@james tate
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LOL, my Taurus does this, it's totally new to me and was very disconcerting at first, but now I just expect it and in fact will kind of look at him sideways (in my mind) if he doesn't do it. I never thought of it as being territorial, but now you say it hmmmm, he does tend to touch and rest there in public, like "this is mine", but in private slides over, moves above, back down, back up again, round and round and round....
I enjoy it immensely. Makes me feel claimed and desired. It's not a bowling ball hold or one cheek in a hand, it's usually forearm draped across lower back/buttock and hand gently curled around the hip.
My man does it and it doesn't bother me at all, in fact I like it. I don't' think it's territorial he normally has a feel says Mmmmm and then gives me a little slap. Makes me feel desired, he also holds my boobs when cuddling or has to touch me in bed, even if it's only his hand on my leg.
Some men are just touchy feely 🙂
LMAO Layna...'daring digit during downtime'. The 'D' Quad of Doom. Giddyup. 😄
THE BIRDS AT THE WHITE HOURSE SAYS ITS LETTING OUTHERS KNOW YOUR A COUPLE BOTH OTHER MEN AND WOMEN hummmmmmmmmmmmm.
i ASK WHY THEY DON'T JUST LEAD HIM AROUND BY HIS WANGER.
That's for private time. 😛
the sag likes to palm my butt in public; pissing on a tree?
the scorp likes to grab anything in public; titties, waist, ass whatever is in his reach
i welcome all of it 🙂
There are other ways to be territorial about your lady friend than fondling her butt in public, like say placing your hand an inch or two above the butt will clearly demonstrate the same thing only with a classier touch. Just sayin'..
If they wear a thong at the pool or on the beach you could leave teeth prints on a cheek.
just a suggestion
by the By they may have found Richard the 3ed. fucker has been in hideing under a car park for quite some time.
He's right, they discovered a long forgotten someone buried under a car park. Might be Richard III ..might be Baldrick..I have..a cunning plan...
HAHAHAHAHA Makes all the girls say "YEYAH!" Speaking of those gifted in the cupular region...I saw a pic of a woman with a bosom so enormous it defied the laws of physics. Gravity sure won, but wow what a set of sweater puppies.
Meh. I'm more of hand holder.
Posted by Layna
OMG I saw a lady (in real!!!!!) when I was at a gas station with my Aries. Woman had an ass protruding out so much and so... BEACH BALLS-like that I was, like... "ARE THOSE REAL?!" I mean they looked impossible!!Yeah... gotta bow down to them ghetto booties. *kow tows downs deeps*
That's it, isn't it? Your brain just reverts to childhood with an "OH WOW". Ghetto booties are phenomenal. What boggles my nut is the 'butt shelf'. That cresting ledge then what looks like a couple of deflated pancakes underneath. Set a teacup service on that.
THATS WAY MORE BUTT THAN I WOULD WANT TO HOLD AND MORE TIT THAN IS NEEDED. I LIKE WOMEN WHO ARE ALL SIZES AND SHAPES BUT NOT OVER THE TOP.
Yes, we call it a parking lot.
Posted by Layna
OMG I saw a lady (in real!!!!!) when I was at a gas station with my Aries. Woman had an ass protruding out so much and so... BEACH BALLS-like that I was, like... "ARE THOSE REAL?!" I mean they looked impossible!!Yeah... gotta bow down to them ghetto booties. *kow tows downs deeps*
lol
In the U.K. parking is at a premium in small towns and villages. So we have car parks as you come into a town you park your auto and catch a bus or a cab and go about your business. This is in most areas. All over the U.K..
Posted by 25thDecan
Lmao@this thread. I prefer a woman to hold me in such a way. Grab those buns baby. I got that Al Bundy booty.....
Ditto. Me and my ex use to put our hands on each others butts in public at the same time lol
Nah, not in public.
A slap is one thing, but to hold my butt in public like that, is too much. Back up off me.
Posted by Amandus
Meh. I'm more of hand holder.
same
I put it in the realm of a couple. Most definitely he is free to touch me and I him. No matter where we are at. There's nothing pervy or disrespectful about closeness and connection.
Posted by 25thDecan
^bingoGone bullette...grab a handful.....pull my cheeks....huh, sign of a deeper problem?
I'd rather them grab a hand full of something else lol
well i've taken to smoothing down my taurus butt in public since he introduced me to the pleasures of it, i'm in no way ridiculing him nor did I ever think he was me, its an instinctive thing done purely based on the feeling at that moment with no thought involved, and I can see it pleases him immensely, so I shall continue to please him 🙂
I love it.
If it was anyone other than my man, though, I'd probably kick them in the face.
Posted by venusianbull
I put it in the realm of a couple. Most definitely he is free to touch me and I him. No matter where we are at. There's nothing pervy or disrespectful about closeness and connection.Very well put! Being in love should involve feeling free to express yourself to your partner and vice versa. isn't that the whole point of 'unconditional love'?
