Why is my ex commenting and liking my sisters Facebook post?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Stensco21 on Saturday, May 14, 2016 and has 43 replies.

Why Your Ex Is Commenting on Your Sister's Facebook Posts

Your ex may be engaging with your sister's posts to stay connected or seek attention. This behavior could indicate lingering feelings or an attempt to stay involved in your life indirectly. Understanding his motives can help you decide how to respond or set boundaries.

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I broke up with him a year ago and now he's all over my sisters Facebook. Not really flirty just commenting and liking stuff. I know he's not attracted to her and still has feelings for me. But why is he doing this?

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Posted by Stensco21
I broke up with him a year ago and now he's all over my sisters Facebook. Not really flirty just commenting and liking stuff. I know he's not attracted to her and still has feelings for me. But why is he doing this?

A 3some with sisters is a fantasy of many.

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Lol she's a textbook psychopath. I have cut ties w her long ago after she tried to ruin my life so hence my asking why they r talking

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Posted by Stensco21
Lol she's a textbook psychopath. I have cut ties w her long ago after she tried to ruin my life so hence my asking why they r talking

He may still like her. Are you sure he doesn't? Wouldn't be the first time someone likes a psychopath.

...or he's trying to get your attention.

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Posted by PrincessLouise

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Posted by Stensco21
Lol she's a textbook psychopath. I have cut ties w her long ago after she tried to ruin my life so hence my asking why they r talking

He may still like her. Are you sure he doesn't? Wouldn't be the first time someone likes a psychopath.

...or he's trying to get your attention.

He doesn't. It's just a connection to her.

OP someone mentioned saying 'hey you make a cute couple go for it' flushing it out. I would wager it will. If he genuinely feels you are wanting him to have a happy contented love life he will stop trying to play games.

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How do you know?

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Posted by PrincessLouise

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Posted by PrincessLouise

Posted by HappyCapper

Posted by Stensco21
Lol she's a textbook psychopath. I have cut ties w her long ago after she tried to ruin my life so hence my asking why they r talking

He may still like her. Are you sure he doesn't? Wouldn't be the first time someone likes a psychopath.

...or he's trying to get your attention.

He doesn't. It's just a connection to her.

OP someone mentioned saying 'hey you make a cute couple go for it' flushing it out. I would wager it will. If he genuinely feels you are wanting him to have a happy contented love life he will stop trying to play games.

How do you know?

Well if he really likes her then let him be with her.

If I were playing games that's how i would do it. If I thought someone had feelings for me. And if they said hey go for it when I found the hottest guy could. I would stop it. Because I would realize it was stupid.

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Agreed. I was just curious as to how you could possibly know, that's all. Thanks for your response.🙂

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It's called mutual friends and I even admitted I still care so you're argument is going nowhere. You sound like a loser