Great In Bed??

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by DyarStra?e on Friday, March 20, 2009 and has 11 replies.

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@DyarStra?e
18 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

What do we really mean by that expression?

Passion, intensity, enthusiasm?

Number, frequency, consistency of orgasms?

Novelty, kinkiness, experimentation?

Or, is it so subjective that it defies analysis??

Y'all have a great weekend!

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

I always say if you like sex with all what it means (giving and taking), it's hard to fail. Kinkiness and experimentation is a matter of taste as has nothing to do with how good you are. Same goes for frequency. If you want it a lot and you hook up with someone who's settled with once a week, that doesen't make that person a bad lover (if he's present when it matters), it only means you have a different sex drive. That same person would probably be a great lover to someone who has a similiar sex drive. Why am I even saying this, I think it's pretty obvious.

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@DyarStra?e
18 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

WinterBorn: I think it should be called grateful in bed.

Touch?!!

However, I was first single in my 20s, then married for about 20 years, and then single again in my 40s. The dating rules changed during that time, and I was surprised at how quickly women would sleep with a guy they really didn't know that well... It was easier to get laid at middle age than when I was at college. Not complaining, just making an observation...

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

I think it's all about the 2 people and how they satisfy each other. I've been with someone who satisfied me in every posible way and as frequently as I and he wanted. We were on a par with each other sexually and it was explosive!

The last guy and (I have to say he was a Scorp)...as all the Scorps here seem to think they are the best lovers...

he was fantastic with the foreplay but fizzled somewhat when I was hoping for an explosive ending... but I think we weren't completely in sync.

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@pinkladie
17 Years

"not hard(he he) unless they're stubborn and/or you're timid."

It's always the young ones thinking they can really put it down.Boy, u still have milk on ya breath.lol