krysrenee7
@krysrenee7
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If you can't stand the heat...
It's like everybody sits in a chair with a King hat on, sits around grading everybody's report card & watching to see who all can prove themselves & who all is willing to put all their cards on the table, while yet never acknowledging that the other person has needs & needs some see some 'proving' too!
Sometimes it's those very same people who are the farthest away from being ready for a relationship.
They blaim everybody for why they're not happy or in love.
They look for flaws instead of just admitting that the person in front of them is 'so far so good'
They want someone who will take the 'risk' for love but yet when it's time for them to do the same? Silence, accompanied by a decrease in phone calls/texts.
They want people to give things & have traits that they themselves don't even have or aren't willing to give.
The worst part about these kinds of people? They really TRULY believe themselves when they swear to want/be ready for love. Smh smh
Sometimes it's those very same people who are the farthest away from being ready for a relationship.
They blaim everybody for why they're not happy or in love.
They look for flaws instead of just admitting that the person in front of them is 'so far so good'
They want someone who will take the 'risk' for love but yet when it's time for them to do the same? Silence, accompanied by a decrease in phone calls/texts.
They want people to give things & have traits that they themselves don't even have or aren't willing to give.
The worst part about these kinds of people? They really TRULY believe themselves when they swear to want/be ready for love. Smh smh
Posted by krysrenee7
Get out of the kitchen man!
There's 2 types of people I can't stand:
1. Those who get in situations that require fidelity, loyalty, honesty & love (cough: relationships) only to end up cheating, betraying, lying, etc.
2. Those who swear they're ready for love & yet when they come across a good thing, cower, find an excuse or conveinant reason why they can't commit, then run off as if they never wasted everybody's time!
My friends were just telling me how many people go out there looking for love or a "good thing" but yet when they find it, they get scared, realize they weren't ready & run off like dogs with tails between their legs!
It's all fun & games when you come across people you know aren't right for you or your type
BUT it's another thing to get what you wished for & come across good quality people. Then what?!
You better make sure you're ready/equipped for the real thing b/c you never know when that person will slide into your life!
I'm not knocking those who aren't out there looking & advertising for love b/c they know they're not ready for it. We respect your honesty & prefer you call us WHEN you are ready
I'm talking about the folks that are the 1st ones on these online dating sites,(or wherever) yelling to high heaven & begging God to send them a 'good thing' only to end up cowering when those prayers are answered!
Guys/ladies, if you're not ready, that's FINE but stay away from the people who are!! Sheeeeesh
I think the problem is that people DO want to be in relationships and be loyal.
Its just that they want those things with people who dont feel the same for them.
Let's say you're a good man. You want a good woman & hey that's understandable.
BUT imagine yourself as the 'good woman' & you come across the guy. You notice he's allowing his fear of failure to outweigh whatever feelings he has for you, along with other things.
At that point, are you most likely to be turned off OR turned on? Does seeing someone who allows fear to win every time give you the incentive to invest your all, especially knowing that it may not even make a difference?
NO! You have to be what you want someone to be/do for you. If you want a partner whose ready, you better be ready. If you want them to be confident & lack baggage, you've gotta be on the same accord.
Alot of people swear good things don't come by them but I disagree. It's not that good things don't come; God does his part.
WE are the 1's who surrender to fear, then act like deer in headlights & like we don't 'get it' when we realize we're still single months/years later
BUT imagine yourself as the 'good woman' & you come across the guy. You notice he's allowing his fear of failure to outweigh whatever feelings he has for you, along with other things.
At that point, are you most likely to be turned off OR turned on? Does seeing someone who allows fear to win every time give you the incentive to invest your all, especially knowing that it may not even make a difference?
NO! You have to be what you want someone to be/do for you. If you want a partner whose ready, you better be ready. If you want them to be confident & lack baggage, you've gotta be on the same accord.
Alot of people swear good things don't come by them but I disagree. It's not that good things don't come; God does his part.
WE are the 1's who surrender to fear, then act like deer in headlights & like we don't 'get it' when we realize we're still single months/years later
You don't need a start up to get the girl 25th.
Remember a house can burn down/be swept away in a flood/whatever, but your music will be there forever.
Great music blows me away and I am not that weird that no one else feels like that.
Do your thing. Love will do its thing. Make music for us!!
Remember a house can burn down/be swept away in a flood/whatever, but your music will be there forever.
Great music blows me away and I am not that weird that no one else feels like that.
Do your thing. Love will do its thing. Make music for us!!
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1. Those who get in situations that require fidelity, loyalty, honesty & love (cough: relationships) only to end up cheating, betraying, lying, etc.
2. Those who swear they're ready for love & yet when they come across a good thing, cower, find an excuse or conveinant reason why they can't commit, then run off as if they never wasted everybody's time!
My friends were just telling me how many people go out there looking for love or a "good thing" but yet when they find it, they get scared, realize they weren't ready & run off like dogs with tails between their legs!
It's all fun & games when you come across people you know aren't right for you or your type
BUT it's another thing to get what you wished for & come across good quality people. Then what?!
You better make sure you're ready/equipped for the real thing b/c you never know when that person will slide into your life!
I'm not knocking those who aren't out there looking & advertising for love b/c they know they're not ready for it. We respect your honesty & prefer you call us WHEN you are ready
I'm talking about the folks that are the 1st ones on these online dating sites,(or wherever) yelling to high heaven & begging God to send them a 'good thing' only to end up cowering when those prayers are answered!
Guys/ladies, if you're not ready, that's FINE but stay away from the people who are!! Sheeeeesh