Is drinking a excuse for cheating?

My ex boyfriend went to a little get together and he got drunk off of hard liquor! The girl he cheated on me with had four smirnoffs! They did it and she had a boyfriend at the time! He told me a month and half later when i told him she was pregnant! He told me that he thought he had something to do with the girl being pregnant! Whos knows she had another guy the same week! Now she's a mother to a baby boy! N don't know who the baby daddy is! I really don't beleive its his cuz he tried to get me pregnant for over a month and nothing happend! So how can she get pregnant over a one night stand? N there is nothing wrong with me i've been checked!

no excuse, agree with Gemgal

No excuse..dump his sorry ass..it will happen again if you allow it to continue this time.

4 smirnoffs? oh the shame..LOL..lightweight!

Is this serious?

You need to call Maury. Lol.

"He told me a month and half later when i told him she was pregnant!"

"Now she's a mother to a baby boy! N don't know who the baby daddy is! I really don't beleive its his cuz he tried to get me pregnant for over a month and nothing happend!"



Wow, nine months just flew by.

You told him she was pregnant, which in my mind would equal ==== she's your friend/associate.


For those who replied in reference to her being with him, please read below extraction from the OP ....


"My ex boyfriend"


Key word ... EX

MissRamirez ... what does it matter if it's his or not?

He's not yours to worry about ... and if she would sleep around like that without sexual protection .. then she deserves to be sitting there not knowing who is the father of her child.

Let her suffer for a while, trying to figure it out .. it's the least she deserves.


It could be much worse than an unexpected pregnancy ..... this sleeping around with various men without protection.

You'd be wise never to sleep with him again, nor any man who would have sex without protection, for that matter.

"I really don't beleive its his cuz he tried to get me pregnant for over a month and nothing happend! So how can she get pregnant over a one night stand? N there is nothing wrong with me i've been checked!"


Sorry to be so harsh but, your an idiot.Forget your whole way of thinking on this situation.Be thankful your not the babies mother,and run.

Sounds like a bunch of 15 yr olds got their hands on some beer.

Is drinking a excuse for cheating?

It's an Oldie, but a Goodie!

Ummm.. how old are you, and why was he trying to get you pregnant— Sounds like he got what he wanted... a child.

I say a alcohol only brings out what was already inside.

i think your being ( no disrespect) stupid just cause he cant get you pregnant doesn't mean that he didn't get her pregnant. and further more you just giving him the ok to cheat now every time he sleeps with someone else all he is gonna tell you is that he was drunk.

I can't believe any of you are responding to this seriously.