How do I fight back?! (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by rebecca83 on Thursday, October 25, 2012 and has 53 replies.

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Lmao. I cant believe that u guys thought it was about me. Oh well. Still scotty doesnt know, he doesnt know, he will find out by himself, but for now he doesnt know and im glad he doesnt know *gyrating*

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Posted by curious2know

THIS ONE RIGHT HERE..............
option 2 is more difficult to carry out - and the odds of succeeding are pretty uncertain - plus there's the risk of him moving on once he's acquired enough self-confidence to not be dependent on anyone else... including me...

NOW this one screamed out at me............
This tells me that you are/want to be a replacement "MUMMY" for him and this is the part i have diffuculty with which is why i can`t offer any advice because it seems to me by this statement alone that you want him to be dependant on you instead of mummy dearest.

By this statement alone you YOURSELF have stated that YOU want HIM to be dependent on YOU.

Not healthy in my opinion

Not having a go here.just making observations

In another thread, she'd asked about him and started making comments/statements about "teaching" him or whatever. It was over in the Libra forum. I wonder if there's confusion between relationship and just controlling who he is because he's younger and newer at this. There were a few examples of her wanting to remain in control of the situation.

Not a shot at you OP, just a consistency I noticed with this observation by curious2know. Might be something to consider if you find yourself swaying in that direction.