How to get over someone 101

Tips needed

I'm still having sexy time dreams.....

almost 3 years later.

Get under someone else

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

I'm still having sexy time dreams.....

almost 3 years later.

The only way is to find someone new.

It’s not a guarantee fix but at least something to refocus on. Good luck...

Posted by greylatern

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

I'm still having sexy time dreams.....

almost 3 years later.

Remind yourself why you broke up in the first place. Beyond that if they are in your heart then they are in your heart. Learn to accept it and move on.

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not so much as in my heart as in my loins

Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Do you still follow them on the gram?

i'm weak i do.

at least i deactivated my fb account two years ago because I couldn't help myself

and blocked her number ( been a couple of weeks)

.....

she always hits me up when mercury is in retrograde

Mercury in retrograde tends to be the time also when I also have the urge to reach out to her too

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Do you still follow them on the gram?

i'm weak i do.

at least i deactivated my fb account two years ago because I couldn't help myself

and blocked her number ( been a couple of weeks)

.....

she always hits me up when mercury is in retrograde

Mercury in retrograde tends to be the time also when I also have the urge to reach out to her too

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i'm sorry

😢

Posted by Erinelda

We don't care about your lions. Who cares if it's just sex dreams? What the hell. You got a bunch of well-meaning people trying to help your heart, and you're busy bragging about your sex dreams like some kind of pervert.

what?lol are you trolling me?

did i really upset you :/

1. Buy lot of alcohol

2. Drink said lots of alcohol

3. Embrace cathartic release from said alcohol

4. Confront said person with courage provided by alcohol

5. Buy a bit more alcohol

6. Wallow in self pity in the shower, by the corner of the shower, while consuming extra alcohol

7. Repeat above until self improvement.

No contact. Concentrate on doing what’s good for me.

When there is contact, you have to start again. Typically it wakes up dormant feelings. No contact, it is easier to keep asleep those feelings.

remembering the bad and reasons for why we broke up, thinking about the best thing for the two of us. i found out the i can detach pretty easily if i wanted but it takes effort

Posted by aquasnoz

1. Buy lot of alcohol

2. Drink said lots of alcohol

3. Embrace cathartic release from said alcohol

4. Confront said person with courage provided by alcohol

5. Buy a bit more alcohol

6. Wallow in self pity in the shower, by the corner of the shower, while consuming extra alcohol

7. Repeat above until self improvement.

thinking about opening a bar named midnight painkiller

You did not fully break up with her. You need closure and release from the relationship. You must accept your faults and ask for forgiveness. Even if it wasn't your fault, denial or doubt will keep you from maturing naturally. If she does not accept your apology, your attempt will help you release the bondage of guilt or hope.

Fucking someone new only hinders maturity and growth. Just like drinking to forget is a delay in becoming complete and whole.

Your purpose in looking for the one(11:11) is to learn, grow or make better. One should never leave someone in a worst position they found you in. You should secure or prepare them for their next relationship regardless if it didn't work out for you.

Posted by SureShotCap

You did not fully break up with her. You need closure and release from the relationship. You must accept your faults and ask for forgiveness. Even if it wasn't your fault, denial or doubt will keep you from maturing naturally. If she does not accept your apology, your attempt will help you release the bondage of guilt or hope.

Fucking someone new only hinders maturity and growth. Just like drinking to forget is a delay in becoming complete and whole.

Your purpose in looking for the one(11:11) is to learn, grow or make better. One should never leave someone in a worst position they found you in. You should secure or prepare them for their next relationship regardless if it didn't work out for you.

Counterpoint drinking and casual sex sound like fun though.

I could never do the ladder though. I envy those who can have one night stands.

I'm not wired that way though