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Posted by 25thDecan
^bingoGone bullette...grab a handful.....pull my cheeks....huh, sign of a deeper problem?
LMAO Dat asssssss.
I love to be "handled" anytime, any way. Public display, private display, I'm an affection whore.
BUNCH OF ASS GRABING BUTT HOLDING CREEPS!
NOTHING BUT DISRESPECT FOR YOUR WOMEN SHAME
SMITE THEM SHABOOM
would u let your mate finger or fondle you in public?
Posted by 88PISCIS
Not me. Handholding is perfect for me.I like being respected in public and treated like a lady.
Men that see other men grabbing their women's a@@@@@, will want to disrespect her when she is alone.
-cause it gives the impression she is not to be respected in public.But if you like the attention of creeps, then don't complain when they also want to grag your a@@@@.
This sounds utterly obtuse
I challenge any woman to not feel respected and cherished with a mans loving arm around their middle. Why that is repellent I just cannot wrap my brain around. Thank goodness.
That makes it sound like men are all slobbering cretins hell bent on cutting a wide swathe through chastity and making sure one is utterly debauched. Again, thank goodness. That's part of it. "I want you." "You are mine." "I cannot stay out of your atmosphere." "I love you." It's warm and feel good. Not 'thou shalt not touch' Ice Maiden in public looking like someone just cracked one off. Then doing a complete 180 and unleashing the Kracken in the bedchamber.
I have never felt unladylike or side of beef-like with a partners hands on me. I want them there as much as he wants them to be there. Same as I want mine on him. I am his lady, he is my gentleman. Wanting to touch someone you care about does not = creep. Quite the reverse.
I'm not offended a bit Mermaid, I truly do not understand your reaction.
Posted by DMV
would u let your mate finger or fondle you in public?Hahaha, finger? really? hahaha
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Yeh, bit left field that.
Posted by sweethearts
My man does it and it doesn't bother me at all, in fact I like it. I don't' think it's territorial he normally has a feel says Mmmmm and then gives me a little slap. Makes me feel desired, he also holds my boobs when cuddling or has to touch me in bed, even if it's only his hand on my leg.Some men are just touchy feely 🙂
Yeah...I agree here. My guy does it also, and it is not a territorial thing. He is just extremely touchy feely. He loves to touch my skin, be it my arms, thighs, or my butt. It doesn't bother me one bit. He does it from a very admiring stance, like he is admiring beautiful art...He is always cuddling and hugging me as well, like he can't get enough of how good we feel together. I can't explain it, but when he does it, he has the biggest look of satisfied contentment on his face.
So yeah, some men are just like that. He is a Leeb though. In fact, I have had 4 very special relationships in my time with the Leebs. 2 of them were all touchy feely like this. 2 of them were not and in fact, they were only touchy in bed, and neither could stand public displays of affection.
Posted by DMV
would u let your mate finger or fondle you in public?
I would. I have. of course we are in a location for which others arent exactly right in viewing vicinty. But yeah, see, I am a gemini and I sort of have a hard time sticking to general conformed rules/standards of society. There is and always will be a bit of a "Bad Girl" in me, who is daring and likes to push past boundaries.
Posted by DMV
would u let your mate finger or fondle you in public?I would. I have. of course we are in a location for which others arent exactly right in viewing vicinty. But yeah, see, I am a gemini and I sort of have a hard time sticking to general conformed rules/standards of society. There is and always will be a bit of a "Bad Girl" in me, who is daring and likes to push past boundaries.
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thanks Gem! i knew someone here would "get" me lol. i have let a few finger me or twist my nipples in public. i think its H-O-T and taboo
Posted by DMV
would u let your mate finger or fondle you in public?Hahaha, finger? really? hahaha
Yeh, bit left field that.
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is it? 🙂
Men that see other men grabbing their women's a@@@@@, will want to disrespect her when she is alone.
-cause it gives the impression she is not to be respected in public.
interesting viewpoint. i never saw it as a sign of something larger. whats your chart if you mind me asking?
Posted by DMV
would u let your mate finger or fondle you in public?http://media.photobucket.com/image/laughing smiley/Speedo_Ghost/Smiley/Laughing_2.gif?o=12" target="_blank">
DMV!! LOL! Leave it to you!!
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*looking around*
haha
I have never felt unladylike or side of beef-like with a partners hands on me. I want them there as much as he wants them to be there. Same as I want mine on him. I am his lady, he is my gentleman. Wanting to touch someone you care about does not = creep. Quite the reverse.
i concur.
furthermore, if i saw a couple just hand holding in public i think that theyd have a boring sex life at home, if all theyre limited to is holding hands in public.
