Going through HIS phone... (Page 2)

Posted by MsPisces.
Y'all are better than me, because if I suspect, I will go thru a phone.

My ex cheated on me and while my intuition told me, the phone gave me proof. I smashed up the phone and damn near smashed him up too. I was ready to fight himlike a bitch in the streets, and if I had access to his car in the heat of that moment, I would've smashed that shit up too. Ill never forget that sickness in my stomach.

So, yes. I can be a crazy bitch if betrayed, although that was quite some time ago, I'm not sure id react the same today.

I left his ass though for a while, but we eventually got back together....I lost interest some time later and broke up with him.

well i think from my perspective is you didn't really need the proof did you? your intuition told you all you needed to know.

i think sometimes we allow jackasses to tell us the right words, in the right moment, and we might fall for it so yeah, having actual "proof" makes us feel vindicated and puts the onus on him but in order to do that, you end up having to lose who you are.

so regardless, you become the "crazy bitch" that he feels he was better off without instead of the strong woman that he lost. personally, i'd rather let the fucker think he ain't worth my damn time or energy than to lose it.