Just bitches .......

...... that's it.

Sure would be nice if someone talked about something actually good with their relationship, instead of just what they want to bitch about.

That should be a challenge everybody puts to themselves ..... look at your relationship, is there anythign that makes you happy, at all? Or, is everything just fucked up and the only thing you want to do is come here and bitch about it?

P,

You had a thread up a week or so ago about the good things about people's respective S/O's. That was nice

Posted by sagigoat
lol @ bella. you make me laugh sometimes good sense of humor 😄

i have million or billion nice things to say but i have been trying so very hard to say less to not gross ppl out lol also i have this strange feeling that if i say too much i'm not projecting him or us well enough

I'm like this too sagigoat. My relationship is a little rocky (as to be expected with Aries and Scorpio) but it's really good too. There are some things that I could bitch about but nothing extream. I guess I AM getting married very shortly so the whole newly wed/honeymoon thing is still in effect with us 😉
Sometimes he's a male chauvinist cave man type jerk but......he's an Aries and a paratrooper to boot. What the hell should I expect? I love him for who he is. I'm not perfect by FAR. We love each other flaws and all. 🙂

If life was so perfect and everyone came here to tell us all so....none of us would be here!!!

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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I was going to sign up,I thought this was a thread just for us bitches.hmpf.

hehe, ^ THIS

To make a thread about people bitching about relationships where your bitching about people bitching about relations is just silly.

/thread.

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Exactly...agreed!
And there are several threads in which people are asked what their experiences are like with this sign or another sign. I've noticed it's not just a bitch fest, they also tell you what's good too.
People come here for help and advice and it's usually because something's just not right in their relationship.

Posted by sweethearts
If life was so perfect and everyone came here to tell us all so....none of us would be here!!!

No truer words were spoken sweethearts! Human nature dictates that people prefer to seek out bad things versus good. Look at all these horrible talk shows on t.v.(well, they are horrible to me) Yes, they may have a few people/shows where they talk about good things, but invariably it's all a bunch of people bitching about - "I don't know who my babies daddy is...; He's been cheating on me w/my best friend...;etc." All those judge shows are absolutely asinine (to me) because it's a bunch of people getting their five minutes of fame by embarrassing themselves on t.v. My point is that people LOVE all of that stuff. My dad watches that stuff, and tons of people I know do too. If it was all positive and nice stories it would = low/no ratings, and guess what - it would be off the air in no time flat.
People don't necessarily come to DXP to read horrible things, but from some of the biggest threads out there, people definitely want to read and comment on those "less than perfect" relationships.

Posted by Domino

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I was going to sign up,I thought this was a thread just for us bitches.hmpf.

hehe, ^ THIS

To make a thread about people bitching about relationships where your bitching about people bitching about relations is just silly.

/thread.

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This makes sense

Posted by VirgoHero
P,

You had a thread up a week or so ago about the good things about people's respective S/O's. That was nice

Yeah, VirgoHero, it was nice for me too.

I wish people would share stuff like that ...

"People come here for help and advice and it's usually because something's just not right in their relationship."

Right, Ram .. that is what I am referring to.

If people (mostly women) come here to start threads about how fucked up a sign is .. then all other people who come here .... see that 99% of the threads are about these men being this way.

It's unfathomable, how many times I've heard newbies make their first threads, saying something like ...

..... I've been lurking for a while, and just now decided to join because I have this problem and I thought it was just me, but, it looks like all (sign) men are like this ...... I don't know what to do, can someone help me.

It's sad .... because by people in here only coming to bitch about thier relationships ... they are successfully making ALL men of those signs in having the same bad characteristic. We are the ones who are teaching these newbies to astrology how fucked up a sign is ... not something they've read from like Linda Goodman, or summat, for she talks about "good" qualities ...

.. it's here in dxp and other astrology sites where people only go to bitch, where this is being created in the mind of those who are trying to learn astrology ..... we set/program in thier minds ..... how fucked up a sign is.

Very few people actually start good threads about relationships.

I like nub ^_^.

I agree Xfoosme, that people feel a connection when they see that others have problems just like them, etc. But after awhile if you keep having the same problems, then you may want to look inward and see how to make a positive change in your life, versus having a perpetual pity party.

Posted by sagigoat
"I AM getting married very shortly so the whole newly wed/honeymoon thing is still in effect with us"

awww ginger congratulations!!! 🍹 🍹 🍹 🙂

(*whispers into the wind" i hope i don't instantly lose the honeymoon feeling thinking the M word so let's drag it as long as possible lol 😉 )

Thanks for the congrats!! I was nervous but now I'm really ready for this. An Aries and a Scorp. What the hell am I getting myself into?!?! LOL

You're thinking the M word? Really? Yay! It's never easy to live with a Scorpio but it sounds like you guys have a great relationship. We Scorps tend to settle down with our wicked ways 😛 when we find the one that makes us want to be good people. 🙂

I would honestly share more stuff about how good my relationship is but it's sorta "our" thing. Of course I like talking about us and how well we get along for the type of people we are but frankly some of my stuff is gag worthy (not sex stuff just the lovey sweet stuff). Seriously if I were to read the things I could write about us it would be .........just really toothache sweet pukish.

