QUESTION?

SPENT THE WEEKEND WITH SOME ONE I DATED WHEN I WAS 39
I 46 NOW WILL BE 47 IN JANUARY AHES 27
SHE WANTS TO MOVE IN WITH ME AND HAVE CHILDERN
DOES NAYONE SEE HOW THIS WOULD EVER WORK OUT

I JUST SEE ANOTHER ENTERY INTO THE BOOK OF COUNTED SORROWS.

She wants a relationship, marriage and children.
What's so hard to understand about that?
The question is, is she in love with you or just trying to fill a quota by being married with children by 30?

And no it won't end well because firstly, you don't seem to really want it.

Do it Mr. Tate! 🙂🙂

Take a chance—

If you have doubts don't do it.
Been long enough to figure it out.

I mentioned before about someone I knew in the past. A woman who was over 30 plus years senior the man.
But she takes care of him (she's his sugar momma) but he gives her what she wants.

Hey, Hugh Hefner's been doing it legally and for decades. *shrugs*

Look at the man. He's happy living in the moment, and diving into the eager arms of young women who give him what he wants. No judgement.

I used to be like, Omg...isn't that...kind of sick? But then as you get older, you just go...*shrug* I mean seriously, who are we?? Are we going to march over at the Hefner estate and tell him to "Let the young women go?" signs.

The young women are also going to get angry and upset at the nosey people not minding their business. See what I mean?

Tate, do you really want kids?

Seems like that is the most important question.

Go for it Tate, by the time she grows up and realizes what an asshole you really are, you can get a kid out of the deal.

Don't forget that pre-nup😉

She was 19 and you were 39? Are you rich or do you have a big........heart?

big penis and a long tongue

THANKS FOR THE ADVISE I THINK. IM NOT SURE WHAT ILL DO
I FALL IN LUST A LOT BUT ITS HARD TO EALL IN LOVE
GOT TO THINK ABOUT IT LET IT SINK IN.

What's the rush date again. She's changed since she was 20. So get to know her again then time will tell. I mean who say let's get married know based on a relationship ten years earlier. U need to get know know each other. She needs to step back herself n know the type n man n husband ull be

WE HAVE WENT OUT TOGETHER ON AND OFF OVER THE LAST 10 YEARS SHE HAS HAD OTHER BOYFRIENDS AND I HAVE HAD OTHER G/F I BROKE IT OFF 9 YEARS AGO BECAUSE OF THE AGE DIFFERANCE BUT NOW IT SEEMS DIFFERENT SHE NEVERED MARRIED SHE HAD MANY OPERTUINTYS TO. SHE TOLD ME SUNDAY NIGHT SHE WAS WAITING FOR ME TO GROW UP HA HA. I COULD RAISE A COUPLE OF KIDS BY THE TIME IM 70 IF I WERE IRISH WOULD SEEM NORMAL MOST IRISH MEN MARRY TEENS WHEN THEY ARE IN THERE 40'S

The one word that hasn't been mentioned throughout this discussion is the word LOVE.

Do you love this woman? Can you picture her as the mother of your children? Can you see having a long term, hopefully life-time relationship with her? Do you share common goals and values with regards to how to raise your children?

These are all important things to consider.

ITALIAN'S AT 40 MARRY 13 YEAR OLDS

WAIT I GOT THAT WRONG ITS MUSLIMS

Posted by truecap
Tate, do you really want kids?

Seems like that is the most important question.

Do you think you could be happy with kids? You're a lucky man to have such choices. Choose that which you will make you happy today and tomorrow.

I don't have a problem with the age difference in this scenario. I think Tate can handle it.

Posted by james tate
SPENT THE WEEKEND WITH SOME ONE I DATED WHEN I WAS 39
I 46 NOW WILL BE 47 IN JANUARY AHES 27
SHE WANTS TO MOVE IN WITH ME AND HAVE CHILDERN
DOES NAYONE SEE HOW THIS WOULD EVER WORK OUT

I JUST SEE ANOTHER ENTERY INTO THE BOOK OF COUNTED SORROWS.

lol do you want the same things at all? if you do then this could work

IT'S OBVIOUS WHAT THE 29 YEAR OLD IS DOING WITH THE 60 YEAR OLD.

She's digging for gold.

A girl that is with a man more than 15 years her senior is looking for two things, a daddy and his money. Believe me I know.

Then when they get to be forty something, they regress and start going with men 15 years their junior. 🙂

Saggy balls are nasty.

Posted by geminicandIe

Posted by DeeG
IT'S OBVIOUS WHAT THE 29 YEAR OLD IS DOING WITH THE 60 YEAR OLD.

She's digging for gold.

