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Sex with a 21 year old
Attraction to Older Individuals and Age Dynamics
People may find older individuals more attractive due to maturity and confidence. Age differences can influence attraction, especially when age is openly acknowledged. Understanding these dynamics helps navigate relationships and social interactions more comfortably.
I don't feel right about it.....
BUT at the same time. as a 31 year, I'm am severely inexperienced
and if I do meet the right person someday who is more age-appropriate
it's probably best that I get some experience.
also my libido is quite active nowadays.....apparently these are the best years (the early 30s)
for having sex for women...
so i have been more down for "fun" than before
I think we all look younger then what we are now. I don't really go by how a person looks anymore. As long as we look the same age and act on similar vibration levels.
21 is a bit young but if you aren't as experienced, then they wouldn't be either- which makes you two on the same wavelength.
Are you just looking to bang or open to the possibility of relationship?
Lately there's been some 25-28 year olds showing interest and even at that it's kinda... hm... don't think you could handle alla dis and that's not even that much younger. I'm 31 in a week. There is one in particular that is 26 and I keep asking myself... "is this what it's like to be in my cougar years?" Lol
HAHAHAH right?
But I'm not approaching them!
I mean we are not....these children are coming to us....like in hocus pocus
For Full effect:
Because SJP was this shit in this movie. Still facorite halloween movie from when i was a kid.
I'm 30.. Don't think i'd feel right banging anyone less than 26 or 27.. idk why.. just feels weird to me now.
Same.
But people my age dont want me.lol
Cuz I'm a broke student.lol
😢
Are you just looking to bang or open to the possibility of relationship?
Lately there's been some 25-28 year olds showing interest and even at that it's kinda... hm... don't think you could handle alla dis and that's not even that much younger. I'm 31 in a week. There is one in particular that is 26 and I keep asking myself... "is this what it's like to be in my cougar years?" Lol
i'm down for the sex...because I'm pretty sure I'm being treated as an experiment/experience
something to check off her list...like visiting a new country.
this is common for brown people in predominantly white spaces.
Are you just looking to bang or open to the possibility of relationship?
Lately there's been some 25-28 year olds showing interest and even at that it's kinda... hm... don't think you could handle alla dis and that's not even that much younger. I'm 31 in a week. There is one in particular that is 26 and I keep asking myself... "is this what it's like to be in my cougar years?" Lol
i'm down for the sex...because i'm pretty sure i'm being treated as an experiement.
something to check off her list.
this is common for brown people in predominantly white spaces.
Well I hope you have some fun
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so i've got one vote?
i'd like to have sex though with someone I'm really into.....but i don't think it's going to happen at this rate...especially as a demisexual.
i still need to shake these thoughts about the Pisces.....
i did hear the best way to get over some is to get under someone else
She's legal. *shrugs* Just be careful not to play with her feelings. I don't think you'd do that, though.
i've concluded what's drawing these kids is probably the fact that i'm emotionally unavailable.
the more messed up you seem...the more people are drawn.
She's legal. *shrugs* Just be careful not to play with her feelings. I don't think you'd do that, though.
i've concluded what's drawing these kids is probably the fact that i'm emotionally unavailable.
the more messed up you seem...the more people are drawn.
Do you mean they like the challenge of trying to get to your emotions or they like you because they see you as a perfect FWB?
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i haven't pursued any of these situations so i wouldn't know
i think though that their sexual attraction is based on my
"aloofness"
I notice the same and they are very persistent. I think all the boys now have mommy issues 😂
i mean i also have mommy issues lol
She's legal. *shrugs* Just be careful not to play with her feelings. I don't think you'd do that, though.
i've concluded what's drawing these kids is probably the fact that i'm emotionally unavailable.
the more messed up you seem...the more people are drawn.
Do you mean they like the challenge of trying to get to your emotions or they like you because they see you as a perfect FWB?
i haven't pursued any of these situations so i wouldn't know
i think though that their sexual attraction is based on my
"aloofness"
They assume you got something good since they don't know what you got.
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yeah i can make a mean margarita.lol
Guys in their early 20s are like wee little babies
Get you a suga daddy that gives you a full ride 💫
Get some gains out of it u kno? That creepy foreign 45 year old with $ will see you as a baby
găsp!!
a younger person being attracted to a *non-creepy* older person!?
that so unheard off. /s
if you look good, you look good, you ain't losing that until the 40's start drying you
sadly I never manage to catch older cuz I looked like a literal child, but if I could have....
I think the youngest I ever went was 23. And, I think I was 35. He was my lil shadow for so long... it was just one time good-bye sex. He looked like a very young James Spader.
Ew. I wasn't even attracted to 21 year olds when I was 21 LOL!
hahaha right?
Hello. Girl these Youngins be trying. I cant see myelf datng some who is around my sister and lttle cousin Ages
Are you just looking to bang or open to the possibility of relationship?
Lately there's been some 25-28 year olds showing interest and even at that it's kinda... hm... don't think you could handle alla dis and that's not even that much younger. I'm 31 in a week. There is one in particular that is 26 and I keep asking myself... "is this what it's like to be in my cougar years?" Lol
Hahaha. I’m 27, and guys around 20 seem interested in me. I find it weird. I remember me at 20... Plus, aren’t they born in the 2000s? Almost?
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yeah they don't remember the good shit
Hello. Girl these Youngins be trying. I cant see myelf datng some who is around my sister and lttle cousin Ages
I do t think dating was an option. Was it? She said just a sex...
I would be like...ok babe...tell me something I don’t know...naaah...
But if someone has no distaste for younger - please, just don’t restrain yourself...😎
Hello. Girl these Youngins be trying. I cant see myelf datng some who is around my sister and lttle cousin Ages
I do t think dating was an option. Was it? She said just a sex...
I would be like...ok babe...tell me something I don’t know...naaah...
But if someone has no distaste for younger - please, just don’t restrain yourself...😎
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where are you from?
Hello. Girl these Youngins be trying. I cant see myelf datng some who is around my sister and lttle cousin Ages
I do t think dating was an option. Was it? She said just a sex...
I would be like...ok babe...tell me something I don’t know...naaah...
But if someone has no distaste for younger - please, just don’t restrain yourself...😎
where are you from?
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Unless you tell me how this is affecting anything - I am not telling...🥳
Hello. Girl these Youngins be trying. I cant see myelf datng some who is around my sister and lttle cousin Ages
I do t think dating was an option. Was it? She said just a sex...
I would be like...ok babe...tell me something I don’t know...naaah...
But if someone has no distaste for younger - please, just don’t restrain yourself...😎
where are you from?
Unless you tell me how this is affecting anything - I am not telling...🥳
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the english you write on here is getting better but i want to know your baseline
Hello. Girl these Youngins be trying. I cant see myelf datng some who is around my sister and lttle cousin Ages
I do t think dating was an option. Was it? She said just a sex...
I would be like...ok babe...tell me something I don’t know...naaah...
But if someone has no distaste for younger - please, just don’t restrain yourself...😎
where are you from?
Unless you tell me how this is affecting anything - I am not telling...🥳
the english you write on here is getting better but i want to know your baseline
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What baseline? You aren’t repulsed by a person - fuck them! What is my English going to change in your situation?
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As 31 year old......
20-23-year-olds have been approaching my in droves this past several month.
Grant it I get it is due in part that I'm still in undergrad so of course law of averages it's more likely that I'd be approached by people younger than me
but still weird...especially because I'm open and honest about age...so people know that i'm 31
but instead of repelling them...it seems to make them even more attracted to me