Ghosting

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by liteskingreatness on Monday, October 14, 2019 and has 11 replies.

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@black773
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Lol I know why someone would ghost me. I’m not the easiest person to deal with at times. I don’t agree that it’s always the person ghosting who takes all the fault. Some people are just difficult to deal with, myself being an example. So I don’t take it personal.

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm always the one who is ghosting.

If someone is ghosting you, let it be and move on. Never look back or try and go back to them. Don't even ask them how they've been of whats up down the road. Hust completely forget them. There is a reason why they ghosted you. Its because they truly don't truly like or want you, but they are too passive aggressive to just be real.

Forget them. Its the best for both of you.

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@Biboroon
9 Years500+ Posts

I was ghosted before. I was in love with him and he promised me the world but it was all lies. I tried to make sense of it, made excuses for him and wanted closure which never came.

I learned my lesson — don’t trust so quicky and if someone ghosts you they are undeserving of you. And it’s okay if you don’t get closure, sometimes it’s just not meant to be.

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@neves
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Mirroring - i guess... This is something i do automatically at this point. I mean, even with friends... if i was the last person who initiated a conversation (the last to get in touch) - and that given friend never felt like getting in touch since then... I just go with the flow - and don't bother anymore. Tho, no hard feelings (i don't hate them or anything like that). If they ever feel like getting in touch again - we might continue from where we left of. If not, oh well... it is what it is - be it one or the other...

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@liteskingreatness
9 Years

Well my ex ghosted me and abandoned my child all because I was going thru things. He wasn't trying to understand. he would insult me if it didn't go his way. He would try to force me to be in a relationship with him. I don't understand how a person can be happy on the things he did. He only blocked me from his life not the other bms. He tried to make me feel guilty but he moved on to another girl so what else was I supposed to do. He said I act like I didn't want him around. he didn't want to be around tbh. His life was established he said so I left him alone. He didn't understand the issue tbh so I started moving on he made it hard to. He broke me after all the things he caused. I hope he realized you reap what you sow in life.

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@liteskingreatness
9 Years

So I'm in the wrong expressing how he hurt me and he couldn't handle it tbh. So he was immature enough to ghost me cause he caused some of this and doesn't want to admit. He pissed me off by throwing my child in my face. I told him to move on and be happy he didn't make me happy. He drinks and it was like walking around eggshells with him.