I cat relate.

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Mohini on Thursday, May 26, 2016 and has 20 replies.

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@Mohini
10 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Im not broken. but maybe close to it. I cannot relate to men.

How do you relate to men. Or women. Both sexes answer please?

Why.

Why am I such a loner? Fear?

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@boxcarmirnta
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Try to learn the art of gratitude. There aren't a lot of reliable men out there. Try to be grateful of their presence. Maybe something crappy happened in your childhood...who knows..but..damn

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@wagtail
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Mohini

Posted by wagtail
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wat do you mean - mohini you awesome how do you mean
Examples pleash

I mean, I avoid men. Reliable, eliable men... I run. I feel like I can't offer anything. Of course I can... but I can't.

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Sooo you meet a nice guy, and you self sabotage?
Like, you have no self confidence or like, you go full retard...

Are you afraid of letting someone get close?

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@Mohini
10 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Something holds me back. Like as a ritual. I'm not dsfinf material. But I am. And I'm not like I used to be, outgoininf free..

Im calculated and detemined.

The other night. I woke up st 2am. Ate ceral on mg couch snd watched netflix ... how xsn anyone love me when I'm dead set with being independent?

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@wagtail
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Mohini
Something holds me back. Like as a ritual. I'm not dsfinf material. But I am. And I'm not like I used to be, outgoininf free..

Im calculated and detemined.

The other night. I woke up st 2am. Ate ceral on mg couch snd watched netflix ... how xsn anyone love me when I'm dead set with being independent?

OHHH nah dude, that shiett is da bom tho...
Like, you can be that way and someone will still love you.
I mean with women too, there are gals out there who can be friends and will take a call at 2am coz you wanna rave about the latest episode on Netflix or there's a guy out there who will just laugh and let you do you your thing, or bring you cookies while you stay up or wat have you...
there's nothing actually wrong with you, stop stressing babe

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@Quantum
10 Years1,000+ Posts

This guy seems like a good match for you

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/my-life-is-terrible-and-so-is-my-birth-chart-6421062/?p=8

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@Mohini
10 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by wagtail

Posted by Mohini

Posted by wagtail
😢
wat do you mean - mohini you awesome how do you mean
Examples pleash

I mean, I avoid men. Reliable, eliable men... I run. I feel like I can't offer anything. Of course I can... but I can't.

Sooo you meet a nice guy, and you self sabotage?
Like, you have no self confidence or like, you go full retard...

Are you afraid of letting someone get close?

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Yes

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@wagtail
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by sadpopcorn
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i am not a fan.

I Brunch and I vote 😡
I also consider napping a competitive sport

@Mohini if you aren't certifiably depressed you're probably just going through a phase.
You know, figuring you out first before figuring out what you want from others, either way it's perfectly okay to do you 🙂

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@boxcarmirnta
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Wow thanks!! And hey man you're welcome too!! Not only has this worked for me its worked for millions of others..but yea. Fuck that.

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@Mohini
10 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I find it extremely easy to be around men.

Way more than women.

I swear like a sailor, I like to play video games, I enjoy wrestling and play fighting, I like to get down and dirty (not like that get your mind out of the gutter), I like playing sports, I like to get together with my guy friends and play spades while we sip on some liquor and trash talk each other for laughs.

I'm just a straight up Tomboy.

I have yet to meet another woman like myself who enjoys doing all of these things, but isn't a butch lesbian.

Hahaha. Yep. #tomboyprettygirl

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