Posted by 88PISCIS
Again, I see people getting offended for my comments and I dont care a bit.----Are you that desperate in public.... lmao
can you wait till you get home? I guarantee most do not even touch their partner at home, but do in public just for the hell or it or the ridiculous attention.I prefer a more conservative man, who is a true gentleman in public who is anxious to see me when I get home or when we get home and give in to each other. I DONT NEED AN AUDIENCE for a man to touch me and hold me. PERIOD.
im sensing some capricorn in our chart
Posted by Nicrobliz
To all of those who are against such displays of affection, here's some advice for you: placing restrictions on how a partner can be physically affectionate towards you (let alone enjoying your physical form) is one sure way of losing them. They may not mind such reservations at first but, within time, such limitations will wear their enthusiasm down.Whatever happened with losing your inhibitions and unshackling those social constraints? Stop allowing yourselves to be brainwashed and live for the moment - life's too short! 🙂
lol, that is why I don't date clowns. 😛
so I wouldnt care to lose one if he acted that way. how about that Mr. Nicro..😛I assure you there are respectful men who like holding their women's hand, and being very close to her to protect her.
not expose her. & of course a respectful man or woman in the long run wouldnt be a good match with a clown.click to expand
would you tongue your man down in public?
Posted by sweethearts
My man does it and it doesn't bother me at all, in fact I like it. I don't' think it's territorial he normally has a feel says Mmmmm and then gives me a little slap. Makes me feel desired, he also holds my boobs when cuddling or has to touch me in bed, even if it's only his hand on my leg.Some men are just touchy feely 🙂
Yeah...I agree here. My guy does it also, and it is not a territorial thing. He is just extremely touchy feely. He loves to touch my skin, be it my arms, thighs, or my butt. It doesn't bother me one bit. He does it from a very admiring stance, like he is admiring beautiful art...He is always cuddling and hugging me as well, like he can't get enough of how good we feel together. I can't explain it, but when he does it, he has the biggest look of satisfied contentment on his face.
So yeah, some men are just like that. He is a Leeb though. In fact, I have had 4 very special relationships in my time with the Leebs. 2 of them were all touchy feely like this. 2 of them were not and in fact, they were only touchy in bed, and neither could stand public displays of affection.
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leebs are touchy feely and this earth mars and venus likee. i like tangible displays of affection. when theyre done in public, its putting yourself out there and letting people know you like this person and your not afraid to show it. hand holding, fondling, what have you.
i can see where 88 is coming from. i dont like putting my self out there in public alot. i care what people think to a certain extent. so i can be icey to my partner in public. limited displays of affection. behind closed doors, im a beast. HOWEVER, i love it when my partner shows me grand displays of affection in public. no restrictions.
so its not always a 2 way street.
Men that see other men grabbing their women's a@@@@@, will want to disrespect her when she is alone.
-cause it gives the impression she is not to be respected in public.interesting viewpoint. i never saw it as a sign of something larger. whats your chart if you mind me asking?
Here is part of my chart, but I dont think it has anything to do with how a person is. there could me another me somewhere with the same placements and she could be a total nut-case.
My mom and dad never acted that way.
My brother w virgo moon doesnt either
& my brother Aries with capricorn moon doesnt either.NOW my Aqua /leo moon sister -- she would like a man who can show that kind of attention in public.
--spanking and all that azzz grabbing. she even does it for fun to annoy me in public. that is one of the reasons I wouldnt hang out with her if she behaves that way...she knows she has to behave like a respectful lady when I am around or I'll disappear...Pisces w/scorpio moon
Venus in Aries
Libra Asc
Saturn in Leo /in the 10th house
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Saturn sitting in your 10 could be it. where is your venus located, which house?
Posted by 88PISCIS
I once read due to being a double 8 in numerology, I was ruled by saturn. = I like reading this stuff too, maybe other people dont care to read about it.And having saturn in the 10th house - does put a lot of restriction on me. Not much I can do.
But hey Im not here to offend anyone. I thought it was kind of funny to call you guys azzz grabbing weirdos.. lol.
--I like everyone here 🙂
I like Mr. Virgo & Nicro too. 🙂 / but no grabbing azzz allowed.. lmao
me and several others who understand where your coming from have cap in our charts. people ruled by saturn would rather a lady/gentlemen in public, slut in the bedroom
most of you belong in Key West doing the fucky sucky thing at sloppyjoe's all night long. nothing like a good orgy to let the shyness out.
Posted by DMV
would u let your mate finger or fondle you in public?Hahaha, finger? really? hahaha
Yeh, bit left field that.
is it? 🙂
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Yup. 🙂
I thought we were talking about butt holding, not simply holding eachothers waist?
If its the former, who does that?
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I HAVE NOTICED THAT A LOT OF MEN LIKE TO PLANT THERE HAND ON THEIR FEMALE COUNTERPARTS BUTT WHILE STANDING AROUND TALKING. I ASSUM ITS A WARNING TO OUTHER MALES THAT SHE IS TAKEN. HOW DO ANY OF YOU FELL ABOUT THIS. I HAVE NEVER DONE THIS MYSELF AND BELIEVE IT OR NOT JUST STARTED NOTICEING IT.