The man does cute things that amaze me every single day. I get a kick out of some of the things he does. It's not always like that but mostly...... yeah.

Like when we moved into the new house and he took one of the extra bedrooms to have a "guy" room. He has all his "guy" things in there. Seriously it's like a HeMan woman haters club for adult men. 😛 It's freaking adorable. I'm not "allowed" to clean it because it's a "man's room" and it's suppose to be a little messy. Normally that messy shit wouldn't fly with me but that's HIS room HE claimed to hang out with. You should see him when his buddies first came over. He was like a little kid jumping up and down wanting to show his friends "his" room. *shakes head* How freaking cute it that?

See? It's just gag worthy. 🙂 I warned ya!

what's good? lotsa love, baby.

Posted by Domino
P-Angle, all this positive thinking? I dunno, I think we need to talk about our relationship. I just don't think it is going to work out. I enjoyed the good times we hard; all the insults and off-topic discussions we had, but I don't know if we are working out. By the way, I found another woman that can satisfy me better. I'm sorry, but we are just not going to be able to be together anymore. It was fun while it lasted, but I just don't know what to think with you anymore.

This should make the DXP Weekend update!!!

P-Angel ....I am not in a LT relationship and I am completely happy. Does that count—

PD

Posted by Pisces_Dream
P-Angel ....I am not in a LT relationship and I am completely happy. Does that count—

PD

You are never in a long-term relationship .... does that count?

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Pisces_Dream
P-Angel ....I am not in a LT relationship and I am completely happy. Does that count—

PD

You are never in a long-term relationship .... does that count?

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The last one I was in was in 2005. It was the worst three years of my life. I was not happy. Needless to say, I don't go around jumping into LT relations for the sake of having one. I am looking for the right person. Perhaps my standards are really high, especially after that experience in 2005. I usually don't wait around for it to get bad, I usually just end it. Also it is an age thing. It is really hard to date when you get in your 30's. All the great one's are already attached. The unattached one's my age tend to have cargo attached them with women issues. I have resorted to dating young ....and man is that fun .....but there is a huge maturity gap that is sometimes hard to conquer. So therefor ....this lady treads alone but I am fine with that. I get to do what I want, spend my money the way I want, and not have to worry about some jealous or jerk ass bf. Of course I sometimes miss the closeness but finding the right one is like finding the prize in a cracker jack box ....I know it is in there somewhere. Until than, I keep enjoying the sweet taste of variety of men. 😛

PD

Something positive - I am currently at the point in my relationship where anything can happen. Things are fresh and exciting. When I am with him I get butterflies in my stomach and i can't wait to talk to him to see how his day is. I feel as though he has been placed in my life for a reason...not to just take up space like some of the assholes who I have dated in the past. I am infatuated to say the least and it feels good! 🙂

Infatuation feels better than love, actuallly .... infatuatin doesn't have any expectations like love does .. it just keeps feeling exciting and great no matter what.

Posted by P-Angel
Infatuation feels better than love, actuallly .... infatuatin doesn't have any expectations like love does .. it just keeps feeling exciting and great no matter what.

It's when the infatuation begins to subside and more substantial feelings begin to form and surface - is when it gets scary. But I'm enjoying the ride for now. Just have to learn to let go and COMPLETELY enjoy it...even with its uncertainty.

Posted by P-Angel
Infatuation feels better than love, actuallly .... infatuatin doesn't have any expectations like love does .. it just keeps feeling exciting and great no matter what.

Very true on this. Infatuations is kind of intoxicating. 😛

Too intoxicating and entirely untrustworthy.

There isn't much to say about my relationship because it is stable and happy. I picked a great guy, as a result, I have a great relationship. *shrug*

He is kind, generous, funny, caring, gentle, and an all round wonderful person. He is very creative and fun. He's very supportive and a great listener. He's very reliable. He just has good character.

As a result, I feel happy, safe, sound, and secure. There is very little to tell. We are like an old married couple with all the security and none of the drama.

My cat lives with him (long story about that) and I must say there is something very endearing about waking up in the middle of the night and seeing your very dainty little cat sleeping on a monstrous guy.

I could talk about the meatloaf he made or the dinner he took me to but it is pretty standard day to day stuff. In fact, it is pretty boring.

I use to stay up late just talking to him because I was enjoying myself so much I didn't want to sleep. (I'm a libra. You don't mess with my sleep.)

My only real complaint is the man is MESSY. Why the hell do Aries boys have to be so messy? Aside from that, I have it really good.

Why the hell do Aries boys have to be so messy?

LOL I hear ya.
Luckily mine has enough military background that his messes are tolerable but still to Ms. Little OCD Scorp...... it's a little troubling to me.
Oh well. It's almost relaxing to me to clean and to be able to clean up after him.

Doing laundry really relaxes me 😛

Posted by P-Angel
Infatuation feels better than love, actuallly .... infatuatin doesn't have any expectations like love does .. it just keeps feeling exciting and great no matter what.

Hells Yeah!!! Can't we all just be infatuated?.... the world would be a better place!! LOL!