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