A girl that is with a man more than 15 years her senior is looking for two things, a daddy and his money. Believe me I know.

Then when they get to be forty something, they regress and start going with men 15 years their junior. 🙂

DG, I would agree except for this girl has her own money. She comes from money and is in a good career. I don't know about any possible daddy issues.
From what I understand, she likes his attention and style /charm/power/authority. I guess he is some sorta big shot guy.

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People with money, want MORE MONEY! Big Shot guy like her daddy maybe? She comes from money...her daddies money. She might as well have stayed home. Doesn't look like much of a difference.

Posted by geminicandIe
And I know a ton of 40something divorcees going out with men young enough to be their son!

What's up with that? Are they doing it to piss off their former husband?

NO, they just don't like saggy balls. Older women go for younger men, for the same reasons older men go for younger women.

saggy balls.
THEY DONT SAG YET AND THE ROD IS STILL HARD
UNLIKE THE DROUPY TITS YOU GOT THERE.
THOSE SUCKERS WILL BE ON YOUR KNEE CAPS IN A YEAR OR TWO

Posted by james tate
saggy balls.
THEY DONT SAG YET AND THE ROD IS STILL HARD
UNLIKE THE DROUPY TITS YOU GOT THERE.
THOSE SUCKERS WILL BE ON YOUR KNEE CAPS IN A YEAR OR TWO

Women go and get boob jobs though. The only thing that STAYS is the wrinkled neck.

But they're going to find a way to make the neck wrinkle free. They stretch it out and stretch it out.

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Posted by geminicandIe

Posted by DeeG
IT'S OBVIOUS WHAT THE 29 YEAR OLD IS DOING WITH THE 60 YEAR OLD.

She's digging for gold.

A girl that is with a man more than 15 years her senior is looking for two things, a daddy and his money. Believe me I know.

Then when they get to be forty something, they regress and start going with men 15 years their junior. 🙂

DG, I would agree except for this girl has her own money. She comes from money and is in a good career. I don't know about any possible daddy issues.
From what I understand, she likes his attention and style /charm/power/authority. I guess he is some sorta big shot guy.

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I would like to open up about something in my family. I can trust you guys with it anyway, it's not too detailed but enough information to go on.

My great-great uncle is a Libra Sun, and he's in his middle 90s, and his wife died long ago, so he shacked up with a 40 something hot looking woman, still in beautiful shape, good family, her father is an cheif petty officer in the U.S. Navy, mother is a doctor, so obviously her family background isn't poor. (unless they are irresponsible and bankrupt) but anyway, she hooked up with him and it made him super happy. But then his family didnt like it and tore her butt up (meaning they made life a living hell for her) because they hated the gold digger they thought she was. But he proclaimed she comes from good stock, good family and she could get ANYONE she wanted. True, she had the looks and the career. She also worked as an administrator in some company, or something in that field. so she had her money. Her excuse? She said she loved him very much and hated younger men or men her age cause they abuse her terribly.
but after a year or so of the abuse from the family, she picked up her bags and left. Said she can't take it anymore. In the end....my great great uncle grieved her abandonment. What is the moral of the story?

THE ONLY MORAL I SEE IS SOMETIME FAMILYS SUCK. THEY SHOULD BE ASHAMED
MY FATHER WHO LIVES IN THE STATES LIVES WITH A WOMAN WHO IS IN HER 40'S SHE WAS IN HER 30'S WHEN SHE STARTED LIVING WITH HIM. HES 70 NOW. HE HAS A DAUGHTER WHO DID NOT LIKE IT HE TOLD HER TO GET OVER IT. I DON'T THINK SHE LIKES IT BUT SHE SAYS NOTHING AND HIS G/F AND DAUGHTER GET ALONG. I THINK THE REASON IS HE ISN'T THE TYPE TO TAKE SHIT FROM ANYONE.SHE IS DAMN GOOD LOOKING BUT HAD A BAD 15 YEARS MARRIED A REAL WANGER MY DAD TREATS HER WELL I THINK THAT IS A LOT OF IT.

WO WHAT HAPPEN TO MY AVI?

WTF NOW THERE BACK

I can't recall....did you ever mention her Starsign Mr. Tate?

I can't recall....did you ever mention her Starsign Mr. Tate?



I NEVER ASK HER BUT SHES A FISH PISCIES
SHE IS MOVING IN THIS WEEKEND
SHE USED TO WORK AT THE LOCAL PUB GOT A JOB IN THE CITY
SHE IS TAKING A LEAVE FOR A MONTH
SHE SAYS SHE CAN GO BACK PART TIME AT THE PUB

IM SENDING YOU A PM ABOUT THE REST