If you found out that...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by krysrenee7 on Monday, October 14, 2013 and has 10 replies.

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@krysrenee7
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I want your opinion on each of these...

Your partner/spouse hooked up with your sibling or best friend back in the day, but both hid it from you....Would you stay? Who would get cut off, your partner or your sibling/friend, OR both?

Your partner/spouse killed someone on accident but refuses to come forward to the police.....Would you snitch? Stay with them?

Your partner/spouse knocked someone up/got knocked up...Would you stay? (Imagine you already have kids/a family with them & that your finances are so connected that it'd be very hard to support yourself on your own)

Your partner/spouse of 5+ years cheated on you during the 1st month of your relationship, but you know for a fact that they haven't cheated since...would you stay?

Your partner/spouse watches you get your azz kicked/jumped by a group of people (Imagine they could've jumped in & defended you)...Would you leave? Stay?

Your partner/spouse was really born the opposite sex, but had a sex change at a very young age...Would you stay?

Your partner/spouse is featured on a "Cheaters" website or some big billboard dedicated to exposing people for horrible things (Imagine these accusations are just rumors & NOT proven yet)...Would you stay?

Your partner/spouse secretly placed a hidden camera in the bedroom & filmed you 2 having sex...would you stay?

Your partner/spouse won the lottery but refused to share any of the winnings with you in any way...would you stay?

Your partner/spouse is secretly giving money/paying bills to their ex...would you stay?

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Your partner/spouse signed up for AND got accepted to participate in a reality TV show dedicated to competing for the opposite sex, but they claim they only wanna do it for the media exposure or money (Imagine a show like The Bachelor, the Bachelorette, or Flavor of love lol)...Would you stay?

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Your partner/spouse had 2 or more ex's before you that mysteriously vanished, got murdered or died suddenly...would you stay? Run like hell? Start your own investigation before you make a decision?

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@lisabethur8
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Lol at the questions.

alot of them are common sense though.

the one that made me lol is the question where your partner watches you get beat up.
what the hell?
you don't need enemies if you chose that type of person to be your life mate.

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@krysrenee7
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If my sister/best friend hooked up with my husband back in the day w/o telling me, I'd stay but I'd be pissed that they didn't tell me

I guess you guys have never heard of "Morality Tests." Dummies =P

And how are these questions "Common sense" when there are PLENTY of people already in these situations & are willingly putting up with it?! Let's not pretend like everybody's REAL answers deep down would be "Leave." smh

If my man killed someone but wouldn't come forward...well if he killed a child or something like that, I'd go to police. If not, I'd be harboring a criminal & I don't do that lol

If my man got a woman knocked up, I'd leave. Not only would that mean he cheated, it'd also mean that he put my health in jeopardy & possibly exposed me to an STD. Nope! Pack your sh**t & get out

If my man stood by & didn't do anything while I was getting beat up...Oh no he's gotta go.

If my man wanted to sell his soul for money on a reality show, I'd leave. I would never condone my man willingly cheating on me or acting a fool on tv for money. The fact that he'd embarrass himself on national TV means he'd also be embarrassing his family. Sell your soul to ME, not them dammit! lol

If I found my man on some crazy billboard/website, I would stay but def. do some investigating. Most people aren't gonna go to that level/extreme of exposing them unless you've REALLY REALLY pissed them off. They may not be pissed off about what they're trying to expose him for, but nonetheless pissed off about something!