@wheelhomies
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IS IT WRONG?
That's cold LOL!
Posted by The-Dream
That's cold LOL!
don't hold back, dream! tell me how you really feel. 🙂
Posted by wheelhomies
to have sex with someone you know has feelings for you when you don't have the same feelings for them, but you're just really curious to see how they are in the sack?can any good result from this?
IF you have made them aware that the feelings aren't mutual and that you are only interested in some booty - then no it isn't wrong.
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Posted by wheelhomies
to have sex with someone you know has feelings for you when you don't have the same feelings for them, but you're just really curious to see how they are in the sack?can any good result from this?
IF you have made them aware that the feelings aren't mutual and that you are only interested in some booty - then no it isn't wrong.
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I agree...if you make it clear, then I think it could work. Hell, he will probably like the idea of at least just trying it out too see what it's like too. Who knows...it could open up a new world and you may find yourself liking him more. OR...it could go really bad and it could ruin the friendship. It's a fine line, but being open and honest is the key.
Wheelie,
No black and white answer on this one.
1. He's a guy He may have hurt feelings but more likely that not, he'll walk away saying, well at least I got a little "something something" from her. Just being real
2. Really depends on your communication and maturity level with the guy.
3. You might find yourself enthralled with the boy afterwards. Upon which we'll see one of these....
Wheelie Thread: "HOW COME (Insert Sign-X here) MAN WON'T TALK TO ME ANYMORE AFTER SEX?!?!?!?!??!?!!!!!!#% !% ^@# $ ^@#^ "
(I kid)
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
Who calls it 'the sack'—? It's like when guys call girls waste gash?? like what?
Hell to the no in sleeping with someone who likes you-yes a def no.
i'm sorry that my phrasing bothered you.
Posted by wheelhomies
Posted by The-Dream
That's cold LOL!
don't hold back, dream! tell me how you really feel. 🙂
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Pro's : Maybe good sex.
If your horny then you can release it LOL.
Con's : Hurt His feeling's.
Lose a friendship over a few min's of passion.
You may even catch feeling's.
Too many If's, and's, or after wards and he may not look at you as the same.
Posted by Shaks
eh
that's very interesting. could you elaborate?
WH - It's not wrong, as a female, to assert yourself sexually. Just make sure he straps up.
I do see other posters saying that you may gain feelings after the encounter - If you think you can separate sex from emotions then go for what you know. I can't separate them, although I've never tried, because if I'm boinking someone I have emotions/attachment for him. I've never laid eyes on a dude who I just wanted to bed.
To paraphrase, instead of saying you're ''curious'' why not just say "i'm up for having sex and this guy looks like an easy way to get it what should i do—". No offense but what if he's thinking the same as you?
Posted by calthrope
To paraphrase, instead of saying you're ''curious'' why not just say "i'm up for having sex and this guy looks like an easy way to get it what should i do—". No offense but what if he's thinking the same as you?
none taken. but when did i say that i was thinking about doing this?
You mean you don't want your sack filled? Fair enough.
Posted by wheelhomies
to have sex with someone you know has feelings for you when you don't have the same feelings for them, but you're just really curious to see how they are in the sack?can any good result from this?
ummmmmm ......... well, from one Aqua mooner to another ..... kinda, maybe, not really ...
Posted by cappysweetieummmmmm ......... well, from one Aqua mooner to another ..... kinda, maybe, not really ...
haha, to which question?
Be funny for that to be your only intention and you start catching feelings...it happens...be careful
Posted by wheelhomies
Posted by cappysweetieummmmmm ......... well, from one Aqua mooner to another ..... kinda, maybe, not really ...
haha, to which question?
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The OP 🙂
Posted by cappysweetie
Posted by wheelhomies
Posted by cappysweetieummmmmm ......... well, from one Aqua mooner to another ..... kinda, maybe, not really ...
haha, to which question?
The OP 🙂
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gotcha
I Dont Think Its Nescessarily Wrong, However...
It Could Be Seen As Leading Them On, It Is Quite Dangerous Territory
Especially If The Person Is A Friend
Worst Case Scenario.....You Lose A Friend !!
aww domino. you are so cute. i mean it.
Posted by Domino
Posted by Shaks
eh
eh indeeds. Sex is something to be cherished, not used as a social tool. There are too many responsibilities around it and emotions to be played with. : \
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I like this post.
^ i don't know who you are, but i sure like the way you think.
:O I DO KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! haha, & of course i like the way you think. 😄 sneakyyyy.
sometime you jus have to step in the game to find out lol hey never know tho, mabe after sex the feelin build up. That happen to my rl friend, Oo after that they date and been together for almost 5 year hahaha.
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to have sex with someone you know has feelings for you when you don't have the same feelings for them, but you're just really curious to see how they are in the sack?
can any good result from this?